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That's what I'm expecting too. She wouldn't not e-mail or write or

text she is too " I don't know how to do those kind of things " ...But

what she will most likely do is call or have others call for her..or

worse show up at my door..

On Mon, Aug 2, 2010 at 10:48 PM, Brown

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> If she sends emails or leaves voicemails ect asking why, I would just ignore

> them. It feeds into the drama that nada's love, and anything you say will

> just get twisted and used as nada ammo when she goes on her next smear

> campaign. The more you ignore them, the greater the chances that they will

> move on and find someone else to torture, someone who will play their games

> and react. She may up her behavior in the short term to try to force you

> into her web, but it will let off the longer you can keep from communicating

> with her. I don't even return letters or packages, since that would be a

> form of communication. Everything just gets deleted or put in the garbage,

> or thrown in a drawer if I'm worried about needing a restraining order in

> the future.

>

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> On Mon, Aug 2, 2010 at 9:27 PM, stefanie_low2006

wrote:

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>> I have a question. I am currenty no contact with my Nada. There was a big

>> family blowout a week ago with her and a suicide attempt. I have not spoken

>> to her since. I have no desire to ever..I feel just a cold empty feeling

>> when I think of her..I don't think it's hate...But I don't think it's

>> Love...It like ....nothing..just nothing.

>>

>> Any way..since then my brother has made up with her. He knows she is

>> " crazy " but He has been treat much diffrent then me..she doesn't expect

>> things from him...instead she does things for him..things she would never do

>> for me.

>>

>> My question is ..she doesn't think she has done anything wrong..The suicide

>> attemt ...well in her mind that was my fault I made her...She denies any

>> childhood abuse. And even if I could give an example of her wrong doing it

>> would be twisted into something completely diffrent...and she would not be

>> wrong in the end....So when asked why won't you talk to me ..what is a good

>> thing to say? Have you answered that question? what have you said?

>>

>> I await your responses..

>>

>> Stefanie

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