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Need this to be quick as I live in Australia and we are about to be hit by one

of the biggest cyclones this country has ever seen.

Haven't talked to Nada in a year and she turns 6o next week. Just received and

email from a flying monkey informing me to get my daughter to call Nada for her

birthday and let her know we are all ok. She ended with " This is not too much

to ask is it? " Obviously Nada is draining this monkey with drama of my current

situation. Nada lives away and would be seeing it all over the news.

I haven't responded and I am fumming. We are headed for a National Disaster and

they want ME to ring Nada for her BIRTHDAY and to let

her know we are ok. HELLO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

At first I wanted to email and tell flying monkey to you know what??????

After the rage has gone and I didn't react straight away to what I know was the

wrong response, I am now left dumb founded on the craziness of it all.

I have so much more to think about as it is all hitting in 24 hrs. Please

anyone send me some peace of mind to get this situation out of my mind so I can

focus on what is happening in our town.

That is how much affect Bpd and all the Nada stuff has over me that it put the

cyclone out of my mind when it is a serious threat and I need to be focused

again on my own life.

Kazam x

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I don't blame you one bit for being angry about that flying monkey call! Any

reasonable person would absolutely not worry about getting a birthday call

during a huge cyclone--it's absolutely insane to think otherwise.

Now that I think about it--it is insanity we're talking about here, isn't

it? Well, BPD sure comes close to insanity, I think! If people give you any

grief about not calling your " poor mother, because it's your MOOOTHERRR,

just tell them, Sorry, I've been dealing with shit of my own, thanks. I

think a big cyclone and my safety and that of my family trumps birthday

wishes.

You can call her AFTER you pick up all the pieces from the cyclone--on

another thought, you could say, " Gotta make this quick, but just wanted to

call and say " happy birthday. " have to go now, the wind is blowing away my

dog Toto, and I don't want to land in OZ myself. Bye! "

and then you can absolutely ignore anything else your mom or flying monkeys

say, because you have a good excuse. Mother Nature trumps Mother Nada in all

situations, in my opinion.

Holly

>

>

> Need this to be quick as I live in Australia and we are about to be hit by

> one of the biggest cyclones this country has ever seen.

> Haven't talked to Nada in a year and she turns 6o next week. Just received

> and email from a flying monkey informing me to get my daughter to call Nada

> for her birthday and let her know we are all ok. She ended with " This is not

> too much to ask is it? " Obviously Nada is draining this monkey with drama of

> my current situation. Nada lives away and would be seeing it all over the

> news.

> I haven't responded and I am fumming. We are headed for a National Disaster

> and they want ME to ring Nada for her BIRTHDAY and to let

> her know we are ok. HELLO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

> At first I wanted to email and tell flying monkey to you know what??????

> After the rage has gone and I didn't react straight away to what I know was

> the wrong response, I am now left dumb founded on the craziness of it all.

> I have so much more to think about as it is all hitting in 24 hrs. Please

> anyone send me some peace of mind to get this situation out of my mind so I

> can focus on what is happening in our town.

> That is how much affect Bpd and all the Nada stuff has over me that it put

> the cyclone out of my mind when it is a serious threat and I need to be

> focused again on my own life.

> Kazam x

>

>

>

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I don't blame you one bit for being angry about that flying monkey call! Any

reasonable person would absolutely not worry about getting a birthday call

during a huge cyclone--it's absolutely insane to think otherwise.

Now that I think about it--it is insanity we're talking about here, isn't

it? Well, BPD sure comes close to insanity, I think! If people give you any

grief about not calling your " poor mother, because it's your MOOOTHERRR,

just tell them, Sorry, I've been dealing with shit of my own, thanks. I

think a big cyclone and my safety and that of my family trumps birthday

wishes.

You can call her AFTER you pick up all the pieces from the cyclone--on

another thought, you could say, " Gotta make this quick, but just wanted to

call and say " happy birthday. " have to go now, the wind is blowing away my

dog Toto, and I don't want to land in OZ myself. Bye! "

and then you can absolutely ignore anything else your mom or flying monkeys

say, because you have a good excuse. Mother Nature trumps Mother Nada in all

situations, in my opinion.

Holly

>

>

> Need this to be quick as I live in Australia and we are about to be hit by

> one of the biggest cyclones this country has ever seen.

> Haven't talked to Nada in a year and she turns 6o next week. Just received

> and email from a flying monkey informing me to get my daughter to call Nada

> for her birthday and let her know we are all ok. She ended with " This is not

> too much to ask is it? " Obviously Nada is draining this monkey with drama of

> my current situation. Nada lives away and would be seeing it all over the

> news.

> I haven't responded and I am fumming. We are headed for a National Disaster

> and they want ME to ring Nada for her BIRTHDAY and to let

> her know we are ok. HELLO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

> At first I wanted to email and tell flying monkey to you know what??????

> After the rage has gone and I didn't react straight away to what I know was

> the wrong response, I am now left dumb founded on the craziness of it all.

> I have so much more to think about as it is all hitting in 24 hrs. Please

> anyone send me some peace of mind to get this situation out of my mind so I

> can focus on what is happening in our town.

> That is how much affect Bpd and all the Nada stuff has over me that it put

> the cyclone out of my mind when it is a serious threat and I need to be

> focused again on my own life.

> Kazam x

>

>

>

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Don't let nada or her minions distract you; focus on what's important: keeping

yourself and your family safe and well. Ignore the flying monkey. Maybe block

that flying monkey from your e-mail account, too.

*Ting!*

Glenda the Good Witch just magically exploded the flying monkey;

'bye monkey!

-Annie

>

> Thanks so much everyone I love you all. I knew you guys would make me feel

better and understand it all. Thanks for your support and great feedback. I

agree with everyone of you. Thanks for your quick responses too. So much

anxiety already without all the other BS to deal with.

> I suppose if anything it confirms why I am NC and nothing will ever change.

> Kazam x

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Don't let nada or her minions distract you; focus on what's important: keeping

yourself and your family safe and well. Ignore the flying monkey. Maybe block

that flying monkey from your e-mail account, too.

*Ting!*

Glenda the Good Witch just magically exploded the flying monkey;

'bye monkey!

-Annie

>

> Thanks so much everyone I love you all. I knew you guys would make me feel

better and understand it all. Thanks for your support and great feedback. I

agree with everyone of you. Thanks for your quick responses too. So much

anxiety already without all the other BS to deal with.

> I suppose if anything it confirms why I am NC and nothing will ever change.

> Kazam x

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Yeah I definately want to block her but not sure how to do it I did try as soon

as she contacted. Will look into it.

Thanks

Kazam

> >

> > Thanks so much everyone I love you all. I knew you guys would make me feel

better and understand it all. Thanks for your support and great feedback. I

agree with everyone of you. Thanks for your quick responses too. So much

anxiety already without all the other BS to deal with.

> > I suppose if anything it confirms why I am NC and nothing will ever change.

> > Kazam x

>

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We live inland but are still taking precautions. Mainly people near the beach

are having to move.

It really is amazing how " Nada situation can eclipse real life stuff. "

I think that is what I was so surprised about. Even after a year it still feels

so raw when something like that happens and there is still a physical reaction

that stops me short.

I can't wait until that goes away if it ever does.

Kazam x

>

> Stay safe Kazam! I just looked up the cyclone in the news and it looks bad -

are you going to have to evacuate? I know the stress of a nada situation can

eclipse serious real life stuff - for me too. At least the flying monkey used

email...easier to delete, ignore, or send a brief reply after the hurricane is

past at your leisure.

>

>

>

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We live inland but are still taking precautions. Mainly people near the beach

are having to move.

It really is amazing how " Nada situation can eclipse real life stuff. "

I think that is what I was so surprised about. Even after a year it still feels

so raw when something like that happens and there is still a physical reaction

that stops me short.

I can't wait until that goes away if it ever does.

Kazam x

>

> Stay safe Kazam! I just looked up the cyclone in the news and it looks bad -

are you going to have to evacuate? I know the stress of a nada situation can

eclipse serious real life stuff - for me too. At least the flying monkey used

email...easier to delete, ignore, or send a brief reply after the hurricane is

past at your leisure.

>

>

>

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