Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Please accept my sympathy on the loss of your husband and your children's father. My youngest son is also 13. He is strong and yet still a little boy inside as I know your son must be too. And yet what a comfort he has been in all this. I am sure you will draw strength from having him with you, just as he draws strength from you. Your husband's spirit lives on in your children. May they be a comfort to you as you remember the good times you all shared. Hugs to you and prayers that God wrap His loving arms around you and give you peace. Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Please accept my sympathy on the loss of your husband and your children's father. My youngest son is also 13. He is strong and yet still a little boy inside as I know your son must be too. And yet what a comfort he has been in all this. I am sure you will draw strength from having him with you, just as he draws strength from you. Your husband's spirit lives on in your children. May they be a comfort to you as you remember the good times you all shared. Hugs to you and prayers that God wrap His loving arms around you and give you peace. Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Please accept my sympathy on the loss of your husband and your children's father. My youngest son is also 13. He is strong and yet still a little boy inside as I know your son must be too. And yet what a comfort he has been in all this. I am sure you will draw strength from having him with you, just as he draws strength from you. Your husband's spirit lives on in your children. May they be a comfort to you as you remember the good times you all shared. Hugs to you and prayers that God wrap His loving arms around you and give you peace. Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I just want to add my condolences to those of others. I hope you and your children find peace and acceptance upon their father's passing. My prayers are with you. > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I just want to add my condolences to those of others. I hope you and your children find peace and acceptance upon their father's passing. My prayers are with you. > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I just want to add my condolences to those of others. I hope you and your children find peace and acceptance upon their father's passing. My prayers are with you. > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I just want to add my condolences to those of others. I hope you and your children find peace and acceptance upon their father's passing. My prayers are with you. > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I just want to add my condolences to those of others. I hope you and your children find peace and acceptance upon their father's passing. My prayers are with you. > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 I just want to add my condolences to those of others. I hope you and your children find peace and acceptance upon their father's passing. My prayers are with you. > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 , I can not express how sorry I am for your family's loss. Words are never enough but please know that we are all thinking of you at this time of sorrow. This is the saying we had on the back of my mothers mass cards and I think it says how she felt in the end. Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free I'm following the path God laid for me I took his hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work or play Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that place at the close of day. If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Ah yes, these things, I too, will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorrow. My life's been full, I savored much Good friends, good times a loved one's touch. Perhaps my times seemed all too brief Don't lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me Go wanted me now, He set me free. Sending love from the heart........ Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 , I can not express how sorry I am for your family's loss. Words are never enough but please know that we are all thinking of you at this time of sorrow. This is the saying we had on the back of my mothers mass cards and I think it says how she felt in the end. Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free I'm following the path God laid for me I took his hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work or play Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that place at the close of day. If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Ah yes, these things, I too, will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorrow. My life's been full, I savored much Good friends, good times a loved one's touch. Perhaps my times seemed all too brief Don't lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me Go wanted me now, He set me free. Sending love from the heart........ Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 , I can not express how sorry I am for your family's loss. Words are never enough but please know that we are all thinking of you at this time of sorrow. This is the saying we had on the back of my mothers mass cards and I think it says how she felt in the end. Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free I'm following the path God laid for me I took his hand when I heard him call I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day To laugh, to love, to work or play Tasks left undone must stay that way I found that place at the close of day. If my parting has left a void Then fill it with remembered joy A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss Ah yes, these things, I too, will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorrow. My life's been full, I savored much Good friends, good times a loved one's touch. Perhaps my times seemed all too brief Don't lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me Go wanted me now, He set me free. Sending love from the heart........ Jennie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 So very sorry to hear of this,Your hubby,you and family have given this a long hard fight,sending prayers to be with you and your family to get thru this time! Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 So very sorry to hear of this,Your hubby,you and family have given this a long hard fight,sending prayers to be with you and your family to get thru this time! Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 So very sorry to hear of this,Your hubby,you and family have given this a long hard fight,sending prayers to be with you and your family to get thru this time! Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 H I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. I pray that God's loving comfort will enfold you and that you will be able to find comfort in that his suffering and pain has ended. Sometimes I wonder if the suffering helps us to release them more willingly. I sure know that right now with my husband there have been many times that I have felt that he would be better off in Heaven than here suffering as he does. But then he'll have a good day or two and I feel ashamed for thinking that. You and your son will be in my thoughts and prayers. Becky Beach caregiver to Jeff, diag 8/01 recurred 5/03 with liver and abd mets 10-03 took 5 treatments 5fu/leu/cpt11 12-03 decided against further chemo 05-04 entered hospice p.s.we have 2 boys ages 12 and 4 1/2 > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 H I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. I pray that God's loving comfort will enfold you and that you will be able to find comfort in that his suffering and pain has ended. Sometimes I wonder if the suffering helps us to release them more willingly. I sure know that right now with my husband there have been many times that I have felt that he would be better off in Heaven than here suffering as he does. But then he'll have a good day or two and I feel ashamed for thinking that. You and your son will be in my thoughts and prayers. Becky Beach caregiver to Jeff, diag 8/01 recurred 5/03 with liver and abd mets 10-03 took 5 treatments 5fu/leu/cpt11 12-03 decided against further chemo 05-04 entered hospice p.s.we have 2 boys ages 12 and 4 1/2 > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 H I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. I pray that God's loving comfort will enfold you and that you will be able to find comfort in that his suffering and pain has ended. Sometimes I wonder if the suffering helps us to release them more willingly. I sure know that right now with my husband there have been many times that I have felt that he would be better off in Heaven than here suffering as he does. But then he'll have a good day or two and I feel ashamed for thinking that. You and your son will be in my thoughts and prayers. Becky Beach caregiver to Jeff, diag 8/01 recurred 5/03 with liver and abd mets 10-03 took 5 treatments 5fu/leu/cpt11 12-03 decided against further chemo 05-04 entered hospice p.s.we have 2 boys ages 12 and 4 1/2 > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 Dear , Just wanted to let you know your grief is shared. Karima Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 , All I can say is I'm sorry. I know that's not enough. May God be with you. Hugs, Judy > > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first > chemo > > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left > this > > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > > through this. > > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > > support you've given me throughout this journey. > > Hugs & Prayers, > > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 , All I can say is I'm sorry. I know that's not enough. May God be with you. Hugs, Judy > > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first > chemo > > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left > this > > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > > through this. > > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > > support you've given me throughout this journey. > > Hugs & Prayers, > > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2004 Report Share Posted August 22, 2004 , All I can say is I'm sorry. I know that's not enough. May God be with you. Hugs, Judy > > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first > chemo > > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left > this > > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > > through this. > > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > > support you've given me throughout this journey. > > Hugs & Prayers, > > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 , Somewhere I read this line: " There is a hole in my soul, and all of the joy is leaking out. " Losing your beloved husband is a terrible blow. I wish that there were some magic words to comfort you, but I know that nothing can change how you feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sharon > Just wanted to let all of you know that my husband passed away > tuesday evening(8/17),at home,with all of our children and I at his > side.People ask how I feel and I find it a very rediculous question > that has no answer.I am empty,he was the love of my life, my > partner,my rock,my anchor,my best friend,the wind beneath my > wings.The funeral was yesterday,exactly 1 year since his first chemo > treatment. I could not bring myself to send this message until > now.The house is so quiet tonight,the 3 older children all left this > afternoon and the other relatives as well,so my 13 yr old son and I > are alone for the first time.Somehow,with God's help,we will get > through this. > While I miss him so very much,I can not wish him back as he was in > so much pain and suffering so.I know he is in heaven and will watch > over us still.I am thankful for all the wonderful years we had > together(21+)and all the memories we will always cherish. > I also want to thank my cyber friends for all of the help and > support you've given me throughout this journey. > Hugs & Prayers, > H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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