Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 Hey all. Just a rant. Time, Money, Work. That's all my mom is to me. Exhaustive Time, Money and Work. I get nothing in return. In fact, I get less than nothing. And she keeps coming up with ways to try to engage me because I don't want to have anything to do with her. Ugh. I wish she'd just leave me alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 I can name that tune in 3 seconds! LOL Sorry. I was feeling that way about my mom and then getting abuse because the money wasn't enough, the time wasn't enough and I wasn't being family enough even though I was exhausting myself, my bank account and my sanity. Finally I had to cry uncle. I'm done. I decided I no longer help people not willing to help themselves. Rescue is a trap for a co-dependent and I am one. So, like an alcoholic steers clear of alcohol, I must steer clear of those in need of rescue. Hang in there. You will find a way for you to be okay. If you're strong enough to deal with a BPD nada, you are practically superhuman. Big hugs and many blessings to you! > > Hey all. Just a rant. Time, Money, Work. That's all my mom is to me. Exhaustive Time, Money and Work. I get nothing in return. In fact, I get less than nothing. And she keeps coming up with ways to try to engage me because I don't want to have anything to do with her. Ugh. I wish she'd just leave me alone. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 I so know how you feel! I just posted a thread saying almost the exact same thing. Casey > > Hey all. Just a rant. Time, Money, Work. That's all my mom is to me. Exhaustive Time, Money and Work. I get nothing in return. In fact, I get less than nothing. And she keeps coming up with ways to try to engage me because I don't want to have anything to do with her. Ugh. I wish she'd just leave me alone. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 I so know how you feel! I just posted a thread saying almost the exact same thing. Casey > > Hey all. Just a rant. Time, Money, Work. That's all my mom is to me. Exhaustive Time, Money and Work. I get nothing in return. In fact, I get less than nothing. And she keeps coming up with ways to try to engage me because I don't want to have anything to do with her. Ugh. I wish she'd just leave me alone. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2011 Report Share Posted January 22, 2011 I so know how you feel! I just posted a thread saying almost the exact same thing. Casey > > Hey all. Just a rant. Time, Money, Work. That's all my mom is to me. Exhaustive Time, Money and Work. I get nothing in return. In fact, I get less than nothing. And she keeps coming up with ways to try to engage me because I don't want to have anything to do with her. Ugh. I wish she'd just leave me alone. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 It's worse when they really can't take care of themselves, only you didn't know how bad the problems would be and signed as their POA with the understanding that all you would be doing was seeing to their final affairs. I didn't know the " final affairs " would start long before they died, stretch on ad infinitum, and devour everything left that made my life happy and worth living. I filled out their paperwork for social services and I only hope and pray that they will take some of the burden off. Work is getting busier and busier and there's no way to slow that down, and there needs to be some way to make my life worth living again. My worst fear is that social services will say no, or that they won't qualify for anything because they have " too much money. " All I want to do in life is write. I haven't been able to write anything new on my novel since OCTOBER. Pray for me. --. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 It's worse when they really can't take care of themselves, only you didn't know how bad the problems would be and signed as their POA with the understanding that all you would be doing was seeing to their final affairs. I didn't know the " final affairs " would start long before they died, stretch on ad infinitum, and devour everything left that made my life happy and worth living. I filled out their paperwork for social services and I only hope and pray that they will take some of the burden off. Work is getting busier and busier and there's no way to slow that down, and there needs to be some way to make my life worth living again. My worst fear is that social services will say no, or that they won't qualify for anything because they have " too much money. " All I want to do in life is write. I haven't been able to write anything new on my novel since OCTOBER. Pray for me. --. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 It's worse when they really can't take care of themselves, only you didn't know how bad the problems would be and signed as their POA with the understanding that all you would be doing was seeing to their final affairs. I didn't know the " final affairs " would start long before they died, stretch on ad infinitum, and devour everything left that made my life happy and worth living. I filled out their paperwork for social services and I only hope and pray that they will take some of the burden off. Work is getting busier and busier and there's no way to slow that down, and there needs to be some way to make my life worth living again. My worst fear is that social services will say no, or that they won't qualify for anything because they have " too much money. " All I want to do in life is write. I haven't been able to write anything new on my novel since OCTOBER. Pray for me. --. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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