Re: Re: Need advice trainer undoing my hard work

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Hi, Jo,

I'd also consider telling him that if he doesn't stop, you'll take up your concerns about his harassment of you with the manager of the facility/director of programs, or whoever is above him. I'd make sure to use the word "harassment" because it is legally actionable in some circumstances. This guy is your employee; you are paying his salary, so you don't have to take this stuff from him. Even though they're calling this a "boot camp," this is NOT military service. He needs to get clear on this issue.

Good luck!

Laurie

Re: Need advice trainer undoing my hard work

hi,

would it be possible to write him a letter stating your concerns & ask that he either stop 'hounding' you or give you your money back. i find that sometimes people have to see it in writing before they will listen to me. might be worth a try. you haven't got anything to lose by doing it.

mj

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> I've been doing quite well and have not binged in a very long time. I'm constantly working on normal eating - Intuitive Eating. I gave someone money in advance for boot camp classes, which I enjoyed; however, last couple of classes the instructor has been hounding me telling me what I should be eating, when I should be eating, how much - calorie counting and to stop eating at a certain time. He's been giving me grief for doing these classes and not listening to his food/eating advise. I don't like chips but noticed I've been craving chips and eating to spite him. The only way to join was to give him 3 months in advance but now I would like to get my money back as I feel he is undoing all the hard work I've done to date. I've been missing physical activity as an outlet for a job I hate. I have tried to explain to him but he doesn't listen and feels he is right.

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> Thanks,

> Jo.

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