FWD: Forgiveness Taken from Myspace

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With Loving Thanks,Blessings & Gratitude To : Oh puhleeze!!! The SKY is YOUR limit NOT MINE!

Date: Nov 25, 2007 2:18 PM

RE: FORGIVENESS

right on time Venus thanks for the pass on...

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From: Venus

Date: Nov 25, 2007 7:07 PM

Beautifully stated. Forgiveness is a purely selfish act for self-preservation. If you want to feel better and move on forgive... forgive you, forgive me... forgive, forgive, forgive! Namaste'

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From: Odyssey Spirit ~~tina~~

Date: Nov 24, 2007 10:12 AM

From: ♥ AngelsOnCloud18 ♥

Date: Nov 24, 2007 7:11 AM

Thank you for sharing these beautiful thoughts Mirza

Forgiveness

So many people who have been abused, neglected, and or hurt in many other ways have great difficulty getting to true forgiveness. The way to get stuck and block yourself from forgiveness is to mistakenly believe that by holding on to your anger, rage, and hate that you are getting revenge upon the person you choose not to forgive. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Forgiveness is NOT about justifying anyone's wrong behaviour, ever. Forgiveness is not about forgetting. Forgiveness does not mean that you have to reconnect or have the person you want forgive involved in your life.

Forgiveness is remembering and making a choice to let go. The letting go is for you. Forgiveness is a gift that you can give to yourself. If you continue to hold the hurt, anger, and hate, you only hurt yourself. You are not hurting the person or persons that hurt you.

In order for forgiveness to be possible it is necessary to stop blaming. No matter how much we may have suffered as children we will stay stuck in our pain as long as we continue to blame our abusers for all that has gone asunder in our lives.

When we own our own issues, and when we realize that most of the things we are not pleased about in our lives are a direct result of our own choices, only this kind of ownership of our issues will enable us to move forward and to forgive.

Forgiveness is freedom.

-Ms. A.J. Mahari

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What a great clarification of forgiveness. It really is about self-preservation and letting go of harmful thoughts that pollute our minds and ultimately our bodies. Thanks for sharing. --von Baron