Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 I am laughing and crying at the same time over all of the " voice " threads and this is another really good thread. I can not get over how we have all had the same experiences. Fada has the victim voice " can I please have just a little glass of water " My bi-polar son went nuts one time and said " no! you have to have a big glass of water " There is no comparison between a bi-polar who takes his meds and strives to be well and a BPD who wallows in their mental illness and enjoys every minute of it. Fada has the " you done me wrong voice " I was going out of town for a two day training and I left him beautiful fresh tomatoes among a lot of other things for his meals and he managed to somehow shout through clenched teeth " one of the tomatoes has a bad spot on it " It was an indentation left from the stem it wasn't even discolored. There is the backhanded compliment voice " This is a good meal " stress on the this as if I've served him bad food on all other meals. There is the " who will do ____________ for me? " voice. There is the I'm a victim everything bad happens to me voice. I love you guys! I'm so glad you brought up voices. I thought I was the only one who wanted to scream when a Fada or Nada opens their mouth. Kay > > Yep yep, I know the clenched teeth voice too. Mine was good for that too. > Pardon my existence for not having heard you the first time. I have to say, > she'd never survive with my fiance... half the time if he's watching TV or > on his computer, you have to repeat yourself because he's so absorbed lol. > I've just gotten in the habbit of just saying his name first to get his > attention because I do get kind of warn out repeating myself all the time. > But I don't do the clenched teeth voice, I just say it again and don't get > a 'tude. The man's relaxing for crying out loud. > > Yeah, clenched teeth angry " how dare I should have to repeat myself " voice. > YUCK. > > I also agree... nada's voice in general grates my nerves like finger nails > on a chalk board. > > Mia > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2011 Report Share Posted January 23, 2011 I am laughing and crying at the same time over all of the " voice " threads and this is another really good thread. I can not get over how we have all had the same experiences. Fada has the victim voice " can I please have just a little glass of water " My bi-polar son went nuts one time and said " no! you have to have a big glass of water " There is no comparison between a bi-polar who takes his meds and strives to be well and a BPD who wallows in their mental illness and enjoys every minute of it. Fada has the " you done me wrong voice " I was going out of town for a two day training and I left him beautiful fresh tomatoes among a lot of other things for his meals and he managed to somehow shout through clenched teeth " one of the tomatoes has a bad spot on it " It was an indentation left from the stem it wasn't even discolored. There is the backhanded compliment voice " This is a good meal " stress on the this as if I've served him bad food on all other meals. There is the " who will do ____________ for me? " voice. There is the I'm a victim everything bad happens to me voice. I love you guys! I'm so glad you brought up voices. I thought I was the only one who wanted to scream when a Fada or Nada opens their mouth. Kay > > Yep yep, I know the clenched teeth voice too. Mine was good for that too. > Pardon my existence for not having heard you the first time. I have to say, > she'd never survive with my fiance... half the time if he's watching TV or > on his computer, you have to repeat yourself because he's so absorbed lol. > I've just gotten in the habbit of just saying his name first to get his > attention because I do get kind of warn out repeating myself all the time. > But I don't do the clenched teeth voice, I just say it again and don't get > a 'tude. The man's relaxing for crying out loud. > > Yeah, clenched teeth angry " how dare I should have to repeat myself " voice. > YUCK. > > I also agree... nada's voice in general grates my nerves like finger nails > on a chalk board. > > Mia > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2011 Report Share Posted January 24, 2011 My stepmom has the nasty condescending voice. I can duplicate it fairly well, but it's hard to do in an email situation.  You can't get the inflection right. Janet   Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.  In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.  Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.  It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones. Proverbs 3:5-8 ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Sun, January 23, 2011 6:14:12 PM Subject: Re: The Voice  AGGGHHHH! My Nada has the baby voice which makes me want to peel my own skin off, AND she has the talking through clenched teeth voice, which she uses if you don't hear her the first time and ask her to repeat herself. The baby voice makes me so angry---you're not a baby for christ's sake! You're a 67 year old woman!!! And the clenched teeth voice is so EMBARASSING because she'll do it to complete strangers and its just RUDE. She acts like if you don't hear her then you're deliberately ignoring her or disrespecting her or something. I don't know what her problem is. Her voice in general gives me the heebee jeebies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2011 Report Share Posted January 24, 2011 My stepmom has the nasty condescending voice. I can duplicate it fairly well, but it's hard to do in an email situation.  You can't get the inflection right. Janet   Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.  In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.  Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.  It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones. Proverbs 3:5-8 ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Sun, January 23, 2011 6:14:12 PM Subject: Re: The Voice  AGGGHHHH! My Nada has the baby voice which makes me want to peel my own skin off, AND she has the talking through clenched teeth voice, which she uses if you don't hear her the first time and ask her to repeat herself. The baby voice makes me so angry---you're not a baby for christ's sake! You're a 67 year old woman!!! And the clenched teeth voice is so EMBARASSING because she'll do it to complete strangers and its just RUDE. She acts like if you don't hear her then you're deliberately ignoring her or disrespecting her or something. I don't know what her problem is. Her voice in general gives me the heebee jeebies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 24, 2011 Report Share Posted January 24, 2011 My stepmom has the nasty condescending voice. I can duplicate it fairly well, but it's hard to do in an email situation.  You can't get the inflection right. Janet   Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.  In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.  Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil.  It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones. Proverbs 3:5-8 ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Sun, January 23, 2011 6:14:12 PM Subject: Re: The Voice  AGGGHHHH! My Nada has the baby voice which makes me want to peel my own skin off, AND she has the talking through clenched teeth voice, which she uses if you don't hear her the first time and ask her to repeat herself. The baby voice makes me so angry---you're not a baby for christ's sake! You're a 67 year old woman!!! And the clenched teeth voice is so EMBARASSING because she'll do it to complete strangers and its just RUDE. She acts like if you don't hear her then you're deliberately ignoring her or disrespecting her or something. I don't know what her problem is. Her voice in general gives me the heebee jeebies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2011 Report Share Posted January 25, 2011 My nada does the clenched teeth version........very mad-dog-like. The clenched teeth, spitting, firey eyes; very frightening. Fada ignors it (as usual). He'll actually say he doesn't know what you're talking about. Nada pulls out the " baby voice " if you call her on the " clenched teeth face " in front of anyone......I could puke. Laurie In a message dated 1/23/2011 7:14:33 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, ambertolina@... writes: AGGGHHHH! My Nada has the baby voice which makes me want to peel my own skin off, AND she has the talking through clenched teeth voice, which she uses if you don't hear her the first time and ask her to repeat herself. The baby voice makes me so angry---you're not a baby for christ's sake! You're a 67 year old woman!!! And the clenched teeth voice is so EMBARASSING because she'll do it to complete strangers and its just RUDE. She acts like if you don't hear her then you're deliberately ignoring her or disrespecting her or something. I don't know what her problem is. Her voice in general gives me the heebee jeebies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2011 Report Share Posted January 25, 2011 My nada does the clenched teeth version........very mad-dog-like. The clenched teeth, spitting, firey eyes; very frightening. Fada ignors it (as usual). He'll actually say he doesn't know what you're talking about. Nada pulls out the " baby voice " if you call her on the " clenched teeth face " in front of anyone......I could puke. Laurie In a message dated 1/23/2011 7:14:33 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, ambertolina@... writes: AGGGHHHH! My Nada has the baby voice which makes me want to peel my own skin off, AND she has the talking through clenched teeth voice, which she uses if you don't hear her the first time and ask her to repeat herself. The baby voice makes me so angry---you're not a baby for christ's sake! You're a 67 year old woman!!! And the clenched teeth voice is so EMBARASSING because she'll do it to complete strangers and its just RUDE. She acts like if you don't hear her then you're deliberately ignoring her or disrespecting her or something. I don't know what her problem is. Her voice in general gives me the heebee jeebies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 25, 2011 Report Share Posted January 25, 2011 My nada does the clenched teeth version........very mad-dog-like. The clenched teeth, spitting, firey eyes; very frightening. Fada ignors it (as usual). He'll actually say he doesn't know what you're talking about. Nada pulls out the " baby voice " if you call her on the " clenched teeth face " in front of anyone......I could puke. Laurie In a message dated 1/23/2011 7:14:33 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, ambertolina@... writes: AGGGHHHH! My Nada has the baby voice which makes me want to peel my own skin off, AND she has the talking through clenched teeth voice, which she uses if you don't hear her the first time and ask her to repeat herself. The baby voice makes me so angry---you're not a baby for christ's sake! You're a 67 year old woman!!! And the clenched teeth voice is so EMBARASSING because she'll do it to complete strangers and its just RUDE. She acts like if you don't hear her then you're deliberately ignoring her or disrespecting her or something. I don't know what her problem is. Her voice in general gives me the heebee jeebies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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