Guest guest Posted December 21, 2010 Report Share Posted December 21, 2010 i am a newbie to this site, and have only recently found my mother to have bpd. i have recently starting reading about it, and going to therapy to learn how to deal with her. I desperately want to have a relationship with her, and I had always been hoping that someday i'd see a change in her. I guess i delusionally thought one day she'd wake up and be normal. i'm now coming to the realization that that is never going to happen... the thing is i sometimes do have really good times with my mother. but the bad times are so bad that they truly overpower my relationship. I am recently married, and have been dealing with trying to introduce my husband to this world. it has been a challenge to say the least. and the drastic changes in my life have been echoed by an increased frequency and intensity of my mothers outbursts. in reading a great deal of material recently, i have seen very few people who still have any kind of working relationship with their bpd mother. anyone out there who has or who might be able to provide me with some pointers? THANKS! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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