Guest guest Posted January 31, 2011 Report Share Posted January 31, 2011 Yep... heaven forbid you give attention to someone other than her. How dare you not care that she is fuming inside.... Of course I'm trying to talk & relate with you because I do get it. I don't think those things of you, but that's similar to what I believe goes through their heads. Mine was like that with my former step mom. She couldn't stand that I liked & even loved the woman. How dare me give love & attention to someone other than her. It's always all about the BPD. Mia > > > Hi all, I thought to share what I witness the other night with you guys. > You might have had the same experience too. My nada is not like most that > act up all the time. She is quiet for a while a long while and then all of a > sudden she comes out of her shell and shows what she's been hiding all the > time. > We went to a dinner party the other night to a family member's house which > she likes and dislikes !!?! As a guest I started to talk to this lady and > having a normal conversation. Prior to that my Nada had a fit with my fada > in the car so she was pissed to begin with. Guess what, Nada got very > agitated cause she was quiet and couldn't stand that. To her being quite > means DEATH. She started calling someone on the phone. Then abruptly left > the livingroom. Went to the other room asking the kids how they were doing. > Totally fake. Then came back more agitated, frustrated and angry. She was > fuming inside, I could feel it. Couldn't make eye contact with me. Ofcourse, > I didn't stop talking and at the same time observing her behaviour. My fada > was out of sorts too. > I was thinking, oh my goodness all this commotion is only because the > attention has been diverted from you, a sixty something year old woman. but > again when I picture her as a 3 year old it all makes sense. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2011 Report Share Posted January 31, 2011 Yep... heaven forbid you give attention to someone other than her. How dare you not care that she is fuming inside.... Of course I'm trying to talk & relate with you because I do get it. I don't think those things of you, but that's similar to what I believe goes through their heads. Mine was like that with my former step mom. She couldn't stand that I liked & even loved the woman. How dare me give love & attention to someone other than her. It's always all about the BPD. Mia > > > Hi all, I thought to share what I witness the other night with you guys. > You might have had the same experience too. My nada is not like most that > act up all the time. She is quiet for a while a long while and then all of a > sudden she comes out of her shell and shows what she's been hiding all the > time. > We went to a dinner party the other night to a family member's house which > she likes and dislikes !!?! As a guest I started to talk to this lady and > having a normal conversation. Prior to that my Nada had a fit with my fada > in the car so she was pissed to begin with. Guess what, Nada got very > agitated cause she was quiet and couldn't stand that. To her being quite > means DEATH. She started calling someone on the phone. Then abruptly left > the livingroom. Went to the other room asking the kids how they were doing. > Totally fake. Then came back more agitated, frustrated and angry. She was > fuming inside, I could feel it. Couldn't make eye contact with me. Ofcourse, > I didn't stop talking and at the same time observing her behaviour. My fada > was out of sorts too. > I was thinking, oh my goodness all this commotion is only because the > attention has been diverted from you, a sixty something year old woman. but > again when I picture her as a 3 year old it all makes sense. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2011 Report Share Posted January 31, 2011 Yep... heaven forbid you give attention to someone other than her. How dare you not care that she is fuming inside.... Of course I'm trying to talk & relate with you because I do get it. I don't think those things of you, but that's similar to what I believe goes through their heads. Mine was like that with my former step mom. She couldn't stand that I liked & even loved the woman. How dare me give love & attention to someone other than her. It's always all about the BPD. Mia > > > Hi all, I thought to share what I witness the other night with you guys. > You might have had the same experience too. My nada is not like most that > act up all the time. She is quiet for a while a long while and then all of a > sudden she comes out of her shell and shows what she's been hiding all the > time. > We went to a dinner party the other night to a family member's house which > she likes and dislikes !!?! As a guest I started to talk to this lady and > having a normal conversation. Prior to that my Nada had a fit with my fada > in the car so she was pissed to begin with. Guess what, Nada got very > agitated cause she was quiet and couldn't stand that. To her being quite > means DEATH. She started calling someone on the phone. Then abruptly left > the livingroom. Went to the other room asking the kids how they were doing. > Totally fake. Then came back more agitated, frustrated and angry. She was > fuming inside, I could feel it. Couldn't make eye contact with me. Ofcourse, > I didn't stop talking and at the same time observing her behaviour. My fada > was out of sorts too. > I was thinking, oh my goodness all this commotion is only because the > attention has been diverted from you, a sixty something year old woman. but > again when I picture her as a 3 year old it all makes sense. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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