Re: My sis.....a carbon copy of NADA

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I know my sis is under nada's control. In fact, I know what it is like to be in

that position. I was in the same place for many years, ganging up on my sis

because she did something to upset nada.

I just want to be past that.

My sister is a very smart girl. There was a time where she DID she through

nada's BS. She's done it before, why can't she do it now?

I've tried to reach out and have been rejected. I refuse to plead and beg to

have people in my life that should love me anyway.

~Sara Jo

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> > > > So I've been back to NC with nada because she doesn't want a

relationship with me as long as I'm talking to my dad. I knew my sis was upset

about it, too because she is so enmeshed with nada.

> > > > My sis and I have had minimal interaction with each other lately because

we work for the same company. Although she did reject me when I tried to give

her some baked goods that I had made. I expected it.

> > > > Anyway, today I gave her a call, and she didn't answer. So I left her a

message saying that I hope she's having a good weekend, and that I was thinking

of her.

> > > > She sent me a text back a few minutes later and it said:

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> > > > Hey I just got your message. Hope all is well. things aren't the same

and I don't know how to handle it right now. It's hard for me to just call you

up and act like nothing is wrong. Love you and hope you are having a good

weekend.

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> > > > So basically She's doing the same thing my nada is doing. Saying " I love

you, but I want nothing to do with you " .

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> > > > Does that make sense? IF you love someone do you not want them in your

life?

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> > > > Neither of them freaking love me. I never want to hear that from then

again.

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> > > > ~Sara Jo

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