Guest guest Posted January 30, 2011 Report Share Posted January 30, 2011 Oh Lord and what would her side be? I bet it would be lengthy! XOXO On Sun, Jan 30, 2011 at 6:37 PM, anuria67854 wrote: > > > Good for you and hubby! Have you and he started reading the various books > about setting and maintaining healthy boundaries and not permitting yourself > to endure abusive behaviors, such as " Stop Walking On Eggshells " and > " Boundaries " and " Co-dependent No More " ? > > -Annie > > > > > > > I am actually the daughter-in-law, but I've managed to get my husband to > start reading this site and the information here has been great and you all > have been so supportive. > > > > Hubby had quite the discussion with his nada the other day and I just had > to share. First of all, let me say, hubby is learning how to separate > himself. He has done an amazing job in so many ways. When she called and he > was getting ready to call her back, he knew what he was in for and we went > over how to handle it. But, he still gets sucked in. So, the call didn't go > well, to say the least and it was an hour and a half of the same old stuff > she always throws at him. > > > > But here's the best part - when she was mad at him for not doing this or > that, he casually mentioned that he had joined a support group and that it > was helping him deal with their estranged relationship. He said he was doing > it to better understand it and to help him deal with it. > > > > Well, she completely lost it! Her response was " But they don't know MY > side! " " How can you tell other people about me? I don't get a chance to > defend myself. " > > > > He explained the support group was for HIM, not her. She wouldn't hear > any of it. She went on and on. > > > > It honestly made me laugh. (What else can I do, right?) Classic nada. > Just had to share. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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