Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 Beautiful , Dear one, look in the mirror into your eyes, and say , I love you,you are pure golden divine love and I forgive you, I embrace you, and you are one-derful, then I love me, I am pure golden divine love, I forgive me, hug yourself tight, I embrace me, and I am one-derful, beautiful, loving and caring, I am worthy and deserving, I am of value and I am important, I am grateful and thankful I am the best , I deserve the best and I expect the best and no thing less, then say, I love her, she is pure golden divine love, I forgive her, I embrace her, she is one-derful and beautiful, joyous and loving, and she is my best friend. Enjoy dear beloved golden child, Namaste and Happy Easter, Jacqui and my galactic groove team From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Sent: Sunday, March 23, 2008 10:02 PM Subject: [] Can someone tell me how to be forgiven so i dont have so much bad karma? For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in advance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 Beautiful Mark, Wait until you see what I wrote. We are truly kindred spirits. I will send it to you. With great love and joy, Jacqui and the galactic groove team From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of mark seebach Sent: Sunday, March 23, 2008 10:34 PM Subject: Re: [] Can someone tell me how to be forgiven so i dont have so much bad karma? Dearest , Would do you any good, for me to say you are forgiven? Try this, go to a mirror, look yourself in the eye, and say, " I LOVE YOU " , " PLEASE FORGIVE ME " , " I AM SORRY " , and last, but certainly not least, " THANK YOU! " . Yes, dearheart, forgive yourself and do not forget the lesson you are forgiving yourself for NOT learning, and LEARN from it. I would suggest you also forgive any and all, that you perceive to have done something that YOU hold on to, whether it be a real physical harm, or just " hurt feelings " . Oh, by the way, your already forgiven, so get over yourself and LIVE and LOVE, NOW! With you in mind and Heart, Mark PS: Smile, you got yourself this far along the path and you know right from wrong, so, " BE " Right! <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in advance. Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 Dearest , Would do you any good, for me to say you are forgiven? Try this, go to a mirror, look yourself in the eye, and say, "I LOVE YOU", "PLEASE FORGIVE ME", "I AM SORRY", and last, but certainly not least, "THANK YOU!". Yes, dearheart, forgive yourself and do not forget the lesson you are forgiving yourself for NOT learning, and LEARN from it. I would suggest you also forgive any and all, that you perceive to have done something that YOU hold on to, whether it be a real physical harm, or just "hurt feelings". Oh, by the way, your already forgiven, so get over yourself and LIVE and LOVE, NOW! With you in mind and Heart, Mark PS: Smile, you got yourself this far along the path and you know right from wrong, so, "BE" Right! <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in advance. Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 Hi So much energy being sent our way, does cause even the calmest to want to argue...LOL My suggestion is for you to forgive yourself first. God always forgives no matter what. These are really trying times to say the least, be patient with yourself. The good news is...some of the energy we have experienced is about over, there was some major planetary alignments that I think are about to end part of the star gate. Someone stop me....lol I am going through very similar times as you .. I had to start with forgiving me. Blessings and love Peace Never miss a thing. Make your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 ... When you boil it down... you simply MUST have to be able to forgive yourself. If you can do that... you're golden. Because it is not God who judges you... it is your own ego mind based on what you are telling and feeling it to believe. How many times to you talk negatively think about yourself and others within your mind? Change those feelings, negative / self-talk and thoughts... and your outside world will change too. Work on looking at yourself and your own healing / "love" (and hate, anger, guilt, shame, rage, jealousy, secrets, ignorance, intolerance, and guilt... just to name a few) issues. Honestly, it's that easy! No matter what happens in your life or how you react to those happenings... it's REALLY about the lessons of love behind them (and whether you're seeing them?). The question is... are you learning from them? Or do you keep repeating the same lessons? Awareness and consciousness are the two awakenings you must have to the inter-connectedness of all of LIFE. About balance and imbalance. About truth and dishonesty. About bad vs good. And how all (both sides) are needed to learn all these lessons. So be grateful for every little thing you can find to be grateful for. Find the lessons within. We each contribute to each other's lessons in ways we probably would never understand nor comprehend. The lessons run too deep and vast... it's mind-boggling to even try and understand. The trick is to open your eyes to the love all around you... even in situations that you deem "bad". It's all about experience, growth and understanding Every moment of your life is a learning / experiencing moment for YOUR and for that (God / Loving Intelligence) which lives within us. That feeling of pride that we did the right things. That feeling we feel when we think for a moment about what it would be like to be in someone else's shoes. All the times we gave a helping hand to someone in need and didn't feel obligated to do so... you did it because you truly care about this person. (Even though they may be a royal pain in the ass sometimes!) Be proud of yourself for all the time you intended think, say and do to others what you always would want them to think, say and do if the tables were turned. That is Divine Intelligence letting you know you did good. You made the right decision... and it made you feel good! That you should stand proud for what is right, truth and noble! After forgiving yourself... you could offer / ask for forgiveness for any wrongs you may have caused or been victim of. Because these are negative feelings and energies attached to you (and the other person) that you need not carry around. It needs to be released and healed. Mend and understand the why of what happened. Dig deeply for the answers. Honesty is key. If enough healing time has passed... I'm sure the other person would probably want to let it go too. We just never take the time or effort to ask. Know that no matter what "appears" to you.... or how you choose to see your situations... realize and know that you are an incredible, extraordinary being of love and light with so much to create and give back to the community around you and in turn, your world... and then back to you. Focus on all the good within you! What are your dreams? What do you love to think about, talk about and dream about (besides romantic... let's not go there!)? What did you love as a child? What brings you joy? What do you LOVE? Go with that. Above all LOVE yourself! If you don't feel that you do... find out why... heal it... and learn to accept who you are in a loving light and learn to love yourself. Don't worry about the circumstances you cannot change. They do not define who you really ARE inside. In your mind, strip it all away.... what are you left with. What would be your ultimate dream and goal for your life. BELIEVE in yourself... and go there! You CAN do it! And you can choose to make a positive and happy difference in the lives of others at the same time! WOW! You can choose to be miserable, depressed and unhappy.... or you can "choose" to think of the brighter sides in your life. (It rubs off on people... I'm telling ya!) And if there aren't any that you can see.... intend on creating some!!! Wrap your situations in love! Give a little to get a little! Understand that you (and all of us) are much better (extraordinarily) than we think! When we let love rule our decisions, understandings, sight and consciousness... we can do incredibly powerful and positive things. The ripples are getting stronger! I hope this has helped you! NAMASTE! Kerrie Amatelli RipplesofLove.com wrote: For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in advance. No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.519 / Virus Database: 269.21.7/1336 - Release Date: 3/20/2008 9:48 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 --- In , " " <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: > > For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel > horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of > mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a > better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont > believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing > wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not > looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and > start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right > now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my > life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone > knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in > advance. > Start by forgiving yourself. Until you can forgive yourself change is not possible. Work on your innerself with constant prayer to the higher power you believe in. Meditate. Find a clear spot in you mind to focus on positive loving light coming in through the top of your head and all the way down to your toes. Focus all your thoughts on healing all your chakras and becoming charged with a brillant ray of positve and loving energy. Healing can take time. Be patient and when you are ready to forgive yourself all the other issues will find balance and work theirselves out. When it is time to have closure on wrong doings God will guide you through prayer. Many blessing to you in your future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 --- In , " " <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: > > For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel > horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of > mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a > better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont > believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing > wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not > looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and > start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right > now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my > life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone > knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in > advance. >DEAR FRIEND, YOU ARE ALREADY FORGIVEN. YOU TAKE WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED AND USE IT TO MAKE YOU STRONGER. MANY TIMES LESSONS WE LEARN WE ARE ABLE TO HELP OTHERS. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES,THINGS SOUR. YET, WE HAVE TO KEEP GOING AND THINK POSITIVE. NOW, THAT YOU ARE FORGIVEN AND STARTING NEW . WHEN, SOMETHING COMES IN YOUR WAY LOOK UP AND SMILE FOR YOU KNOW AND YOU ARE GOING TO USE IT TO BE STRONGER. YOU HAVE TO ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE. HAVE TO , THINK WITH LOVE. LOVE FOR YOURSELF AND ALL. HUG YOURSELF AND FEEL GOOD THAT YOU ARE LOVED MY GOD AND BY ALL. MYSELF LOVE IS EVERYTHING. NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK YOU ARE LOVED. YOU ARE SPECIAL. YET, REMEMBER IF ONE THINKS THEY ARE SICK AND KEEP FEELING SICK THEY WILL BE SICKER. IF ONE FEARS THEY ARE WEAK THEY WILL BECOME WEAKER. YOUR THOUGHTS ARE LIKE FOOD YOU ARE FEEDING YOUR BRAIN WITH FALSE,WEAK THOUGHTS OF FEAR. THINKING IF GOES GOOD WILL TURN BAD , AGAIN...NO, IT WON'T ..FOR WHEN YOU SEE IT YOU SMILE AND REACH INSIDE WITH LOVE TELLING YOURSELF THIS IS ONLY FOR ME TO BE STRONGER AND I AM GOING TO SUCCEED. BELIEVE ALL IS GOOD. I HAVE MANY THINGS THAT HAVE COME UP AGAINST ME YET, I HAVE LEARNED TO REDIRECT MY THINKING TO MAKE IT A POSITIVE THOUGHT. AS IF ONE DIES..AT LEAST YOU HAD THEM FOR THE TIME SHARED. IF SOMETHING GOES WRONG THEN, I(YOU) LEARN TO VALUE/APPRECIATE IT. FOR NOT HAVING YOU LEARNED. YOU GET SOMETHING AGAIN , YOU APPRECIATE IT MORE. TO LOVE AND SEE WITH LOVE IN ALL THINGS YOU WILL BE HAPPIER. AN INNER FEELING THAT IS WARM AND BEAUTIFUL! YOU HAVE TO THINK POSITIVE, BELIEVE & LOVE. YOU HAVE TO KEEP GOING AND GROW. YOU WILL SUCCEED. LIFE KEEPS GOING AND WE HAVE TO KEEP GOING WITH IT. WE ARE SO BLESSED IN SO MANY WAYS. SO MUCH WE TAKE FOR GRANTED.. PLEASE, I PRAY FOR YOU TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND BELIEVE ONLY GOOD IS HERE AND IS GOING TO STAY WITH YOU. EVEN, WHEN IT HAS ITS TRIALS REMEMBER IT'S FOR YOU TO BE STRONGER AND SMILE. YOU WILL SUCCEED IN ALL YOU DO! ONLY LOOK BACK TO GAIN , TO USE IT AS A STRENGTH AND BENEFIT WITH THE PAST FOR INSPIRATION ! LOOK BACK AND THINK LOOK WHAT ALL I HAVE GONE THOUGH AND HAVE MADE IT..SMILE, SHAKE YOUR HEAD & LAUGH. BE THANKFUL...WITH MUCH LOVE & RESPECT ALWAYS, IN HEART & SPIRIT..BIG HUGS FOR YOU:-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 --- In , " " <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: > > For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel > horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of > mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a > better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont > believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing > wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not > looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and > start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right > now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my > life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone > knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in > advance. > You must first forgive yourself . Your innerself will not be open for change until you decide you are open in your heart to forgive yourself, love yourself and find peace within yourself through any struggles you may have in your life. Prayer is a powerful tool to find strength within yourself to bring positive change in your life. You do deserve good in your life but you must change your karmic path. Pray consistantly everyday to the higher power you believe in. Meditate in a quiet place. Clear your mind and focus on a loving ray of light shining through starting at your head and all the way down to your toes. Warm waves of light and love rushing over you washing away the negativity. Forgive yourself then you may be forgiven by others if you feel you need forgiveness. It will all fall into place with the guidance of God through your prayers and meditation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 My dearest beloved, be very gentle with yourself for it is within that lies the most perfect peace and absolute joy, things always seems to look worst than they really are especially if we think or know that we have done someone wrong. What transpires next is that we would go ahead to create the corresponding thought to match up with the thought that I have done wrong and that would be guilt which we then invite into our consciousness and this is how we sometimes become transfixed or crippled by our very own created thoughts/emotions. First of all you must know that whatever we perceive we create so in order to come to a desired solution you have to change the way you are looking at and perceiving things and then the things you would be looking at will change, so in wanting to come to a place of being forgiven you must first create and perceive the thought of forgiveness for yourself and others the next step is to become align and in harmony with your divine self and that come through becoming still to a place of no thoughts and this is primarily done through meditating. There is one wonderful news that I have to impart to you before I end and that is you are the most perfect created being that have willfully chosen to grace us with your divine presence and just for a brief moment you had to take on forgetting in order to be this human person. Within you lies the sum of all things God, so go ahead and create that which you desires most whether it be forgiveness, health a peaceful humanity whatever it is that you want. My dear one you are the creator and have been all along. Be well my beloved and co-creator. Love and Light a <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in advance. Never miss a thing. Make your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 Good Morning! This one has to express herself this morning. THANK YOU!!!! thank you for writing when you did. Being in the very same place and not able to even hold my head up. All I heard was my ego attacking it was not a pleasant place to be. As I read your email, trying to avoid my shtuff...I then reached out gave some sound advice and followed my own advice and did some self forgiving. I feel much better today. Thank You's to everyone of you for writing the list. You are all so very powerful and loving. Once again the compassion from this group has lit a fire. I love you all, Namaste, Peace Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 , Peace, and the rest of the family. You are all so amazing! You are all so beautiful and wise. I can't add too much more myself so I just wanted to share this quote with you:"To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness." Muller May you recognize your perfection. You are VERY loved and a part of it all. Much love,Stefanie>> For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel > horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of > mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a > better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont > believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing > wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not > looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and > start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right > now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my > life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone > knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in > advance.> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 24, 2008 Report Share Posted March 24, 2008 My Dear ,Yours is an age old question and concern. And one that has been in the forefront of many people as they try to advance along their own Spiritual path.Below I am attaching a portion of a blog I recently wrote on the topic of Love and forgiveness, I hope you might find it of some use.Sending my Love and Blessings to you, ***************************************Why is it so hard to forgive yourself? First understand that forgiving does not mean forgetting, our Ego/minds and lives will not allow that to happen, but what we can control is how we respond to the thoughts of regret (guilt). For example, let’s say at some point in your past, your sibling was injured as a direct result of an action on your part. Over the years you are constantly reminded of this as you see their scars (physical and or emotional). With much determination and reasoning you have decided to forgive yourself, but then something strange happens… when you actually are reminded of the event and your actions, feelings of guilt, worthlessness, and shame re-enter your mind. You then find yourself surrounded by sensations of regret all over again. So what happened? You forgave yourself, right? Then why the continued self detriment? Why do you feel this way? Well, while you might have forgiven yourself (or felt like you did) you honestly did not. You see, your mind is still associating negative thoughts, emotions, and outcomes from that experience and in turn is forcing you to feel these as you are reminding of your actions. The way around this is to identify a positive outcome from the situation and latch onto that. I realize that this can be hard, but every situation has at least one positive outcome; Even if that positive outcome is your better understanding of your own actions and how you have changed them. So my challenge to you is to do just that. Identify the positive things that came from your action. And going forward, when you are reminded of events that make you feel guilty, see the positive and realize that there was a reason for your actions and you are now a better person for it. My Love and Blessings are with you, <gogetyourknife@...> wrote: For some reason I have not been making good choices lately and I feel horrible about it. Im sure this is not good for my karma, or peace of mind for that matter and dont know what to do to move on and be a better person. I know in church you go to confession, but I dont believe in that, is there a way to actually be forgiven for doing wrong? Not by the person u wronged, but by God, your spirit? Im not looking to mess up and want a clean slate, I just want to move on and start doing right, but I feel like I dont deserve good things right now and am so afraid that if I did start getting good things in my life that my actions recently will cause them to go wrong. If anyone knows anything to help me out, please let me know. Thank you in advance. Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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