a litte angry at my therapist

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I am seeing a new therapist and yes, I know it takes time to build a

relationship but in 3 sessions, I am still uncertain abiut him.

This is probably one of the most challenging times as I am really trying to

decide between two places: living in one country or another and with a 6 month

old baby. I am a single mom. In one country my baby will have maternal family

near.In the other, paternal family near.

In one I would feel happier than the other and too bad it is not where my family

is.

So I am sure you can understand the struggle.

I did decide to move near family while being on an unpaid leave in the United

States as I thought I was covering my B*** in case things didnt work out abroad.

Here where I am now, I went to interviews and I am applying to positions that

are opening in Feb.

I think I am being a responsible parent by looking for jobs, see how much they

pay and then decide where I want to stay.

Well..according to my therapist I am being a teeanger who depends on external

factors (job) to decide.

Really???

I am not saying he is wrong...I just want to say that I am uncertain

any thoughts on this?

any thoughts on what to consider before making up my mind?

Thanks