Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Sorry I havent posted in a very long while. But I read every one of the posts and get soooooo much information from all of the moms and Chargers out there. Anywho, Kate will be 2 on the 15th of this month and so much has happened and not happened. Well she had a Bronch on Fri(for thoes who don't know, she has a trach due to trachal stenosis and malisia(SP?))ENT said that the Malisia is all gone:) but the stenosis is still small and needs to grow some more. Her tounge closes off her airway due to a small jaw, so he looked at that and said it was getting better too. He still thinks she's too small yet to go into a big surgery like a reconstruction at her age. So one more year with the trach. She is doing so much moving. Her energy level is through the roof, I wish I could bottle it and sell it. She is beggining to stand independently and took a half step and then twisted around and fell. She crawls very fast now and knows where she wants to go. She will stand at the window for an hour if I would let her, she loves the light. She has also learned to put her finger in her trach and " talk " . We will be trying the Passey Muir valve soon too. She still is 100% tube fed and is in st 2x's a week at Easter Seals. We will be starting Vital-Stim T. soon too so I hope that will give her a jump start. Now here comes the problem, she hits herself in the head with her open hand and smacks herself! How do we handle it. I've read some of the articles and we are trying to redirect her as much as possable but she still manages to do it. Sometimes I feel like I should just let her do it because it takes so much time and effort to stand or sit over her for hours and try to play to keep her hands busy. She does it in her sleep too and the nurses put the no-nos on her and she settles down. Do we put the no-nos on her during the day? I don't know? Anyway, Its late and I've got to go to bed. SLEEP Whats that!!! More to come later. I'll try to post more often. To all kiddos we are sending happy thoughts your way.. Love, Kim mom to Kate(CHaRGEr) and (2yrs old), Tyler(6) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hello Kim, You know Eva does the samething with slapping herself in her head but she doesnt do it long, once I distract her she stops and other times I give her a toy and she hits herself with her toy...lol. I am still learning how to control it so I wish I could be more help to you but I did want you to know you are not alone. Other then that it sounds like Kate is doing awsome. I cant wait til we can meet up it will be great. Hugs, Crystal and Eva (1 year old CHARGEr) > > Sorry I havent posted in a very long while. But I read every one of > the posts and get soooooo much information from all of the moms and > Chargers out there. Anywho, Kate will be 2 on the 15th of this > month and so much has happened and not happened. Well she had a > Bronch on Fri(for thoes who don't know, she has a trach due to > trachal stenosis and malisia(SP?))ENT said that the Malisia is all > gone:) but the stenosis is still small and needs to grow some more. > Her tounge closes off her airway due to a small jaw, so he looked at > that and said it was getting better too. He still thinks she's too > small yet to go into a big surgery like a reconstruction at her > age. So one more year with the trach. She is doing so much moving. > Her energy level is through the roof, I wish I could bottle it and > sell it. She is beggining to stand independently and took a half > step and then twisted around and fell. She crawls very fast now and > knows where she wants to go. She will stand at the window for an > hour if I would let her, she loves the light. She has also learned > to put her finger in her trach and " talk " . We will be trying the > Passey Muir valve soon too. She still is 100% tube fed and is in st > 2x's a week at Easter Seals. We will be starting Vital-Stim T. > soon too so I hope that will give her a jump start. Now here comes > the problem, she hits herself in the head with her open hand and > smacks herself! How do we handle it. I've read some of the > articles and we are trying to redirect her as much as possable but > she still manages to do it. Sometimes I feel like I should just let > her do it because it takes so much time and effort to stand or sit > over her for hours and try to play to keep her hands busy. She does > it in her sleep too and the nurses put the no-nos on her and she > settles down. Do we put the no-nos on her during the day? I don't > know? Anyway, Its late and I've got to go to bed. SLEEP Whats > that!!! More to come later. I'll try to post more often. To all > kiddos we are sending happy thoughts your way.. > > Love, Kim > mom to Kate(CHaRGEr) and (2yrs old), Tyler(6) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi Kim Amelie taps her head always, although it is rather gentle, and I think more of a comforting issue, she taps both sides of her head to get herself to sleep, she doesnt like handling when she needs to go to sleep, so I figure this is her own way of doing things. When our paediatrician, told us about her blindness and deafness, she told us to expect behaviours such as possible head banging for sensory input, she hasnt exactly ever done this but I was waiting and waiting for it, so I dont know how true this actually is, or whether some children are worse than others. i really sympathise with the lack of sleep, i guess we have all been through or are still going through this in charge land, we would get some sleep if it wasnt for the machines alarming all night long they drive us both insane, so i want to fastforward this part of charge life asap!!! great shes doing well apart from this be well love Lesley and fam (UK) > Hello Kim, > You know Eva does the samething with slapping herself in her head > but she doesnt do it long, once I distract her she stops and other > times I give her a toy and she hits herself with her toy...lol. I am > still learning how to control it so I wish I could be more help to > you but I did want you to know you are not alone. > Other then that it sounds like Kate is doing awsome. I cant wait til > we can meet up it will be great. > Hugs, > Crystal and Eva (1 year old CHARGEr) > > > > > > Sorry I havent posted in a very long while. But I read every one > of > > the posts and get soooooo much information from all of the moms > and > > Chargers out there. Anywho, Kate will be 2 on the 15th of this > > month and so much has happened and not happened. Well she had a > > Bronch on Fri(for thoes who don't know, she has a trach due to > > trachal stenosis and malisia(SP?))ENT said that the Malisia is all > > gone:) but the stenosis is still small and needs to grow some > more. > > Her tounge closes off her airway due to a small jaw, so he looked > at > > that and said it was getting better too. He still thinks she's > too > > small yet to go into a big surgery like a reconstruction at her > > age. So one more year with the trach. She is doing so much > moving. > > Her energy level is through the roof, I wish I could bottle it > and > > sell it. She is beggining to stand independently and took a half > > step and then twisted around and fell. She crawls very fast now > and > > knows where she wants to go. She will stand at the window for an > > hour if I would let her, she loves the light. She has also > learned > > to put her finger in her trach and " talk " . We will be trying the > > Passey Muir valve soon too. She still is 100% tube fed and is in > st > > 2x's a week at Easter Seals. We will be starting Vital-Stim T. > > soon too so I hope that will give her a jump start. Now here > comes > > the problem, she hits herself in the head with her open hand and > > smacks herself! How do we handle it. I've read some of the > > articles and we are trying to redirect her as much as possable but > > she still manages to do it. Sometimes I feel like I should just > let > > her do it because it takes so much time and effort to stand or sit > > over her for hours and try to play to keep her hands busy. She > does > > it in her sleep too and the nurses put the no-nos on her and she > > settles down. Do we put the no-nos on her during the day? I > don't > > know? Anyway, Its late and I've got to go to bed. SLEEP Whats > > that!!! More to come later. I'll try to post more often. To all > > kiddos we are sending happy thoughts your way.. > > > > Love, Kim > > mom to Kate(CHaRGEr) and (2yrs old), Tyler(6) > > > > > > > > > > > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE: > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995 > > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership in the > CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter), > please contact marion@... or visit > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > > 8th International > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available at > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi Kim Amelie taps her head always, although it is rather gentle, and I think more of a comforting issue, she taps both sides of her head to get herself to sleep, she doesnt like handling when she needs to go to sleep, so I figure this is her own way of doing things. When our paediatrician, told us about her blindness and deafness, she told us to expect behaviours such as possible head banging for sensory input, she hasnt exactly ever done this but I was waiting and waiting for it, so I dont know how true this actually is, or whether some children are worse than others. i really sympathise with the lack of sleep, i guess we have all been through or are still going through this in charge land, we would get some sleep if it wasnt for the machines alarming all night long they drive us both insane, so i want to fastforward this part of charge life asap!!! great shes doing well apart from this be well love Lesley and fam (UK) > Hello Kim, > You know Eva does the samething with slapping herself in her head > but she doesnt do it long, once I distract her she stops and other > times I give her a toy and she hits herself with her toy...lol. I am > still learning how to control it so I wish I could be more help to > you but I did want you to know you are not alone. > Other then that it sounds like Kate is doing awsome. I cant wait til > we can meet up it will be great. > Hugs, > Crystal and Eva (1 year old CHARGEr) > > > > > > Sorry I havent posted in a very long while. But I read every one > of > > the posts and get soooooo much information from all of the moms > and > > Chargers out there. Anywho, Kate will be 2 on the 15th of this > > month and so much has happened and not happened. Well she had a > > Bronch on Fri(for thoes who don't know, she has a trach due to > > trachal stenosis and malisia(SP?))ENT said that the Malisia is all > > gone:) but the stenosis is still small and needs to grow some > more. > > Her tounge closes off her airway due to a small jaw, so he looked > at > > that and said it was getting better too. He still thinks she's > too > > small yet to go into a big surgery like a reconstruction at her > > age. So one more year with the trach. She is doing so much > moving. > > Her energy level is through the roof, I wish I could bottle it > and > > sell it. She is beggining to stand independently and took a half > > step and then twisted around and fell. She crawls very fast now > and > > knows where she wants to go. She will stand at the window for an > > hour if I would let her, she loves the light. She has also > learned > > to put her finger in her trach and " talk " . We will be trying the > > Passey Muir valve soon too. She still is 100% tube fed and is in > st > > 2x's a week at Easter Seals. We will be starting Vital-Stim T. > > soon too so I hope that will give her a jump start. Now here > comes > > the problem, she hits herself in the head with her open hand and > > smacks herself! How do we handle it. I've read some of the > > articles and we are trying to redirect her as much as possable but > > she still manages to do it. Sometimes I feel like I should just > let > > her do it because it takes so much time and effort to stand or sit > > over her for hours and try to play to keep her hands busy. She > does > > it in her sleep too and the nurses put the no-nos on her and she > > settles down. Do we put the no-nos on her during the day? I > don't > > know? Anyway, Its late and I've got to go to bed. SLEEP Whats > > that!!! More to come later. I'll try to post more often. To all > > kiddos we are sending happy thoughts your way.. > > > > Love, Kim > > mom to Kate(CHaRGEr) and (2yrs old), Tyler(6) > > > > > > > > > > > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE: > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995 > > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership in the > CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter), > please contact marion@... or visit > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > > 8th International > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available at > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 Hi Kim Amelie taps her head always, although it is rather gentle, and I think more of a comforting issue, she taps both sides of her head to get herself to sleep, she doesnt like handling when she needs to go to sleep, so I figure this is her own way of doing things. When our paediatrician, told us about her blindness and deafness, she told us to expect behaviours such as possible head banging for sensory input, she hasnt exactly ever done this but I was waiting and waiting for it, so I dont know how true this actually is, or whether some children are worse than others. i really sympathise with the lack of sleep, i guess we have all been through or are still going through this in charge land, we would get some sleep if it wasnt for the machines alarming all night long they drive us both insane, so i want to fastforward this part of charge life asap!!! great shes doing well apart from this be well love Lesley and fam (UK) > Hello Kim, > You know Eva does the samething with slapping herself in her head > but she doesnt do it long, once I distract her she stops and other > times I give her a toy and she hits herself with her toy...lol. I am > still learning how to control it so I wish I could be more help to > you but I did want you to know you are not alone. > Other then that it sounds like Kate is doing awsome. I cant wait til > we can meet up it will be great. > Hugs, > Crystal and Eva (1 year old CHARGEr) > > > > > > Sorry I havent posted in a very long while. But I read every one > of > > the posts and get soooooo much information from all of the moms > and > > Chargers out there. Anywho, Kate will be 2 on the 15th of this > > month and so much has happened and not happened. Well she had a > > Bronch on Fri(for thoes who don't know, she has a trach due to > > trachal stenosis and malisia(SP?))ENT said that the Malisia is all > > gone:) but the stenosis is still small and needs to grow some > more. > > Her tounge closes off her airway due to a small jaw, so he looked > at > > that and said it was getting better too. He still thinks she's > too > > small yet to go into a big surgery like a reconstruction at her > > age. So one more year with the trach. She is doing so much > moving. > > Her energy level is through the roof, I wish I could bottle it > and > > sell it. She is beggining to stand independently and took a half > > step and then twisted around and fell. She crawls very fast now > and > > knows where she wants to go. She will stand at the window for an > > hour if I would let her, she loves the light. She has also > learned > > to put her finger in her trach and " talk " . We will be trying the > > Passey Muir valve soon too. She still is 100% tube fed and is in > st > > 2x's a week at Easter Seals. We will be starting Vital-Stim T. > > soon too so I hope that will give her a jump start. Now here > comes > > the problem, she hits herself in the head with her open hand and > > smacks herself! How do we handle it. I've read some of the > > articles and we are trying to redirect her as much as possable but > > she still manages to do it. Sometimes I feel like I should just > let > > her do it because it takes so much time and effort to stand or sit > > over her for hours and try to play to keep her hands busy. She > does > > it in her sleep too and the nurses put the no-nos on her and she > > settles down. Do we put the no-nos on her during the day? I > don't > > know? Anyway, Its late and I've got to go to bed. SLEEP Whats > > that!!! More to come later. I'll try to post more often. To all > > kiddos we are sending happy thoughts your way.. > > > > Love, Kim > > mom to Kate(CHaRGEr) and (2yrs old), Tyler(6) > > > > > > > > > > > CHARGE SYNDROME LISTSERV PHOTO PAGE: > http://www.imagestation.com/album/?id=2117043995 > > Membership of this email support group does not constitute membership in the > CHARGE Syndrome Foundation; for information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter), > please contact marion@... or visit > the web site at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > > 8th International > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, July, 2007. Information will be available at > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Kim, Kate is sure growing. You must be so pleased. I question the hitting the head as behavioral because you say she does it in her sleep. That sounds like a physical issue. You can't redirect a physical issue. I'd talk to the doctor and see what they say. Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2006 Report Share Posted May 9, 2006 Kim, Kate is sure growing. You must be so pleased. I question the hitting the head as behavioral because you say she does it in her sleep. That sounds like a physical issue. You can't redirect a physical issue. I'd talk to the doctor and see what they say. Bonnie, Mom to a 23, Patty CHARGE 21, and wife to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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