Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 Hi Dearest Friends, After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. As I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not forgive her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, and especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive him. But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I don't think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful place in my life - except for this piece. I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because we exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like any parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying " wow, look what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual now. " It's just hard to get past this. I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to be reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has been about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to post it yet. But I will. Love and Light, Carole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 Your daughter has forgiven you dear one …now it’s your turn to forgive her……and him…you will not be released of this energy until you choose to forgive… We all have free will….allow your soul to take the lead…… forgiving her …for leaving you and forgiving yourself for the guilt that you are feeling over this entire situation. This is what came through……… Be peace dear one…within, Great love to you, Jacqui and the galactic groove team From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Carole Sent: Monday, March 24, 2008 10:47 PM Subject: [] More Forgiveness Hi Dearest Friends, After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. As I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not forgive her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, and especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive him. But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I don't think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful place in my life - except for this piece. I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because we exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like any parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying " wow, look what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual now. " It's just hard to get past this. I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to be reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has been about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to post it yet. But I will. Love and Light, Carole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 Carole love, when it is time you will recognize how to forgive yourself, and the man that hurt your daughter. You know how important it is, but be gentle with yourself until you're ready, ok? I would be honored to read your work. Love always,Stef>> Hi Dearest Friends,> After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the > responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. As > I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not > know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not forgive > her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, and > especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I > just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A > grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive him. > But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest > extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I don't > think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've > begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful place > in my life - except for this piece.> > I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because we > exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die > like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know > she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time > forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. > This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful > mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like any > parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many > positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying "wow, look > what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual now." > It's just hard to get past this. > > I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to be > reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has been > about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to post > it yet. But I will. > > Love and Light,> Carole> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 > > > > Hi Dearest Friends, > > After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the > > responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. As > > I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not > > know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not forgive > > her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, and > > especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I > > just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A > > grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive him. > > But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest > > extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I don't > > think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've > > begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful place > > in my life - except for this piece. > > > > I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because we > > exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die > > like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know > > she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time > > forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. > > This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful > > mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like any > > parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many > > positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying " wow, look > > what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual now. " > > It's just hard to get past this. > > > > I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to be > > reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has been > > about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to post > > it yet. But I will. > > > > Love and Light, > > Carole > > >HELLO MY FRIEND, I READ YOUR LETTER AND THOUGH OUCH....MY FATHER WAS MURDERED IN '79 . HE WAS SHOT 6/7 TIMES DEAD CENTER IN HIS HEART AND INBETWEEN HIS EYES. THEY HAD A HARD TIME BECAUSE HE WAS SO WELL LIKED THEY COULDN'T FIND ANY ENEMIES! HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND AND THE BEST FATHER ONE COULD IMAGINE. I WAS VERY " BLESSED " TO HAVE HIS LOVE FOR THE YEARS I DID. I TOO, HAD A HARD TIME.VERY!! I ALMOST LOST MY SELF OVER IT. I WAS FLIPPING LITERALLY ONE DAY WHILE LOOKING AT HIS PICTURES THAT I HAD ON MY WALL. WHEN SOMETHING CAME AND SAID, " WHY ARE YOU CRYING? I AM HAPPY AND AT PIECE. I WAS CRYING FOR MY OWN SELF . WANTING HIM FOR ME TO HUG AND THAT BIG ARM OF SECURITY/LOVE! I IMMEDIATELY LEARNED TO REDIRECT MY THINKING..I HAVE A DAU. THAT WAS ONLY 16mo. OLD. I STARTED THINKING HOW LUCKY I WAS TO KNOW HIM AND HAVE HIM FOR THE TIME I DID. THAT MANY DON'T EVEN KNOW ONES FATHER OR NOT FOR LONG. IF HE LIVED HE WOULD HAD BEEN A VEGEATABLE AND I NOR HE WOULD HAD WANTED THAT... I TOO, HAD MY QUILT FEELING. HE WAS MURDERED ABOUT 10:05PM WHEN, I WENT TO CALL HIM ABOUT 8 TO 9P AND DIDN'T. IF I WOULD I MAY HAVE KNOWN WHO WAS AT HIS RESIDENCE WITH HIM FOR THEY STATED, " IT WAS A WOMAN " HE WAS SHOT WITH HIS OWN 38 MAG. WHICH HE WOULD NOT TURN HIS BACK NOR LET JUST ANYONE HAVE ACCESS TO IT. HE WAS IN SECRET SERVICE DURING WWII HE WAS A MAN,MAN VERY WELL BUILT AND STRONG...ANYWAY, GUILT I FELT AND BLAMED MYSELF. JUST LIKE WHEN I HAD TO GO CLEAN ALL THE BLOOD UP MYSELF..IT ALL WAS HARD YET, HAD TO BE DONE! HE HAD OVER 500 FLOWER ARRANGEMENTS. THE FUNERAL HOME HAD TO PUT A STOP ON THEM..JUST TO LET YOU KNOW HOW POPULAR/WELL LIKED HE WAS..MANY STATED " HE WOULD TAKE HIS SHIRT OFF FOR YOU..YES, IF REALLY NEEDED AND LIKED YOU HE WOULD! SO, I THOUGHT THINGS LIKE THIS ONLY HAPPENED TO THOSE THAT LIVED IN WRONG AREAS OR DID WRONG. WAS I SHOW WRONG! I TOO, REMEMBER MY LAST CONVERSATION WHEN, I TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM AND DIDN'T BELIEVE HE HEARD ME FOR THE PHONE WAS ALREADY HUNG UP ON HIS END. HE WAS IN A HURRY AND THE CONVERSATION WAS ABOUT BUSINESS. .... OK I AM GETTING SIDE TRACK FOR THIS IS TO HELP YOU I PRAY...REMEMBER THE TIME WHEN I SAID I WAS FLIPPING ON THE PICTURES..WELL, THEN TO REDIRECT MY THINKING..HAD TO, TO KEEP MY SANITY I SAID, " HERE GOD TAKE IT!!! " I COULDN'T HANDLE IT ANYMORE...I GAVE IT TO HIM AND I STATED, " I KNOW HE WILL BE PUNISHED WHEN HE MEETS YOU. " !!!! THAT WAS IT FOR ME...I HAD TO HAND IT OVER TO GOD...I FORGIVE FOR I KNOW HE WAS SICK IT'S HARD , IT TAKES TIME YET, YOU HAVE TO . YOU CANNOT KEEP DWELLING ON IT. IT WILL KILL YOU AND YOU DON'T WANT TO GIVE THE KILLER THE SATISFACTION OF TAKING AND DISTROYING YOU, TOO! DO YOU?! NO!! YOU TAKE IT AND LET IT MAKE YOU STRONGER. YOU ARE STRONG OR YOU WOULDN'T BE HERE TODAY. YOU WILL BEABLE TO HELP OTHERS AS I PRAY I AM HELPING YOU:-) YOU DO WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU TO MAKE YOU FEEL STORNGER AND CLOSER TO YOUR DAUGHTER AND YOU LOOK UP AND SMILE AT HER. I TELL PEOPLE WHEN YOU MISS ONE...HUG YOURSELF FOR THEY ARE INSIDE OF YOU IN YOUR HEART..THEN, OTHER TIMES. LIKE WHEN, MY GRANDDAUGHTER WAS LITTLE SHE LOST A BALLOON AND WAS IN TEARS. I TOLD HER THAT'S OK JUST THINK GRANDMA OR GRANDPA WILL CATCH IT .. IT WENT TO HEAVEN..EVEN TODAY AT 10 SHE LETS ONE LOOSE ON PURPOSE AT TIMES AND SAYS THAT'S ALRIGHT. I SMILE KNOWING WHAT SHE IS DOING!:-) YOUR DAUGHTER KNOWS YOU LOVE HER. MY DAUGHTER AND I HIT HEADS YET, AFTER A VERY ABUSIVE MARRIAGE FROM A CAR WRECK HE WAS IN THAT CHANGED HIM TO BE MEAN AND UNHAPPY WITHIN HIMSELF..THE DOCTOR STATED WE MY DAU. AND I HAD A BOND THAT NO ONE COULD COME BETWEEN. THAT IS TRUE AND THAT IS TRUE WITH YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. I KNOW THEY SAY ONE HAS NEVER FELT PAIN LIKE A DEATH OF AN OWN CHILD...MY FATHER YET, MY DAU. TO BE MURDERED..MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. SO, MANY TODAY ARE IN ABUSIVE SITUATIONS. I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW MANY UNTIL I WAS ON MYSPACE AND WAS " BLESSED " TO BE A FRIEND WITH " VOICES LOVE MUSIC " . I LOVE THOSE POEPLE FOR GETTING THE WORD OUT FOR ALL TO KNOW THEY CAN GET HELP!! I WASN'T AWARE OF OUTSIDE HELP SO, VERT GRATEFUL FOR THESE ORIGANIZATIONS! MY FRIEND I PRAY YOU CAN HAND IT OVER TO GOD AND LET IT GO TO BE STRONG, INSPIRING, AND TO HELP OTHERS THAT NEED HELP RATHER AS A FREIND, SPEAKER OR WHATEVER MAY COME TOWARD YOU IN TIME....YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF THAT YOUCAN FORGIVE HIM FOR HE WAS SICK..HE NEEDED HELP ..LIFE KEEPS GOING AND WE HAVE TO GO WITH IT...IF NOT, ABLE TO FORGIVE JUST ACCEPT AND MOVE ON DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT..YOU WILL IN TIME LET GOD HANDLE IT FOR YOU..HE WILL AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF THE MURDERER FOR YOU!! I PROMISE! IT GAVE ME AN INNER SATISFACTION KNOWING GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF HIM FOR ME..BY THIS I WAS ABLE TO FORGIVE AND LET GO..I PRAY YOU CAN AND DO..IF YOU REALLY WANT TO AS YOU STATED , " THAT IT BOTHERS YOU " THEN, DO...PLEASE, FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR DAUGHTER..THINK HOW MUCH HAPPIER AND PROUD YOUR DAUGHTER WILL BE OF YOU TO KNOW YOU DON'T HAVE THAT BURDEN ON YOUR SHOULDERS ANYMORE. THAT WEIGHT! MY LOVE, MY HEART & SPIRIT ARE WITH YOU IN PRAYER AND AS A FRIEND,ALWAYS! GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOU. 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Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 > > Hi Dearest Friends, > After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the > responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. As > I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not > know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not forgive > her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, and > especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I > just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A > grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive him. > But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest > extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I don't > think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've > begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful place > in my life - except for this piece. > > I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because we > exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die > like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know > she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time > forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. > This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful > mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like any > parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many > positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying " wow, look > what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual now. " > It's just hard to get past this. > > I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to be > reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has been > about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to post > it yet. But I will. > > Love and Light, > Carole > Hi Carole, I just recently joined Humanity so i was unaware of your great loss. I have not lost a child due to violence but in 1998 I lost a great friend Sherry and her brother who were murdered by Sherry's husband. It is very very hard to forgive him for taking their beautiful and precious lives. I haven't reached that point either. I have taken steps and hopefully I will reach complete forgiveness. I feel that forgiveness is important though difficult considering the circumstances because the universe can find balance as well as our spirit. I would also be honored to read you writings. May many rays of God's love shine upon you and your loved ones. Many blessings to you, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2008 Report Share Posted March 25, 2008 To you both. My beautiful brother was taken from this world at the hands of another.. and forgivness of the person who did this is impossible in its comleteness..It always will be. as this person is still at large and living a normal life. Each of us are born innocent. Our subconsious and soul always remains as innocent as the day we were born. It is the consious mind that makes decisions and creates the acts which to others is impossible to even contemplate. If it is so important for you to forgive those that commited such pain and hurt towards you through the loss of such wonderful beings in your life.. Then think of those that you care to forgive as the soul that was born into this world in innocence.. The beautiful soul that somehow somewhere something terrible must have happenened to them to cause their concious being to cause such pain and devistation. Forgivness becomes easy when we remember that each of us begin at such a beautiful and innocent state.. Many of us are lucky to live without the anger and complete hatred and pain that could cause such an innocet soul to change into one that could do this to another.. We may become tortured for our losses.. but our pain must be nothing compaired to that of the soul whos inner hatred overspills into the consious mind and allows them to commit such atrocities. What terrible pain must they have felt so comletely inconcevable to us but so completely real to them. words of an empath who has felt the pain of a murderer. aka star. > > > > Hi Dearest Friends, > > After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the > > responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. As > > I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not > > know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not forgive > > her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, and > > especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I > > just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A > > grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive him. > > But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest > > extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I don't > > think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've > > begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful place > > in my life - except for this piece. > > > > I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because we > > exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die > > like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know > > she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time > > forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. > > This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful > > mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like any > > parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many > > positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying " wow, look > > what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual now. " > > It's just hard to get past this. > > > > I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to be > > reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has been > > about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to post > > it yet. But I will. > > > > Love and Light, > > Carole > > > Hi Carole, I just recently joined Humanity so i was unaware of your > great loss. I have not lost a child due to violence but in 1998 I lost > a great friend Sherry and her brother who were murdered by > Sherry's husband. It is very very hard to forgive him for taking their > beautiful and precious lives. I haven't reached that point either. I > have taken steps and hopefully I will reach complete forgiveness. I > feel that forgiveness is important though difficult considering the > circumstances because the universe can find balance as well as our > spirit. I would also be honored to read you writings. May many rays > of God's love shine upon you and your loved ones. > > Many blessings to you, > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Dearest Friends (especially Jacqui, , , Cheryl, Stef and Di), I can't tell you how comforting your words were. Perhaps I HAVE forgiven the man that took my daughter's life and just didn't realize it. My own pain has been so great and my grief so profound that I never took the time to think about what a tortured soul he must have been to be able to carry out such a heinous crime. I have no contact with him at all now, but I would imagine his pain is probably far greater than mine. Thank you all for reaching out with your words to comfort me. I am doing very positive things with my life now and I'm healing. This group has been a wonderful place for me to heal, not only in reaching out when I'm in need but in responding to others in pain as well. A big hug to everyone. Love and Light, Carole > > >> > > Hi Dearest Friends,> > > After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the > > > responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. > As > > > I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not > > > know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not > forgive > > > her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, > and > > > especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I > > > just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A > > > grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive > him. > > > But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest > > > extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I > don't > > > think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've > > > begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful > place > > > in my life - except for this piece.> > > > > > I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because > we > > > exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die > > > like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know > > > she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time > > > forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. > > > This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful > > > mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like > any > > > parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many > > > positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying "wow, > look > > > what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual > now." > > > It's just hard to get past this. > > > > > > I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to > be > > > reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has > been > > > about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to > post > > > it yet. But I will. > > > > > > Love and Light,> > > Carole> > >> > Hi Carole, I just recently joined Humanity so i was unaware of your> > great loss. I have not lost a child due to violence but in 1998 I > lost> > a great friend Sherry and her brother who were murdered by> > Sherry's husband. It is very very hard to forgive him for taking > their> > beautiful and precious lives. I haven't reached that point either. I> > have taken steps and hopefully I will reach complete forgiveness. I> > feel that forgiveness is important though difficult considering the> > circumstances because the universe can find balance as well as our> > spirit. I would also be honored to read you writings. May many rays> > of God's love shine upon you and your loved ones. > > > > Many blessings to you,> > > >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 A good book on learning forgiveness, the permenant way is Disappearance of the Universe by Renard Happy seeking all!! Love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 > > > > > > --- In , " Carole " <cbrum2005@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Hi Dearest Friends, > > > > After reading the request for help with forgiving and all the > > > > responses it made me think of my own problems with forgiveness. > > As > > > > I've posted a few times (but some of the newer members might not > > > > know) my daughter was murdered. Try as I might, I can not > > forgive > > > > her murderer. I can find some compassion in my heart for him, > > and > > > > especially his family. I have no hatred (this took awhile) but I > > > > just can't forgive the crime that took my child away from me. A > > > > grief therapist told me it wasn't necessary for me to forgive > > him. > > > > But I want to, because I don't think I can heal to the fullest > > > > extent without doing that. Notice I didn't say fully heal. I > > don't > > > > think I'll ever completely get over this. Since her death I've > > > > begun a spiritual journey that has brought me to a wonderful > > place > > > > in my life - except for this piece. > > > > > > > > I also wish I could go back the last few days of her life because > > we > > > > exchanged harsh words. I didn't have any idea that she would die > > > > like she did. But you can't go back and redo something. I know > > > > she's forgiven me for what I said to her, but I have a hard time > > > > forgiving myself for our last conversation being a negative one. > > > > This is the first time I've shared this. We had a wonderful > > > > mother/daughter relationship but it had it's moments just like > > any > > > > parent and child do. However, I've changed so much in so many > > > > positive ways that I know she's looking down and saying " wow, > > look > > > > what's happened to my mom. She's so centered and spiritual > > now. " > > > > It's just hard to get past this. > > > > > > > > I have promised our good friend Randy that you guys are going to > > be > > > > reading some of my work I've written, and quite a bit of it has > > been > > > > about her. I just havn't gotten up the courage and strength to > > post > > > > it yet. But I will. > > > > > > > > Love and Light, > > > > Carole > > > > > > > Hi Carole, I just recently joined Humanity so i was unaware of your > > > great loss. I have not lost a child due to violence but in 1998 I > > lost > > > a great friend Sherry and her brother who were murdered by > > > Sherry's husband. It is very very hard to forgive him for taking > > their > > > beautiful and precious lives. I haven't reached that point either. I > > > have taken steps and hopefully I will reach complete forgiveness. I > > > feel that forgiveness is important though difficult considering the > > > circumstances because the universe can find balance as well as our > > > spirit. I would also be honored to read you writings. May many rays > > > of God's love shine upon you and your loved ones. > > > > > > Many blessings to you, > > > > > > > > > DEAR CAROLE, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOU! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I AM SO OVERWHELMED, BLESSED AS I READ THIS. YES, HE HAS TO BE VERY MISERABLE & TORTURED WITHIN ! IT BROUGHT TEARS WITH A SMILE AS I READ .. LOVE, PRAYERS & RESPECT TO YOU, ALWAYS IN HEART & SPIRIT! BIG HUGS & MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU MY FRIEND! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2008 Report Share Posted March 26, 2008 Hi , Thank you for the book suggestion. Love and Light, Carole > > A good book on learning forgiveness, the permenant way is > > Disappearance of the Universe by Renard > > Happy seeking all!! > > Love > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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