Guest guest Posted August 8, 2010 Report Share Posted August 8, 2010 Hi, Another useful link. http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2010 Report Share Posted August 8, 2010 Thanks . that makes so much sense! 2010/8/8 Newton > > > Hi, > > Another useful link. > > http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2010 Report Share Posted August 8, 2010 Thanks . that makes so much sense! 2010/8/8 Newton > > > Hi, > > Another useful link. > > http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 Wow, this list gave me chills, . even though I'm more aware of what's going on between me and my mother, I still do have many of these traits. The one that stood out most was, " the habit of lying as part of walking on eggshells. " I lie a lot. " Oh, I didn't hear the phone, " " so and so was on the phone all night; that's why i didn't hear your call, " " I can't visit you this week; I'm so busy this week. " And so on. Even right this moment, my husband and daughter just left for their national park trip and what's distressing me most right now is keeping it from nada. I mean, I know she'll find out eventually, but I dread it. I wish she were the type of mother that I could share with and get support from. Wish, wish, wish > > Hi, > > Another useful link. > > http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 Wow, this list gave me chills, . even though I'm more aware of what's going on between me and my mother, I still do have many of these traits. The one that stood out most was, " the habit of lying as part of walking on eggshells. " I lie a lot. " Oh, I didn't hear the phone, " " so and so was on the phone all night; that's why i didn't hear your call, " " I can't visit you this week; I'm so busy this week. " And so on. Even right this moment, my husband and daughter just left for their national park trip and what's distressing me most right now is keeping it from nada. I mean, I know she'll find out eventually, but I dread it. I wish she were the type of mother that I could share with and get support from. Wish, wish, wish > > Hi, > > Another useful link. > > http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 This is excellent. I'm keeping it on the desktop for awhile. I know I've spent years saying " I don't want to be like my Mom " but I'm never sure when my behavior is normal human frustrations and when I'm being like her. I don't want to be tense and critical like her but sometimes I am. Whether it's BP or not, I'm going to flick that flea and gain control again. > > Hi, > > Another useful link. > > http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 This is excellent. I'm keeping it on the desktop for awhile. I know I've spent years saying " I don't want to be like my Mom " but I'm never sure when my behavior is normal human frustrations and when I'm being like her. I don't want to be tense and critical like her but sometimes I am. Whether it's BP or not, I'm going to flick that flea and gain control again. > > Hi, > > Another useful link. > > http://www.bpd411.org/fleas.html > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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