Guest guest Posted January 24, 2011 Report Share Posted January 24, 2011 So upset right now! Even though I have been NC with my nada for 4 years, she " resurfaces " about every weeks. By resurface, i mean she will send me some 'anonymous' mail about mothers, leave something from my childhood on my front porch or send me an email asking me how i can live with myself for no speaking to her(as if she NEVER did anything wrong-ultimate victim)Now, she taken to Facebook to bash me and leave snide comments after i comment on our mutual friends statuses. SHe leaves these 'vague' comments right under mine that are meant to indirectly take jabs at me. Our mutual friend on Facebook was having a hard day and some trouble with anxiety but she was encouraged knowing God loved her and so i replied with a verse that has always helped me and some kind words and she replied " wow...that amazes me! " Right underneath my post. She also put her status the other day as " Hope-ing for truth to prevail in a sea of dishonesty " . My name is Hope. Obviously it doesn't take a genious to figure out who she was talking about. She is not my friend on FB but we have mutual friends and they have told me statuses she has written about me. I am very involved in church and whenever i offer Godly encouragement to a friend or a verse to help them---she will post some indirect jab like " so glad you have finally found religion or may you be so fortunate to find God's love, etc. ALways something nasty but not too nasty so people don't know she is really jabbing me. Whenever i see her name on my notifications---my heart pounds and i start to shake and my heart beats out of my chest. Ever since i saw her comment tonight---i'm trying really hard to not let this get to me but she is just so psycho. It;s really embarrasing for me too. This is a friend that really doesn't know the truth about my mom and i see her often. Should i just ignore what my mom put or should i try to explain to my friend briefly what is going on? I try not to talk about my mom to a lot of aquantances but when she does stuff like that on FB--they have to know something is wrong. What do i do??? Help please! I hate how she resurfaces just as i'm moving on... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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