Re: You Ladies Are AWESOME!!!!

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Ya, bless your heart, you are doing

the right thing, ignoring her stupidity !

Good Girl ! better for you and your

hubby !

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Trust me, i could let it get to me but i know way too much about her

past so when the time is right i cant blast back but right now its

just not worth the aggrivation it would cause for my husband. I just

consider the source and move on . This is the same woman who made

me feel like a nutcase because i was concerned about a mole on my

leg and made a dermatologist appointment, it just looked weird to

me. Yea turned out to be melanoma so i remind her of that every now

and then as well.

>

> Yes, I would say, she is a smart-ass, and

> perhaps you should shame her by saying,

> Do you feel better now ? and when she asks,

> what you mean by that, say to her, that her

> insensitive comment shows her ingorance

> on the subject and her level of compassion

> is lacking and you would appreciate it if she

> would cease to insult you about something she

> knows nothing about.

> I am sick and tired of rude relatives ! !

> Hugs Dede....

>

>

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Dede,

You are so sweet . Thank you so much. I think because of my

family it has made me a stronger person I feel for them but lose NO

sleep over them. I Have family right here. I have learned sometimes

God gives you that family because he know what you can handle.

And then he gives you a family like you girls to make up the difference.

I am glad he is in control.

In a message dated 2/8/2008 12:07:39 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, DGRAHAMA@... writes:

~

I am sorry your family neglects and abuses you.

They are missing out on a lovely, funny, beautiful,

woman and friend. They have a huge loss in their

life. We all love you and are here for you ! !

Love Dede

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,

How awful of a remark of your mother in law. Sounds like jealousy in her heart for you. And

she takes it out on you because you take it . I use to be the one I let people walk all over

but I stick up for myself now and I do it in a sense of style. Give her a verse from the bible

Esphians 4:9 God dont like abusive language or foul language and I wouldn't want to be in your

shoes on judgement day. Say it with a smile and love.Really mean it from your heart too and God will correct her in a kind way.

.

In a message dated 2/8/2008 10:58:23 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, lisatucholski@... writes:

wow, that is just sad. I guess i can somewhat understand why people second guess implant illness but if all they know is that you are sick and dont bother, that is just not right. Sounds like you have wonderful husband and kids at home and along with this group, you have all the support you need. We will all see you through this until you are 100% again. My mother in law always asks " so are your boobs still conspiring to kill you"? Im not sure how to take that but since she has never asked me what was going on or appeared concerned im assuming i should take that as sarcasm. They just dont get it.>> > My whole family doesn't know about my implants only my husband and children > do!!!!> But as far as my family they just think I am really sick. And dont come > around> and say things shes always sick. They put me down. So I just dont go> around negative people.> > Their day is coming when they leave this earth and they will go > through all the shut downs in their body and feel exactly the> way I did.> Keep your chin up > > > > In a message dated 2/8/2008 10:17:13 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, > lisatucholski@... writes:> > > > > I had to have the fanny pak to hide the medicine ball becuase my mom > had no idea i got the implants till about a year later . If she hade > found out i would have been in more pain from her the the actual > procedure. Im not sure if you ever saw Everyone Loves but > that is my family to a T. Me and my sister call my mom Marie because > she is just involved in everything!.she is just involved in> > --- In _ @SalineSupporSal_ (mailto: ) > , shellyjo1021@, shel> >> > ,> > You are so funny about the Roller Derby. I think I am going to > > buy me a jogging suit this week . I sont know about the fanny> > pak. I think I will just sit at home and read. No way will> > I go out in public looking like them tourist people with the> > fanny pak just wont look good on me girl.LOLOLO> > TJ. Maxx here I come. Watch me end up taking your advice> > later after surgery...I can hear it now .....Honey can you> > go get me a fanny pak. He will look at me like what year> > did I come from. > > Oh MY what has this lead to....HELP.. Oh MY what has this > > > > > > In a message dated 2/8/2008 8:53:10 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, > > lisatucholski@ lisatuchol> > > > > > > > > > ,> > You are too funny! I was thinking the same thing when i read that > > but we have been through worse and survived. Hopefully you wont > > drain too much so you wont have to dump it too often. When i had > the > > implants in I opted for the "pain ball" when i was implanted and > the > > tubes came out the same way that the drains do. Judging from what > > the drains look like they ar basically the same idea. I went to > TJ > > Max and bougth a really cheap zip up jogging suite. I also had a > > cheap fanny pack that i kept on my waist to hide the ball that > had > > the medicine in it. I dont know if that will work with the drains > > but it is very convenient if the containers fit in a holder. Then > > you dont have to worry about banging or detaching the drains. > > Granted i looked like a 1970 Roller Derby reject between the suit > > and the fanny pak but man was i comfortable. and > > > > --- In _ @ --- In _Sali> (mailto:_ @SalineSupporSal_ > (mailto: ) ) > > , shellyjo1021@ , she> > >> > > Ok Rogene > > > Your starting to freak with me. It wont fit under street > clothes > > whats up > > > with that!!!!!!> > > Can I put a zip up jacket on and wear that for 7 days. HAHAHA.> > > What are you suppose to wear with it.....I cant walk around > here > > in my bra I > > > have boys galore....HEHEHEHE> > > Ok now I am going to emptying a bottle from my boobs are you > > joking!!!!!! jo> > > Will I be able to handle this. Is it like breast feeding or > > what? Oh MY Oh > > > MY> > > what have I done to deserve this > > > > > > Sincerely in Need of Instructions Today....... Sincerely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In a message dated 2/7/2008 3:54:28 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, > > > saxony01@ writes:> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ,> > > > > > You'll probably have drains too . . . > > > > > > They shouldn't be painful . . . just awkward because they don't > > fit well > > > under street clothes.> > > > > > Sometimes fluids collect following surgery. . . Better to drain > > them off > > > than to let them accumulate with accompanying pressure and pain.> > > > > > If the fluids are contaminated, you'll want that stuff out ASAP > > anyway.> > > > > > They're just a small tube that goes from the incision to a > > collection > > > bottle. Your job is to empty the bottle and keep everything > > clean. Not a problem.> > > > > > Rogene> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ************ ************<WBR>**Biggest Grammy Award surprises o> > Music. > > > (__http://music.http://music._ (http://music.http//music.) > <_WBhttp://muhttp:WBhttp://mWBhtt_ (wbhttp://muhttp://mushttp://mu_) > > (_http://music.http://music.<WBhttp://muhttp://mushttp://mu_ > (http://music.aol.com/grammys/pictures/never-won-a-grammy?) ) > > NCID=aolcmp00300000 NCI> > > 48)> > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ************ ************<WBR>**Biggest Grammy Award surprises o> Music. > > (_http://music.http://music.<WBhttp://muhttp://mushttp://mu_ > (http://music.aol.com/grammys/pictures/never-won-a-grammy?) > NCID=aolcmp00300000NCID> > 48)> >> > > > > > > > **************Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on AOL Music. > (http://music.aol.com/grammys/pictures/never-won-a-grammy?NCID=aolcmp003000000025> 48)> Who's never won? Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on AOL Music.

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Rogene,

She already gave me a perscription on Keflex after the surgery for infection in the breast

to go away ...She says there is difinitely pus in there now and trapped in the breast.

I will be a good girl and take her medicines this time but in the future I dont plan on it.

Very confident.

In a message dated 2/8/2008 10:39:08 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, saxony01@... writes:

,Dr. Feng will know if it's prudent to put you on antibiotics after surgery once she does your surgery. . . If she finds pus, etc., she may do so.If she has to use antibiotics, you'll be glad she did. The goal is to get the toxins out so you can get well . . . You can deal with any fungal issues later. Hugs,Rogene

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Rogene,

It took a lot of reading books and help of you girls that has really educated me. I have read

numerous books over the past 3 years, including childrens books . When I lost the ability to read at one point. My 9 year old taught me thank God. Well he was 6 at the time learning to read himself, so he taught himself and me. I use to hate reading and now I love it .

I just cant learn enough I love it. And now fungus does not love me.

In a message dated 2/8/2008 11:12:41 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, saxony01@... writes:

,I hate antibiotics too . .. But there are times when they are necessary.This is one of them.The good thing is that you know how to keep the fungal issues in check. Most people don't have a clue.Hugs and prayers,Rogene

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,I hate antibiotics too . .. But there are times when they are necessary.This is one of them.The good thing is that you know how to keep the fungal issues in check. Most people don't have a clue.Hugs and prayers,Rogene

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, bless your heart, words can hurt....love you....Lea

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Re: Re: You Ladies Are AWESOME!!!!

,

How awful of a remark of your mother in law. Sounds like jealousy in her heart for you. And

she takes it out on you because you take it . I use to be the one I let people walk all over

but I stick up for myself now and I do it in a sense of style. Give her a verse from the bible

Esphians 4:9 God dont like abusive language or foul language and I wouldn't want to be in your

shoes on judgement day. Say it with a smile and love.Really mean it from your heart too and God will correct her in a kind way.

.

In a message dated 2/8/2008 10:58:23 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, lisatucholski writes:

wow, that is just sad. I guess i can somewhat understand why people second guess implant illness but if all they know is that you are sick and dont bother, that is just not right. Sounds like you have wonderful husband and kids at home and along with this group, you have all the support you need. We will all see you through this until you are 100% again. My mother in law always asks " so are your boobs still conspiring to kill you"? Im not sure how to take that but since she has never asked me what was going on or appeared concerned im assuming i should take that as sarcasm. They just dont get it.>> > My whole family doesn't know about my implants only my husband and children > do!!!!> But as far as my family they just think I am really sick. And dont come > around> and say things shes always sick. They put me down. So I just dont go> around negative people.> > Their day is coming when they leave this earth and they will go > through all the shut downs in their body and feel exactly the> way I did.> Keep your chin up > > > > In a message dated 2/8/2008 10:17:13 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, > lisatucholski@... writes:> > > > > I had to have the fanny pak to hide the medicine ball becuase my mom > had no idea i got the implants till about a year later . If she hade > found out i would have been in more pain from her the the actual > procedure. Im not sure if you ever saw Everyone Loves but > that is my family to a T. Me and my sister call my mom Marie because > she is just involved in everything!.she is just involved in> > --- In _ @SalineSupporSal_ (mailto: ) > , shellyjo1021@, shel> >> > ,> > You are so funny about the Roller Derby. I think I am going to > > buy me a jogging suit this week . I sont know about the fanny> > pak. I think I will just sit at home and read. No way will> > I go out in public looking like them tourist people with the> > fanny pak just wont look good on me girl.LOLOLO> > TJ. Maxx here I come. Watch me end up taking your advice> > later after surgery...I can hear it now .....Honey can you> > go get me a fanny pak. He will look at me like what year> > did I come from. > > Oh MY what has this lead to....HELP.. Oh MY what has this > > > > > > In a message dated 2/8/2008 8:53:10 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, > > lisatucholski@ lisatuchol> > > > > > > > > > ,> > You are too funny! I was thinking the same thing when i read that > > but we have been through worse and survived. Hopefully you wont > > drain too much so you wont have to dump it too often. When i had > the > > implants in I opted for the "pain ball" when i was implanted and > the > > tubes came out the same way that the drains do. Judging from what > > the drains look like they ar basically the same idea. I went to > TJ > > Max and bougth a really cheap zip up jogging suite. I also had a > > cheap fanny pack that i kept on my waist to hide the ball that > had > > the medicine in it. I dont know if that will work with the drains > > but it is very convenient if the containers fit in a holder. Then > > you dont have to worry about banging or detaching the drains. > > Granted i looked like a 1970 Roller Derby reject between the suit > > and the fanny pak but man was i comfortable. and > > > > --- In _ @ --- In _Sali> (mailto:_ @SalineSupporSal_ > (mailto: ) ) > > , shellyjo1021@ , she> > >> > > Ok Rogene > > > Your starting to freak with me. It wont fit under street > clothes > > whats up > > > with that!!!!!!> > > Can I put a zip up jacket on and wear that for 7 days. HAHAHA.> > > What are you suppose to wear with it.....I cant walk around > here > > in my bra I > > > have boys galore....HEHEHEHE> > > Ok now I am going to emptying a bottle from my boobs are you > > joking!!!!!! jo> > > Will I be able to handle this. Is it like breast feeding or > > what? Oh MY Oh > > > MY> > > what have I done to deserve this > > > > > > Sincerely in Need of Instructions Today....... Sincerely > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In a message dated 2/7/2008 3:54:28 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, > > > saxony01@ writes:> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ,> > > > > > You'll probably have drains too . . . > > > > > > They shouldn't be painful . . . just awkward because they don't > > fit well > > > under street clothes.> > > > > > Sometimes fluids collect following surgery. . . Better to drain > > them off > > > than to let them accumulate with accompanying pressure and pain.> > > > > > If the fluids are contaminated, you'll want that stuff out ASAP > > anyway.> > > > > > They're just a small tube that goes from the incision to a > > collection > > > bottle. Your job is to empty the bottle and keep everything > > clean. 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