Re: Re: My sis.....a carbon copy of NADA

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Sara Jo,

Your sister doesn't see through your nada because she isn't

ready to do so right now for some reason. She may find it more

comfortable to be under your nada's control thus avoiding

conflict with her. Sometimes people just don't have the energy

or the willpower to keep fighting. Being smart doesn't

necessarily translate to being emotionally strong. I think

you're right not to beg and plead. Let her know that you're

there if she decides she wants to be part of your life, but

don't push it much. Hopefully she'll eventually come to her

senses and see what's really going on.

At 05:02 PM 07/27/2010 sara j wrote:

>I know my sis is under nada's control. In fact, I know what it

>is like to be in that position. I was in the same place for

>many years, ganging up on my sis because she did something to

>upset nada.

>

>I just want to be past that.

>My sister is a very smart girl. There was a time where she DID

>she through nada's BS. She's done it before, why can't she do

>it now?

>

>I've tried to reach out and have been rejected. I refuse to

>plead and beg to have people in my life that should love me

>anyway.

>

>~Sara Jo

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Katrina