Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 I know there is nothing that I can say that will make it any better. Just remember you are in my thoughts and prayers. Anita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 I know there is nothing that I can say that will make it any better. Just remember you are in my thoughts and prayers. Anita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 I know there is nothing that I can say that will make it any better. Just remember you are in my thoughts and prayers. Anita Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 > I know there is nothing that I can say that will make it any better. Just remember you are in my thoughts and prayers. > > Anita Thank you Anita, that means a lot to me. ~babette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 > I know there is nothing that I can say that will make it any better. Just remember you are in my thoughts and prayers. > > Anita Thank you Anita, that means a lot to me. ~babette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 Bernadette, I am so sorry about your husband passing. He was so young. Please know that I will remember you in my prayers. There's a lady on another list that I'm on that lost her husband unexpectedly recently. Maybe the two of you could help each other. Would you like her email address? I'll ask her about it too. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 Bernadette, I am so sorry about your husband passing. He was so young. Please know that I will remember you in my prayers. There's a lady on another list that I'm on that lost her husband unexpectedly recently. Maybe the two of you could help each other. Would you like her email address? I'll ask her about it too. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 7, 2004 Report Share Posted December 7, 2004 Bernadette, I am so sorry about your husband passing. He was so young. Please know that I will remember you in my prayers. There's a lady on another list that I'm on that lost her husband unexpectedly recently. Maybe the two of you could help each other. Would you like her email address? I'll ask her about it too. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Thanks Barb, that would be very nice of you ~ it may help both of us. Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. ~B Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Thanks Barb, that would be very nice of you ~ it may help both of us. Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. ~B Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Thanks Barb, that would be very nice of you ~ it may help both of us. Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. ~B Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, I am so sorry for you loss. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, I am so sorry for you loss. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, I am so sorry for you loss. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Her name is Suzy and she's older than you, I'm sure, (she's in her 50's), but I know it would help to talk to each other. I'll let her know and I'll email you privately with her email address. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Her name is Suzy and she's older than you, I'm sure, (she's in her 50's), but I know it would help to talk to each other. I'll let her know and I'll email you privately with her email address. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Her name is Suzy and she's older than you, I'm sure, (she's in her 50's), but I know it would help to talk to each other. I'll let her know and I'll email you privately with her email address. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, please send me your email address. I can't see but part of it. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, please send me your email address. I can't see but part of it. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, please send me your email address. I can't see but part of it. Barb Very Sad News Dear Friends, I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. Bernadette No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.6 - Release Date: 12/5/2004 Internal Virus Database is out-of-date.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Anti-Virus.Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.7 - Release Date: 12/7/2004 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Babette, *hugs* I know there is nothing I can say to make things better but I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad you are reaching out to your friends, we are all here for you. Feel free to IM, email whenever you want. I will give you my number again if you want it, and you can call me. (email me for it) You and I have been through a lot over the years and you were such a great friend during the passing of my Mom. I want to be there for you too, please reach out if you need ANYTHING! I added you to the prayer list at Church. You are in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs* ~Coco~ WW Online Flex Points Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Babette, *hugs* I know there is nothing I can say to make things better but I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad you are reaching out to your friends, we are all here for you. Feel free to IM, email whenever you want. I will give you my number again if you want it, and you can call me. (email me for it) You and I have been through a lot over the years and you were such a great friend during the passing of my Mom. I want to be there for you too, please reach out if you need ANYTHING! I added you to the prayer list at Church. You are in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs* ~Coco~ WW Online Flex Points Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Babette, *hugs* I know there is nothing I can say to make things better but I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad you are reaching out to your friends, we are all here for you. Feel free to IM, email whenever you want. I will give you my number again if you want it, and you can call me. (email me for it) You and I have been through a lot over the years and you were such a great friend during the passing of my Mom. I want to be there for you too, please reach out if you need ANYTHING! I added you to the prayer list at Church. You are in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs* ~Coco~ WW Online Flex Points Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, I'm sorry to hear about Jeff. I can see from your message that you love him very much. I know the pain is immense for you and you probably have to take it one day, if not one hour at a time. Please know that we are all here for you. I'll keep you in my prayers...and know that whenever you need to talk I'm here to listen. > Dear Friends, > > I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. > > I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. > > Bernadette > Internal Virus Database is out-of-date. > Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. > Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Bernadette, I'm sorry to hear about Jeff. I can see from your message that you love him very much. I know the pain is immense for you and you probably have to take it one day, if not one hour at a time. Please know that we are all here for you. I'll keep you in my prayers...and know that whenever you need to talk I'm here to listen. > Dear Friends, > > I've been out of touch for quite a while. I have some very sad news. Many of you may remember that Jeff (my husband) and I had bought our first house and were fixing it up. That's why I first disappeared ... we were so busy. However, that's not the reason why I stayed away. I'm finding it difficult to type this out, forgive my rambling. Okay, deep breath. Jeff passed away of a massive heart attack on October 7, 2004 ~ 10 days after his 40th birthday and one week before our 3rd anniversary. It's been 2 months now and the pain is as fresh as the night it happened. I found him in the office slumped over the keyboard. He had no facial expression of pain, that's the only thing that I'm grateful for ... he didn't suffer. I can't even describe how I'm feeling ... only that I'm taking one day at a time. My health has not been great as of late, but I'm under doctor's care and am getting better. It seems that Jeff's death was a great shock to my system and my immune system is not keeping up the way it should. > > I think that I need to start reaching out to others. Jeff was a wonderful man and a terrific husband. I'm lucky that I know that I was loved by such a special person. Please remember to tell the people closest to you how much you love them. I'm very glad that Jeff and I always expressed our love for each other everyday. > > Bernadette > Internal Virus Database is out-of-date. > Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. > Version: 7.0.289 / Virus Database: 265.4.4 - Release Date: 11/30/04 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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