Re:When Is the Right Time to Tell Your Boyfriend about your Wacked Out

[Guest guest]

Thanks so much for both your inputs. In the past ten years of being single

again since I divorced my ex who morphed into his mother who was BPD after she

passed (she was diagnosed but of course never treated as that was only a year

before the old battle axe died) but anyway he started acting like HER and I, in

his mind, was HIM which meant abuse city. I wouldn't stand for it so I asked

him to go to counseling and he refused. Therefore I ended it.

Anyway in these 10 years even though I had gotten close to a lasting

relationship with 4 guys but never married any of them (all broke it off with

me except 1), I only told 1 about nada and he was the one who stood by me and

wanted to marry me. For various solid reasons at the time I said no, but anyway

he was the only one who met nada three times and I felt had to know the whole

sordid childhood I had at her hands. The others never asked but this new guy

Roland certainly seems a lot more interested than they did. If someone is

looking for a wife I think they want to know all, which is what this guy does.

We were matched very high compatibility-wise and they really seem to know what

they're doing since he we get along so well and we have soooooooo much in

common! We keep finding out we have more in common too and these are things

that do not show up on their questions! Wish me luck today. I'm a nervous

wreck.