Guest guest Posted March 25, 2001 Report Share Posted March 25, 2001 R I am sorry you are going through a bad time. I know sitting in limbo and having no control over things stinks! I found myself thinking today, that I should be 5 months along and instead I am counting down the days to hsg and praying for good results....doesn't seem fair. You are doing the right thing. You are getting your body in the best possible shape for when you do ttc. I think Arizona will be a good thing for you physically and mentally. The change in scenery will be good for you and dh. I hope you are feeling better and AF has made her way to your house from mine! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2001 Report Share Posted March 25, 2001 R I am sorry you are going through a bad time. I know sitting in limbo and having no control over things stinks! I found myself thinking today, that I should be 5 months along and instead I am counting down the days to hsg and praying for good results....doesn't seem fair. You are doing the right thing. You are getting your body in the best possible shape for when you do ttc. I think Arizona will be a good thing for you physically and mentally. The change in scenery will be good for you and dh. I hope you are feeling better and AF has made her way to your house from mine! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2001 Report Share Posted March 25, 2001 R I am sorry you are going through a bad time. I know sitting in limbo and having no control over things stinks! I found myself thinking today, that I should be 5 months along and instead I am counting down the days to hsg and praying for good results....doesn't seem fair. You are doing the right thing. You are getting your body in the best possible shape for when you do ttc. I think Arizona will be a good thing for you physically and mentally. The change in scenery will be good for you and dh. I hope you are feeling better and AF has made her way to your house from mine! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2001 Report Share Posted March 25, 2001 Thanks !! AF must have gotten detoured because the witch isn't here yet and my dh is getting the brunt of it!! I have gained some weight and am feeling much better, but you are right Arizona will do me wonders.... Sending lots of prayers to for you on your test... I am sure you will much better after it... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2001 Report Share Posted March 25, 2001 Thanks !! AF must have gotten detoured because the witch isn't here yet and my dh is getting the brunt of it!! I have gained some weight and am feeling much better, but you are right Arizona will do me wonders.... Sending lots of prayers to for you on your test... I am sure you will much better after it... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2001 Report Share Posted March 25, 2001 Thanks !! AF must have gotten detoured because the witch isn't here yet and my dh is getting the brunt of it!! I have gained some weight and am feeling much better, but you are right Arizona will do me wonders.... Sending lots of prayers to for you on your test... I am sure you will much better after it... lisa r T.T.F.N. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Hi R-- I am so sorry that you are feeling sad. I have to admit I've also felt left out in this ttc game over the past 6 months. My friends are getting pg left and right. I guess the good news is that I'll have lots of people to get mothering tips from. I am so glad to hear that you are gaining weight. A good vacation with lots of dining and pampering can only help too. My due date would have been April 28--and I can't believe I would have been 8 months pg now. I don't think it's unhealthy to think it those terms. How can you forget what has happened? And then I think about my other 3 mcs and think that I have a whole family of 4 up there in heaven. Unbelievable. Just know that you are not alone in your thoughts--I think about that stuff all the time. I hope af shows soon! I'm sending her over now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Hi R-- I am so sorry that you are feeling sad. I have to admit I've also felt left out in this ttc game over the past 6 months. My friends are getting pg left and right. I guess the good news is that I'll have lots of people to get mothering tips from. I am so glad to hear that you are gaining weight. A good vacation with lots of dining and pampering can only help too. My due date would have been April 28--and I can't believe I would have been 8 months pg now. I don't think it's unhealthy to think it those terms. How can you forget what has happened? And then I think about my other 3 mcs and think that I have a whole family of 4 up there in heaven. Unbelievable. Just know that you are not alone in your thoughts--I think about that stuff all the time. I hope af shows soon! I'm sending her over now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Hi R-- I am so sorry that you are feeling sad. I have to admit I've also felt left out in this ttc game over the past 6 months. My friends are getting pg left and right. I guess the good news is that I'll have lots of people to get mothering tips from. I am so glad to hear that you are gaining weight. A good vacation with lots of dining and pampering can only help too. My due date would have been April 28--and I can't believe I would have been 8 months pg now. I don't think it's unhealthy to think it those terms. How can you forget what has happened? And then I think about my other 3 mcs and think that I have a whole family of 4 up there in heaven. Unbelievable. Just know that you are not alone in your thoughts--I think about that stuff all the time. I hope af shows soon! I'm sending her over now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Hi , I know how you feel. Doesn't it sometimes seem that the whole world is spinning, yet you are standing still? You know I say that I want ttc in the summer, but in my heart I wish I was already pg. My baby would have been(if I had it on my due date) 1 year, 1 month and 1 day old today. When I was pg my dh and I said that we would try ttc when the baby turned 1. Now here I am with nothing. The pain that I feel is unbearable at times and the only thing that I have is my positive pg stick, some toys and things we started to pick up, and one heavy heart that somedays weighs a ton. But you know it isn't the person that is the fastest that wins the race, it is the person that thinks they can win that does. So even though there has been some set backs everything is gonna be ok I truly believe that now especially since I've found this board. There is alot of pgs going on here and before you know it you will be expecting again, too. Sheila Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Hi , I know how you feel. Doesn't it sometimes seem that the whole world is spinning, yet you are standing still? You know I say that I want ttc in the summer, but in my heart I wish I was already pg. My baby would have been(if I had it on my due date) 1 year, 1 month and 1 day old today. When I was pg my dh and I said that we would try ttc when the baby turned 1. Now here I am with nothing. The pain that I feel is unbearable at times and the only thing that I have is my positive pg stick, some toys and things we started to pick up, and one heavy heart that somedays weighs a ton. But you know it isn't the person that is the fastest that wins the race, it is the person that thinks they can win that does. So even though there has been some set backs everything is gonna be ok I truly believe that now especially since I've found this board. There is alot of pgs going on here and before you know it you will be expecting again, too. Sheila Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Hi , I know how you feel. Doesn't it sometimes seem that the whole world is spinning, yet you are standing still? You know I say that I want ttc in the summer, but in my heart I wish I was already pg. My baby would have been(if I had it on my due date) 1 year, 1 month and 1 day old today. When I was pg my dh and I said that we would try ttc when the baby turned 1. Now here I am with nothing. The pain that I feel is unbearable at times and the only thing that I have is my positive pg stick, some toys and things we started to pick up, and one heavy heart that somedays weighs a ton. But you know it isn't the person that is the fastest that wins the race, it is the person that thinks they can win that does. So even though there has been some set backs everything is gonna be ok I truly believe that now especially since I've found this board. There is alot of pgs going on here and before you know it you will be expecting again, too. Sheila Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 , I'm sorry you are having a bad day. You've been through a lot over the past year and being in this " holding pattern " is starting to wear thin on your nerves. I hope AF finds you soon and that you are able to get back in the TTC game soon. {{{HUGS}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 , I'm sorry you are having a bad day. You've been through a lot over the past year and being in this " holding pattern " is starting to wear thin on your nerves. I hope AF finds you soon and that you are able to get back in the TTC game soon. {{{HUGS}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 , I'm sorry you are having a bad day. You've been through a lot over the past year and being in this " holding pattern " is starting to wear thin on your nerves. I hope AF finds you soon and that you are able to get back in the TTC game soon. {{{HUGS}}} Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 R, I'm sorry you are feeling down today ((((((HUGS)))))) Sometimes I feel exactly the same way you do..left out of the ttc game. But I have to accept that it is not my time right now. Listening to all these success stories is my lifeline...I hold on to that knowing that some day it WILL be me and I also know that it will be YOU someday VERY soon. Like you said, you're gaining weight and feeling stronger everyday, so you will be back to ttc before you even know it! Keep tyring to focus on the future. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 R, I'm sorry you are feeling down today ((((((HUGS)))))) Sometimes I feel exactly the same way you do..left out of the ttc game. But I have to accept that it is not my time right now. Listening to all these success stories is my lifeline...I hold on to that knowing that some day it WILL be me and I also know that it will be YOU someday VERY soon. Like you said, you're gaining weight and feeling stronger everyday, so you will be back to ttc before you even know it! Keep tyring to focus on the future. -AmyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 R I can't believe it, did you move or something and forget to leave a forward address for af...haha. I guess she really wanted to go to Aroniza. (sorry) When do you leave? April 1st? Wish we could get away, I would love it. I guess your dh is trying to handle the best he can. It's funny how different men and women are! Have you tried talking to him and telling him that you are feeling better and stronger everyday? I think being able to ttc would help, (just my opinion, since I haven't been able to ttc yet, of course) but I think than I would feel alittle more in control again, you know trying. I guess with all the time I lost, I want to get started right away, who knows how long it will take now. I am sure he'll come around soon, specially if he sees you getting stronger. Thanks for the prayers, I think I am going to need them. Of course I am hoping left tube is clear but than I think I might drive myself crazy ttc. --- wrote: > Thanks !! > > AF must have gotten detoured because the witch isn't > here yet and my dh is > getting the brunt of it!! > > I have gained some weight and am feeling much > better, but you are right > Arizona will do me wonders.... > > > Sending lots of prayers to for you on your test... I > am sure you will much > better after it... > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 R I can't believe it, did you move or something and forget to leave a forward address for af...haha. I guess she really wanted to go to Aroniza. (sorry) When do you leave? April 1st? Wish we could get away, I would love it. I guess your dh is trying to handle the best he can. It's funny how different men and women are! Have you tried talking to him and telling him that you are feeling better and stronger everyday? I think being able to ttc would help, (just my opinion, since I haven't been able to ttc yet, of course) but I think than I would feel alittle more in control again, you know trying. I guess with all the time I lost, I want to get started right away, who knows how long it will take now. I am sure he'll come around soon, specially if he sees you getting stronger. Thanks for the prayers, I think I am going to need them. Of course I am hoping left tube is clear but than I think I might drive myself crazy ttc. --- wrote: > Thanks !! > > AF must have gotten detoured because the witch isn't > here yet and my dh is > getting the brunt of it!! > > I have gained some weight and am feeling much > better, but you are right > Arizona will do me wonders.... > > > Sending lots of prayers to for you on your test... I > am sure you will much > better after it... > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 R I can't believe it, did you move or something and forget to leave a forward address for af...haha. I guess she really wanted to go to Aroniza. (sorry) When do you leave? April 1st? Wish we could get away, I would love it. I guess your dh is trying to handle the best he can. It's funny how different men and women are! Have you tried talking to him and telling him that you are feeling better and stronger everyday? I think being able to ttc would help, (just my opinion, since I haven't been able to ttc yet, of course) but I think than I would feel alittle more in control again, you know trying. I guess with all the time I lost, I want to get started right away, who knows how long it will take now. I am sure he'll come around soon, specially if he sees you getting stronger. Thanks for the prayers, I think I am going to need them. Of course I am hoping left tube is clear but than I think I might drive myself crazy ttc. --- wrote: > Thanks !! > > AF must have gotten detoured because the witch isn't > here yet and my dh is > getting the brunt of it!! > > I have gained some weight and am feeling much > better, but you are right > Arizona will do me wonders.... > > > Sending lots of prayers to for you on your test... I > am sure you will much > better after it... > > lisa r > T.T.F.N. > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 It is hard not to think like that sometimes. There are times when I can just be driving down the road or watching tv and it just pops in my head. How can you not think about how far along you should be and getting the nursey room, it is really hard not to sometimes, but I guess that is normal. I know our losses have brought us together and it sure is a nice thought to think that our little ones were brought together and are friends now too. Ok, I have to go before I really start crying. --- franke100@... wrote: > Hi R-- > > I am so sorry that you are feeling sad. I have to > admit I've also > felt left out in this ttc game over the past 6 > months. My friends > are getting pg left and right. I guess the good > news is that I'll > have lots of people to get mothering tips from. > > I am so glad to hear that you are gaining weight. A > good vacation > with lots of dining and pampering can only help too. > > My due date would have been April 28--and I can't > believe I would > have been 8 months pg now. I don't think it's > unhealthy to think it > those terms. How can you forget what has happened? > And then I think > about my other 3 mcs and think that I have a whole > family of 4 up > there in heaven. Unbelievable. Just know that you > are not alone in > your thoughts--I think about that stuff all the > time. > > I hope af shows soon! I'm sending her over now! > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 It is hard not to think like that sometimes. There are times when I can just be driving down the road or watching tv and it just pops in my head. How can you not think about how far along you should be and getting the nursey room, it is really hard not to sometimes, but I guess that is normal. I know our losses have brought us together and it sure is a nice thought to think that our little ones were brought together and are friends now too. Ok, I have to go before I really start crying. --- franke100@... wrote: > Hi R-- > > I am so sorry that you are feeling sad. I have to > admit I've also > felt left out in this ttc game over the past 6 > months. My friends > are getting pg left and right. I guess the good > news is that I'll > have lots of people to get mothering tips from. > > I am so glad to hear that you are gaining weight. A > good vacation > with lots of dining and pampering can only help too. > > My due date would have been April 28--and I can't > believe I would > have been 8 months pg now. I don't think it's > unhealthy to think it > those terms. How can you forget what has happened? > And then I think > about my other 3 mcs and think that I have a whole > family of 4 up > there in heaven. Unbelievable. Just know that you > are not alone in > your thoughts--I think about that stuff all the > time. > > I hope af shows soon! I'm sending her over now! > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 It is hard not to think like that sometimes. There are times when I can just be driving down the road or watching tv and it just pops in my head. How can you not think about how far along you should be and getting the nursey room, it is really hard not to sometimes, but I guess that is normal. I know our losses have brought us together and it sure is a nice thought to think that our little ones were brought together and are friends now too. Ok, I have to go before I really start crying. --- franke100@... wrote: > Hi R-- > > I am so sorry that you are feeling sad. I have to > admit I've also > felt left out in this ttc game over the past 6 > months. My friends > are getting pg left and right. I guess the good > news is that I'll > have lots of people to get mothering tips from. > > I am so glad to hear that you are gaining weight. A > good vacation > with lots of dining and pampering can only help too. > > My due date would have been April 28--and I can't > believe I would > have been 8 months pg now. I don't think it's > unhealthy to think it > those terms. How can you forget what has happened? > And then I think > about my other 3 mcs and think that I have a whole > family of 4 up > there in heaven. Unbelievable. Just know that you > are not alone in > your thoughts--I think about that stuff all the > time. > > I hope af shows soon! I'm sending her over now! > > > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Sheila You know it's funny when you read what someone else has posted and it describes the same thoughts and feelings that YOU have had...(I guess that happens alot) but it feels good to know that someone else really knows how you feel. If there is one ++ thing for me since my ep, it is this group! I know it might sound strange, but sometimes for a moment I can actually think I am still pg and this mess never happened. I kept my hpt too, I just couldn't bring myself to throw it away, but haven't been able to look at it. I admire your ++ attitude. I know, we will all get a chance to be a mommy one day, just not as soon as we would like, but like I have said before, we will definitely, appreciate it and never take it for granted when we do. Take care. Sending some more +++++thoughts your way. --- SAVQ71@... wrote: > Hi , > > I know how you feel. Doesn't it sometimes seem that > the whole world is > spinning, yet you are standing still? You know I > say that I want ttc in the > summer, but in my heart I wish I was already pg. My > baby would have been(if > I had it on my due date) 1 year, 1 month and 1 day > old today. When I was pg > my dh and I said that we would try ttc when the baby > turned 1. Now here I am > with nothing. The pain that I feel is unbearable at > times and the only thing > that I have is my positive pg stick, some toys and > things we started to pick > up, and one heavy heart that somedays weighs a ton. > But you know it isn't > the person that is the fastest that wins the race, > it is the person that > thinks they can win that does. So even though there > has been some set backs > everything is gonna be ok I truly believe that now > especially since I've > found this board. There is alot of pgs going on > here and before you know it > you will be expecting again, too. > Sheila > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2001 Report Share Posted March 26, 2001 Sheila You know it's funny when you read what someone else has posted and it describes the same thoughts and feelings that YOU have had...(I guess that happens alot) but it feels good to know that someone else really knows how you feel. If there is one ++ thing for me since my ep, it is this group! I know it might sound strange, but sometimes for a moment I can actually think I am still pg and this mess never happened. I kept my hpt too, I just couldn't bring myself to throw it away, but haven't been able to look at it. I admire your ++ attitude. I know, we will all get a chance to be a mommy one day, just not as soon as we would like, but like I have said before, we will definitely, appreciate it and never take it for granted when we do. Take care. Sending some more +++++thoughts your way. --- SAVQ71@... wrote: > Hi , > > I know how you feel. Doesn't it sometimes seem that > the whole world is > spinning, yet you are standing still? You know I > say that I want ttc in the > summer, but in my heart I wish I was already pg. My > baby would have been(if > I had it on my due date) 1 year, 1 month and 1 day > old today. When I was pg > my dh and I said that we would try ttc when the baby > turned 1. Now here I am > with nothing. The pain that I feel is unbearable at > times and the only thing > that I have is my positive pg stick, some toys and > things we started to pick > up, and one heavy heart that somedays weighs a ton. > But you know it isn't > the person that is the fastest that wins the race, > it is the person that > thinks they can win that does. So even though there > has been some set backs > everything is gonna be ok I truly believe that now > especially since I've > found this board. There is alot of pgs going on > here and before you know it > you will be expecting again, too. > Sheila > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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