Re: Re: Final letter when going NC?

[Guest guest]

good letter, just make sure about what she needs to do for you to beable to get

a restraining order, the part of the world where I'm at you have to have

physical contact/abusive contact to really warrant a restraining order, can't

get one for just harrassing you in the mail.  The other thing is keep track of

everythign she does to provoke you after this letter goes out.  so that if she

makes too many attempts that will help you get that restraining order if you

have proof that lunacy follows you it will help, plus make sure you send

anythign you send to her certified you can do this without giving any of your

own information you just need the number to verify that she got it in the chance

that she tries to claim I wasn't told to leave you alone, that way if you have

to have the police involved you can prove to them that you said get lost, she

can argue all she wants with words but in the mail, in writing can't aruge with

that as easily.  The only

other thing that I did was to express consequences to her actions, ie if you

send me mail I send it back, phone calls ignored, texts blocked, just so she is

clear on what will happen if she tries, you may have to do it a couple of times

to get the hint.  Hell I had to refuse packages and have had to mail packages

back to nada and her monkeys after they harrassed me at work.

best of luck

proflaf

Subject: Re: Final letter when going NC?

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Date: Wednesday, July 21, 2010, 10:40 PM

 

Thank you everyone for your responses. I have decided to send a brief letter

from Europe so that nada and fada think I moved there (it's actually very

believable). I want to send it to do my part and since I won't include a return

address, and I'll be changing all of my contact info, they won't even have a

chance to respond. Here is a rough draft, it sounds harsh but this is honestly

what I want to say:

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Hi,

You don't need to worry about me. I'm healthy, happy, and safe. I do not want

any contact: no phone calls, emails, or text messages.

I have waived my rights to the condo and you will find the papers and the

original deed in the apartment. [my nada and I co-own a condo so I don't want to

give them a reason to look for me]

If you contact me even once, that will be sufficient evidence for me to serve

you with a restraining order.

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Too harsh? any suggestions?