Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 Lea ~ Goodmorning. All that was said about my daughter was a set up. Her hubby has severely mentally and emotionally abused her and the kids for years. She did not have drugs on her, nor did she have any in her system, she has had 2 drug tests now. This was all a set up. He was constantly doing things to her over the years, and this was a big one ! ! He is bi-polar, and she says he is tri-polar, and hasnt taken his meds in a long time. He is psycho ! Come to find out, she did stay away from me and Dad because he has been really bad this last year, and she didnt want him to cause me to have another heart attack. He is responsible for the last one. He had come over here and berated her horribly and told me what all he was going to do to her. This lasted for an hour and a half. I was trembling by the time he left, and my grandson, kept begging to go, as he wanted his dad to stop. This story is a very long and sad story of how a psycho maniac can brainwash and destroy people in their lives to serve what ever purpose they are thinking at the time. He had told all of us that he had gone out in his back yard, and fell to his knees, and asked God what to do, and that God told him to do this to her. I guess this speaks for itself. I told her last night, that I went in my back yard and fell to my knees and asked God, did he really tell him to do this, and he told me, no honey, that wasnt me he spoke to..........It got a smile out of her.... She is scared to death, every car that drives by, she is afraid it is him. He owns an arsenal of guns..........She is also scared that he has planted more stuff on her to try to get her arrested again. She is afraid to go out the front door ! ! She is scared to sleep by herself, and is with me. Bless her heart, he has broken her so badly. She is and has been very depressed for a very long time. She rarely fought back with him cuz she didnt want the kids to see this behavior from her, so she also never defended herself to his horrible accusations and treatment. The stories of the abuse I have heard this last couple days would make your hair stand on end and sizzle, and make your heart very sad. She needs as many prayers as possible. What is sad, she loves him unconditional, and has forgiven all his bad behavior all these years, and this has resulted in her being very, very broken. I hope that you are getting some answers from your doctors and are feeling better. I love you and you are in my prayers, all of you ladies are in my thoughts and prayers and have my love ~ Dede It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 Lea ~ Goodmorning. All that was said about my daughter was a set up. Her hubby has severely mentally and emotionally abused her and the kids for years. She did not have drugs on her, nor did she have any in her system, she has had 2 drug tests now. This was all a set up. He was constantly doing things to her over the years, and this was a big one ! ! He is bi-polar, and she says he is tri-polar, and hasnt taken his meds in a long time. He is psycho ! Come to find out, she did stay away from me and Dad because he has been really bad this last year, and she didnt want him to cause me to have another heart attack. He is responsible for the last one. He had come over here and berated her horribly and told me what all he was going to do to her. This lasted for an hour and a half. I was trembling by the time he left, and my grandson, kept begging to go, as he wanted his dad to stop. This story is a very long and sad story of how a psycho maniac can brainwash and destroy people in their lives to serve what ever purpose they are thinking at the time. He had told all of us that he had gone out in his back yard, and fell to his knees, and asked God what to do, and that God told him to do this to her. I guess this speaks for itself. I told her last night, that I went in my back yard and fell to my knees and asked God, did he really tell him to do this, and he told me, no honey, that wasnt me he spoke to..........It got a smile out of her.... She is scared to death, every car that drives by, she is afraid it is him. He owns an arsenal of guns..........She is also scared that he has planted more stuff on her to try to get her arrested again. She is afraid to go out the front door ! ! She is scared to sleep by herself, and is with me. Bless her heart, he has broken her so badly. She is and has been very depressed for a very long time. She rarely fought back with him cuz she didnt want the kids to see this behavior from her, so she also never defended herself to his horrible accusations and treatment. The stories of the abuse I have heard this last couple days would make your hair stand on end and sizzle, and make your heart very sad. She needs as many prayers as possible. What is sad, she loves him unconditional, and has forgiven all his bad behavior all these years, and this has resulted in her being very, very broken. I hope that you are getting some answers from your doctors and are feeling better. I love you and you are in my prayers, all of you ladies are in my thoughts and prayers and have my love ~ Dede It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 Oh, Sweet Dede: The note that came through this morning from me was written two days ago. My mail has been doing strange things, and the rats could still be watching me. Honey, please stay strong, and do not allow your son-in-law to destroy your family. He sounds just like my daughter, and they can be extremely manipulating. When my daughter wrote that hateful letter, everything that she said was a lie. These people frighten me, because they are so unhappy with their own lives that they are out to destroy everyone who might get in their way. He needs a restraining order to keep him away from your daughter, and the guns should be reported to the police. Dede, there is so much abuse going on in most families that it has become an epidemic. Women like us are too fragile to have to put up with this trouble. Just know that we understand, and we will pray that everything works out for you and your family. Sending love and hope to your family...Lea and Superman ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`````` Lea and Group ~ Lea ~ Goodmorning. All that was said about my daughter was a set up. Her hubby has severely mentally and emotionally abused her and the kids for years. She did not have drugs on her, nor did she have any in her system, she has had 2 drug tests now. This was all a set up. He was constantly doing things to her over the years, and this was a big one ! ! He is bi-polar, and she says he is tri-polar, and hasnt taken his meds in a long time. He is psycho ! Come to find out, she did stay away from me and Dad because he has been really bad this last year, and she didnt want him to cause me to have another heart attack. He is responsible for the last one. He had come over here and berated her horribly and told me what all he was going to do to her. This lasted for an hour and a half. I was trembling by the time he left, and my grandson, kept begging to go, as he wanted his dad to stop. This story is a very long and sad story of how a psycho maniac can brainwash and destroy people in their lives to serve what ever purpose they are thinking at the time. He had told all of us that he had gone out in his back yard, and fell to his knees, and asked God what to do, and that God told him to do this to her. I guess this speaks for itself. I told her last night, that I went in my back yard and fell to my knees and asked God, did he really tell him to do this, and he told me, no honey, that wasnt me he spoke to..........It got a smile out of her.... She is scared to death, every car that drives by, she is afraid it is him. He owns an arsenal of guns..........She is also scared that he has planted more stuff on her to try to get her arrested again. She is afraid to go out the front door ! ! She is scared to sleep by herself, and is with me. Bless her heart, he has broken her so badly. She is and has been very depressed for a very long time. She rarely fought back with him cuz she didnt want the kids to see this behavior from her, so she also never defended herself to his horrible accusations and treatment. The stories of the abuse I have heard this last couple days would make your hair stand on end and sizzle, and make your heart very sad. She needs as many prayers as possible. What is sad, she loves him unconditional, and has forgiven all his bad behavior all these years, and this has resulted in her being very, very broken. I hope that you are getting some answers from your doctors and are feeling better. I love you and you are in my prayers, all of you ladies are in my thoughts and prayers and have my love ~ Dede It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 Oh, Sweet Dede: The note that came through this morning from me was written two days ago. My mail has been doing strange things, and the rats could still be watching me. Honey, please stay strong, and do not allow your son-in-law to destroy your family. He sounds just like my daughter, and they can be extremely manipulating. When my daughter wrote that hateful letter, everything that she said was a lie. These people frighten me, because they are so unhappy with their own lives that they are out to destroy everyone who might get in their way. He needs a restraining order to keep him away from your daughter, and the guns should be reported to the police. Dede, there is so much abuse going on in most families that it has become an epidemic. Women like us are too fragile to have to put up with this trouble. Just know that we understand, and we will pray that everything works out for you and your family. Sending love and hope to your family...Lea and Superman ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`````` Lea and Group ~ Lea ~ Goodmorning. All that was said about my daughter was a set up. Her hubby has severely mentally and emotionally abused her and the kids for years. She did not have drugs on her, nor did she have any in her system, she has had 2 drug tests now. This was all a set up. He was constantly doing things to her over the years, and this was a big one ! ! He is bi-polar, and she says he is tri-polar, and hasnt taken his meds in a long time. He is psycho ! Come to find out, she did stay away from me and Dad because he has been really bad this last year, and she didnt want him to cause me to have another heart attack. He is responsible for the last one. He had come over here and berated her horribly and told me what all he was going to do to her. This lasted for an hour and a half. I was trembling by the time he left, and my grandson, kept begging to go, as he wanted his dad to stop. This story is a very long and sad story of how a psycho maniac can brainwash and destroy people in their lives to serve what ever purpose they are thinking at the time. He had told all of us that he had gone out in his back yard, and fell to his knees, and asked God what to do, and that God told him to do this to her. I guess this speaks for itself. I told her last night, that I went in my back yard and fell to my knees and asked God, did he really tell him to do this, and he told me, no honey, that wasnt me he spoke to..........It got a smile out of her.... She is scared to death, every car that drives by, she is afraid it is him. He owns an arsenal of guns..........She is also scared that he has planted more stuff on her to try to get her arrested again. She is afraid to go out the front door ! ! She is scared to sleep by herself, and is with me. Bless her heart, he has broken her so badly. She is and has been very depressed for a very long time. She rarely fought back with him cuz she didnt want the kids to see this behavior from her, so she also never defended herself to his horrible accusations and treatment. The stories of the abuse I have heard this last couple days would make your hair stand on end and sizzle, and make your heart very sad. She needs as many prayers as possible. What is sad, she loves him unconditional, and has forgiven all his bad behavior all these years, and this has resulted in her being very, very broken. I hope that you are getting some answers from your doctors and are feeling better. I love you and you are in my prayers, all of you ladies are in my thoughts and prayers and have my love ~ Dede It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Oh Dede,I'm happy you have your daughter "back" . . . but I'm terribly sorry she's been so hurt! . . . I'm sure it won't be easy, but I think all of you will be going through a healing process through this. . . And, hopefully everyone will come out healthier and happier on the other side.Hugs and prayers,Rogene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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