Grandhouse, Grandvan, Grandjob

[Guest guest]

Okay, this is really for those of you who are NC or LC with nada. I am being

facitious here, obviously, but if nada insists that she has rights to access

" HER granchildren " , my question is where is the ownership here? Does everything

that I have automatically become her grand-whatever? Does that mean she has a

right to drive my van because it is her " grandvan " ? Can she live in my house

because it is her " grandhouse " ? Is my job and income her " grandjob " ? I know

this sounds ridiculous, but I am pointing out how ridiculous it sounds to me

when she calls my children " HER " anything. I crawled my way into sanity from

her life, (my brother never did and so has no " grandkids " for her). How can she

insist she has any rights to children that I have? It makes about as much sense

to me as my analogies about her calling my possessions her grandvan, grandhouse,

grandjob. Anyone feel this way?