Re: Nada reverses facts..... Infuriating!

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Its especially difficult for a vulnerable child, teen or young adult to cope

with and defend herself from these horrifically negative and false accusations

of being sexually promiscuous, coming from her own mother! Its shocking in its

devastating hurtfulness. Its a cruel thing to do to one's child.

A child really has no defenses at all against such toxic bilge coming from her

own mother, the person who is supposed to help her child discover who she is as

a unique individual in this world.

And I think you're right, a nada who does that is projecting her own inner

negative feelings and thoughts outward onto her child. I myself was frequently

accused of thinking, saying, or doing things that I never thought, said or did

at all. It was my mother, projecting her own vile self-loathing and negativity

onto me.

Its very damaging and crazy-making behavior and its definitely emotional abuse.

-Annie

> > At one point in my life (I was about 20) I overheard my nada and my golden

child older brother talking. I thought I was having hallucinations but it's

true. I was working as a waitress in a restaurant that was attached to a motel,

and I got along really well with my boss. My nada and bada were discussing how

they thought my boss might be 'pimping me out' Yes Cowgirl, you're not the only

one who gets the slut treatment for being normal. OMFG

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