Re: Final letter when going NC?

July 23, 2010

Thanks everyone for your input! I realize one point of contact won't be enough

for a restraining order but nada won't know that. That's a good idea to send the

letter certified, I want to send it from Paris so I'll see if that's an option.

Also, it's a good idea to say what I'll do if she tries to contact me, but I'm

changing my name, phone number, email, and actual address so I don't know how

useful that will be. Thanks everyone!!

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> Subject: Re: Final letter when going NC?

> Date: Wednesday, July 21, 2010, 10:40 PM

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> Thank you everyone for your responses. I have decided to send a brief letter

from Europe so that nada and fada think I moved there (it's actually very

believable). I want to send it to do my part and since I won't include a return

address, and I'll be changing all of my contact info, they won't even have a

chance to respond. Here is a rough draft, it sounds harsh but this is honestly

what I want to say:

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> Hi,

> You don't need to worry about me. I'm healthy, happy, and safe. I do not want

any contact: no phone calls, emails, or text messages.

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> I have waived my rights to the condo and you will find the papers and the

original deed in the apartment. [my nada and I co-own a condo so I don't want to

give them a reason to look for me]

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> If you contact me even once, that will be sufficient evidence for me to serve

you with a restraining order.

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> Too harsh? any suggestions?

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