Re: a day in the life of nada......

[Guest guest]

Wow! I recognize so many elements of your experience it's scary. My dad has

also appeased/enabled nada my entire life. I was trained to make allowances for

my mother's horrible childhood, for which she felt real pain, and to deny the

horrible things my mother was doing to me and my siblings. When I began to

acknowledge what my mother had done/was doing, I felt sick and angry. Sometimes

I still do, but I usually feel pity and great sadness, it must be awful to see

the world through the eyes of a nada.