Re: BPDs hating other BPDs

[Guest guest]

Yep, one of my most BPD-ish friends in high school set off great loathing in my

nada and she sabotaged the friendship because that friend was *using*

me...horrors, only she was allowed to do that.

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> Has anyone noticed that they seem to hate one another? Nada always seemed to

abhor anyone that showed . . . well, BPD traits.

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> Just wondered if it was my imagination, or just my own mother.

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> Hmmm . . .

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[Guest guest]

Yep, one of my most BPD-ish friends in high school set off great loathing in my

nada and she sabotaged the friendship because that friend was *using*

me...horrors, only she was allowed to do that.

>

> Has anyone noticed that they seem to hate one another? Nada always seemed to

abhor anyone that showed . . . well, BPD traits.

>

> Just wondered if it was my imagination, or just my own mother.

>

> Hmmm . . .

>

[Guest guest]

Yep, one of my most BPD-ish friends in high school set off great loathing in my

nada and she sabotaged the friendship because that friend was *using*

me...horrors, only she was allowed to do that.

>

> Has anyone noticed that they seem to hate one another? Nada always seemed to

abhor anyone that showed . . . well, BPD traits.

>

> Just wondered if it was my imagination, or just my own mother.

>

> Hmmm . . .

>

[Guest guest]

oh no..my nada ( BPD) as always hated my aunt ( NP) especially when my aunt

is always late...nada would say why does auntie think she's so special she

can come whenever she wants, and why does everyone allow her to do

this...yet nada expects everyone to accommodate her !!

Jackie

> Has anyone noticed that they seem to hate one another? Nada always seemed

> to abhor anyone that showed . . . well, BPD traits.

>

> Just wondered if it was my imagination, or just my own mother.

>

> Hmmm . . .

>

>

[Guest guest]

Oh yes yes, and my nada loved to have an enemy of any kind and to try to be

the rudest, raise conflict to the next level etc. I think my

ex-mother-in-law was BPD (she was a freaking psycho, I have so so so many

stories) and my mother HATED that woman. But she was almost as bad. . . .

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> oh no..my nada ( BPD) as always hated my aunt ( NP) especially when my aunt

>

> is always late...nada would say why does auntie think she's so special she

> can come whenever she wants, and why does everyone allow her to do

> this...yet nada expects everyone to accommodate her !!

>

> Jackie

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> > Has anyone noticed that they seem to hate one another? Nada always seemed

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> > to abhor anyone that showed . . . well, BPD traits.

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> > Just wondered if it was my imagination, or just my own mother.

> >

> > Hmmm . . .

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[Guest guest]

my nada is VERY jealous of my mother in law ( MIL is a sweet lady, a June

Cleaver type)

Jackie

> Oh yes yes, and my nada loved to have an enemy of any kind and to try to

> be

> the rudest, raise conflict to the next level etc. I think my

> ex-mother-in-law was BPD (she was a freaking psycho, I have so so so many

> stories) and my mother HATED that woman. But she was almost as bad. . . .

>