Guest guest Posted March 27, 2010 Report Share Posted March 27, 2010 Hello- My name is Kathy from South Florida, I am 42 and the mother of two daughters. I am new to the group and so happy to have found you. I have enjoyed/benefited from reading the posts. I relate to so much of what is being said. I feel like an 'addict' when it comes to food, specifically carbs. I eat sweets to manage my emotions - anger, stress, boredom. It has gotten progressively worse over the past fifteen years. I have dieted off and on but always regain the weight. I am now heavier than I've ever been (5' 7'' and 165 pounds - about 20 pounds over what is comfortable for me). While I'm not morbidly obese, I feel out of control around food. In the past I've have success managing my weight with Weight Watchers, but my obsessive thoughts about food (what I ate, what I was going to eat, what is 'bad' to eat) were still there. I read Intuitive Eating about 3 years ago and decided this was the only effective way to address my issues with food. It kind of ruined Weight Watchers for me because IE made WW seem anti-intuitive (I was controlling food using something outside of me - not my internal cues). I've now read several books on the subject, but have only experienced success for limited periods of time. Typically, I read and practice the principles for about a week to ten days, then slowly relapse into my old ways. For me IE is like regular exercise. When I'm doing it I feel so good, my head is not cluttered with obsessive thoughts...it's like I finally have some peace. However, when life gets in the way and I stop for a period of time, I find it incredibly hard to begin again. When I feel like I failed, it makes me eat more. It's a vicious cycle. I am hoping this group will be away to stay active with IE. Although I have been doing better with waiting until I'm hungry to eat, my challenges are eating in the middle of the night and eating beyond comfortable fullness. I know I'm full, I just WANT the taste of whatever I'm eating, so I say 'screw it' and keep going. This is followed by feeling overfull and remorseful. I also need to incorporate more water into my daily routine. I really want to maintain the IE this time for more than a short period. Any suggestions/thoughts are welcomed. Thanks again, Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 2010 Report Share Posted March 27, 2010 Welcome, Kathy! I'm new, too. I can identify very much with what you're saying!SusieMaine, USATo: IntuitiveEating_Support Sent: Sat, March 27, 2010 7:21:27 AMSubject: Glad to be here Hello- My name is Kathy from South Florida, I am 42 and the mother of two daughters. I am new to the group and so happy to have found you. I have enjoyed/benefited from reading the posts. I relate to so much of what is being said. I feel like an 'addict' when it comes to food, specifically carbs. I eat sweets to manage my emotions - anger, stress, boredom. It has gotten progressively worse over the past fifteen years. I have dieted off and on but always regain the weight. I am now heavier than I've ever been (5' 7'' and 165 pounds - about 20 pounds over what is comfortable for me). While I'm not morbidly obese, I feel out of control around food. In the past I've have success managing my weight with Weight Watchers, but my obsessive thoughts about food (what I ate, what I was going to eat, what is 'bad' to eat) were still there. I read Intuitive Eating about 3 years ago and decided this was the only effective way to address my issues with food. It kind of ruined Weight Watchers for me because IE made WW seem anti-intuitive (I was controlling food using something outside of me - not my internal cues). I've now read several books on the subject, but have only experienced success for limited periods of time. Typically, I read and practice the principles for about a week to ten days, then slowly relapse into my old ways. For me IE is like regular exercise. When I'm doing it I feel so good, my head is not cluttered with obsessive thoughts...it' s like I finally have some peace. However, when life gets in the way and I stop for a period of time, I find it incredibly hard to begin again. When I feel like I failed, it makes me eat more. It's a vicious cycle. I am hoping this group will be away to stay active with IE. Although I have been doing better with waiting until I'm hungry to eat, my challenges are eating in the middle of the night and eating beyond comfortable fullness. I know I'm full, I just WANT the taste of whatever I'm eating, so I say 'screw it' and keep going. This is followed by feeling overfull and remorseful. I also need to incorporate more water into my daily routine. I really want to maintain the IE this time for more than a short period. Any suggestions/ thoughts are welcomed. Thanks again, Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 2010 Report Share Posted March 27, 2010 Welcome, Kathy! I'm new, too. I can identify very much with what you're saying!SusieMaine, USATo: IntuitiveEating_Support Sent: Sat, March 27, 2010 7:21:27 AMSubject: Glad to be here Hello- My name is Kathy from South Florida, I am 42 and the mother of two daughters. I am new to the group and so happy to have found you. I have enjoyed/benefited from reading the posts. I relate to so much of what is being said. I feel like an 'addict' when it comes to food, specifically carbs. I eat sweets to manage my emotions - anger, stress, boredom. It has gotten progressively worse over the past fifteen years. I have dieted off and on but always regain the weight. I am now heavier than I've ever been (5' 7'' and 165 pounds - about 20 pounds over what is comfortable for me). While I'm not morbidly obese, I feel out of control around food. In the past I've have success managing my weight with Weight Watchers, but my obsessive thoughts about food (what I ate, what I was going to eat, what is 'bad' to eat) were still there. I read Intuitive Eating about 3 years ago and decided this was the only effective way to address my issues with food. It kind of ruined Weight Watchers for me because IE made WW seem anti-intuitive (I was controlling food using something outside of me - not my internal cues). I've now read several books on the subject, but have only experienced success for limited periods of time. Typically, I read and practice the principles for about a week to ten days, then slowly relapse into my old ways. For me IE is like regular exercise. When I'm doing it I feel so good, my head is not cluttered with obsessive thoughts...it' s like I finally have some peace. However, when life gets in the way and I stop for a period of time, I find it incredibly hard to begin again. When I feel like I failed, it makes me eat more. It's a vicious cycle. I am hoping this group will be away to stay active with IE. Although I have been doing better with waiting until I'm hungry to eat, my challenges are eating in the middle of the night and eating beyond comfortable fullness. I know I'm full, I just WANT the taste of whatever I'm eating, so I say 'screw it' and keep going. This is followed by feeling overfull and remorseful. I also need to incorporate more water into my daily routine. I really want to maintain the IE this time for more than a short period. Any suggestions/ thoughts are welcomed. Thanks again, Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 27, 2010 Report Share Posted March 27, 2010 Welcome, Kathy! I'm new, too. I can identify very much with what you're saying!SusieMaine, USATo: IntuitiveEating_Support Sent: Sat, March 27, 2010 7:21:27 AMSubject: Glad to be here Hello- My name is Kathy from South Florida, I am 42 and the mother of two daughters. I am new to the group and so happy to have found you. I have enjoyed/benefited from reading the posts. I relate to so much of what is being said. I feel like an 'addict' when it comes to food, specifically carbs. I eat sweets to manage my emotions - anger, stress, boredom. It has gotten progressively worse over the past fifteen years. I have dieted off and on but always regain the weight. I am now heavier than I've ever been (5' 7'' and 165 pounds - about 20 pounds over what is comfortable for me). While I'm not morbidly obese, I feel out of control around food. In the past I've have success managing my weight with Weight Watchers, but my obsessive thoughts about food (what I ate, what I was going to eat, what is 'bad' to eat) were still there. I read Intuitive Eating about 3 years ago and decided this was the only effective way to address my issues with food. It kind of ruined Weight Watchers for me because IE made WW seem anti-intuitive (I was controlling food using something outside of me - not my internal cues). I've now read several books on the subject, but have only experienced success for limited periods of time. Typically, I read and practice the principles for about a week to ten days, then slowly relapse into my old ways. For me IE is like regular exercise. When I'm doing it I feel so good, my head is not cluttered with obsessive thoughts...it' s like I finally have some peace. However, when life gets in the way and I stop for a period of time, I find it incredibly hard to begin again. When I feel like I failed, it makes me eat more. It's a vicious cycle. I am hoping this group will be away to stay active with IE. Although I have been doing better with waiting until I'm hungry to eat, my challenges are eating in the middle of the night and eating beyond comfortable fullness. I know I'm full, I just WANT the taste of whatever I'm eating, so I say 'screw it' and keep going. This is followed by feeling overfull and remorseful. I also need to incorporate more water into my daily routine. I really want to maintain the IE this time for more than a short period. Any suggestions/ thoughts are welcomed. Thanks again, Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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