Guest guest Posted August 16, 2010 Report Share Posted August 16, 2010 Yep and shockingly enough in the end nada got the hint that she had to take care of herself, amazingly enough so far she has left me out of dealing with her all together, even lined up a lawyer and everything. Of course I wonder if other people told her to do that or if she realized she had burned a bridge with me that last time I saw her or even before then. It's not normal for someone to run away from you when they say " I love you " . Atleast in the end she did the right thing and arranged for her remains and estate to be dealt with without me. Of course I'm still checking a little more on the animal situation and my lawyer found some information for me about who is in charge and that things were going already. I just want to find out if I have a chance to buy anything back that was mine that I was forced to leave behind when I went NC and what the plan is for the animals. Hopefully they will have found other homes for them by now, but I have a feeling they haven't and need a kick in the pants to do so. Subject: Re: Nada is going 6 feet under To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Monday, August 16, 2010, 8:42 AM  It sounds like you have everything under control and that's good. My nada is the energizer bunny and keeps going and going and going and going. Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!! I want the healing to begin and the ripping apart to be discontinued due to death. Only those who have suffered and suffer with a nada understand the whole situation. It's a shame but I don't think from the sounds of it most therapists do either. It is now time for YOU! Rejoice in it - heal and share with others whatever help you can be to those who continue to suffer with nadas. To those who don't get it, forget it. Let them live their naive existences. Many blessings to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2010 Report Share Posted August 16, 2010 Yep and shockingly enough in the end nada got the hint that she had to take care of herself, amazingly enough so far she has left me out of dealing with her all together, even lined up a lawyer and everything. Of course I wonder if other people told her to do that or if she realized she had burned a bridge with me that last time I saw her or even before then. It's not normal for someone to run away from you when they say " I love you " . Atleast in the end she did the right thing and arranged for her remains and estate to be dealt with without me. Of course I'm still checking a little more on the animal situation and my lawyer found some information for me about who is in charge and that things were going already. I just want to find out if I have a chance to buy anything back that was mine that I was forced to leave behind when I went NC and what the plan is for the animals. Hopefully they will have found other homes for them by now, but I have a feeling they haven't and need a kick in the pants to do so. Subject: Re: Nada is going 6 feet under To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Monday, August 16, 2010, 8:42 AM  It sounds like you have everything under control and that's good. My nada is the energizer bunny and keeps going and going and going and going. Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!! I want the healing to begin and the ripping apart to be discontinued due to death. Only those who have suffered and suffer with a nada understand the whole situation. It's a shame but I don't think from the sounds of it most therapists do either. It is now time for YOU! Rejoice in it - heal and share with others whatever help you can be to those who continue to suffer with nadas. To those who don't get it, forget it. Let them live their naive existences. Many blessings to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2010 Report Share Posted August 16, 2010 Yep and shockingly enough in the end nada got the hint that she had to take care of herself, amazingly enough so far she has left me out of dealing with her all together, even lined up a lawyer and everything. Of course I wonder if other people told her to do that or if she realized she had burned a bridge with me that last time I saw her or even before then. It's not normal for someone to run away from you when they say " I love you " . Atleast in the end she did the right thing and arranged for her remains and estate to be dealt with without me. Of course I'm still checking a little more on the animal situation and my lawyer found some information for me about who is in charge and that things were going already. I just want to find out if I have a chance to buy anything back that was mine that I was forced to leave behind when I went NC and what the plan is for the animals. Hopefully they will have found other homes for them by now, but I have a feeling they haven't and need a kick in the pants to do so. Subject: Re: Nada is going 6 feet under To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Monday, August 16, 2010, 8:42 AM  It sounds like you have everything under control and that's good. My nada is the energizer bunny and keeps going and going and going and going. Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!! I want the healing to begin and the ripping apart to be discontinued due to death. Only those who have suffered and suffer with a nada understand the whole situation. It's a shame but I don't think from the sounds of it most therapists do either. It is now time for YOU! Rejoice in it - heal and share with others whatever help you can be to those who continue to suffer with nadas. To those who don't get it, forget it. Let them live their naive existences. Many blessings to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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