Guest guest Posted January 11, 2011 Report Share Posted January 11, 2011 Hi T, I haven't had experience going NC but I have with the triangulation, with the being put in the middle between my mother and brother. " Mom said you said.... " " Did you know your brother is seeing that girl .....?? You'd better talk to him about this and talk him out of.... " " Mom is driving me crazy....but I feel so bad for her she's so oooold. " " You know Mom's mad at you about....you're in trouble. " And I admit, until I began getting therapy and really thinking about why I was behaving certain ways, I was also active in the triangulation. I agree with you that it's a game. It's a dance. And the other members of my triangle didn't like it when I made it clear I wasn't dancing anymore. It got pretty ugly. good for you for getting free of it. Fiona > > Good evening to all. > > I am in the process of going NC with my nada as she did not respect my boundaries. Not surprised, was just hoping things could be different. > > It has been 8 weeks since I last had contact. Now I am hearing from my brothers and sister about how bad nada is. I'm pretty sure it's a game so I'm waiting to see what happens. > > Have any of you had similar experiences? What was your experience? > > Thanks! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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