Psycho BPD stalker strikes

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Maybe some of you remember me? This is Girlscout. I used to be a very active

member, but I bet I haven't been on in at least a year. I really appreciate

all that the list has done to help me get my BPD family under control - and

well, basically I had to just remove them from my life.

I've been LC for at least the past 7 years. I got divorced 7 years ago and

that brought out the most hideous behavior in nada I have ever seen (well

maybe not ever, but it was severe). So at that point, 7 years ago I pretty

much decided to cut her out of my life. Why would I want someone in my life

who treats me like that? I went to a few family functions and things, but I

only spoke to Nada in a very minimal fashion. Then about 2 years ago, I

realized that I was going to have to go NC with the whole family to survive

it, because they wanted me to interact with Nada and essentially kept

bringing her sickness back into my life. So I have been NC with my dad and

all the rest (still Nada's husband) for about 2 years.

Well, my grandma died last month. I felt bad about it, but I didn't respond

to the calls and messages I got about it. I didn't even listen to them -

don't know if anyone else has noticed this, but even hearing the voice of a

mentally ill parent can send you into a downward spiral. I had my boyfriend

listen to the messages and give me the overview of what they said. My dad

was the one that called (aside from sending 5 or 6 VERY sick letters, nada

has not tried to break my NC with her. She has not called or e-mailed

me even once in over 7 years, wow). I still love my dad, but I just can't be

around him because he is all tied up in the sickness web.

So anyway, about a month or 6 weeks after my grandma died I get this message

in my facebook in box:

" Your quote from your website makes me sick!!

What would your " public " think about you walking away from your Mother,

father, brother and totally ignoring your Granny's funeral? Would they feel

better to know that your main reason is due to your mother's presumed mental

illness??

You are a lothesome individual.

Don't worry. I am taking care of your mother and giving her the

unconditional love she deserved from you. "

The plot thickens - I had never heard of the woman who sent me this message.

A little digging, and I started to think she had married my brother - but of

course, being NC for all these years, I didn't know about it or know her

name. So a crazy woman I have never met is lashing out at me and getting all

up in my private business.

So, the night I got this I went and blocked everyone from my past from

seeing my Facebook info. With what I do for a living, getting off facebook

and the web is never going to work for me. I need it for my job. So then I

thought about it all night and then the next morning I called the cops and

reported her as a stalker.

So the cops, thinking also that she had married my brother, called my

brother. They said my brother confirmed that they were married, and he was

apologetic. My brother then linked the cops up with this psycho biotch. The

cops didn't say much about that conversation, but I'm thinking she lashed

out and it didn't go well. I've also reported her to Facebook as an abuser

and stalker.

So, that's my most recent story. And it is bringing me back to you guys to

seek support. Let me know what thoughts you have.

Millions of hugs and wishing you the best dealing with the crazies in your

own lives, Sorry for such a long post - ha ha, the BPD survival life can be

very complicated and strange. . .

Girlscout