Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 Guys, Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas more later Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 still waiting for that one...she'll probably outlive us all, she's so ornery !! but my father died this past may...he and I were very close until 2 years ago when he turned on me and was just as nasty as nada...he called me a terrible daughter several times, said I was a big disappointment...so I backed way away from him...when he died ( and still yet) I'm not happy, but I'm not sad either...I have no care if he's here or not. He never protected me from her, he never supported me..several years ago when nada had a heart attack and fada called to tell me..my attitude was just like if he had told me Mr from 3 blocks over had a heart attack...it was " oh, thats too bad " then I thought, hm, I wonder what I should fix for dinner...maybe tacos....so totally indifferent... Jackie Guys, Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas more later Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 still waiting for that one...she'll probably outlive us all, she's so ornery !! but my father died this past may...he and I were very close until 2 years ago when he turned on me and was just as nasty as nada...he called me a terrible daughter several times, said I was a big disappointment...so I backed way away from him...when he died ( and still yet) I'm not happy, but I'm not sad either...I have no care if he's here or not. He never protected me from her, he never supported me..several years ago when nada had a heart attack and fada called to tell me..my attitude was just like if he had told me Mr from 3 blocks over had a heart attack...it was " oh, thats too bad " then I thought, hm, I wonder what I should fix for dinner...maybe tacos....so totally indifferent... Jackie Guys, Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas more later Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 still waiting for that one...she'll probably outlive us all, she's so ornery !! but my father died this past may...he and I were very close until 2 years ago when he turned on me and was just as nasty as nada...he called me a terrible daughter several times, said I was a big disappointment...so I backed way away from him...when he died ( and still yet) I'm not happy, but I'm not sad either...I have no care if he's here or not. He never protected me from her, he never supported me..several years ago when nada had a heart attack and fada called to tell me..my attitude was just like if he had told me Mr from 3 blocks over had a heart attack...it was " oh, thats too bad " then I thought, hm, I wonder what I should fix for dinner...maybe tacos....so totally indifferent... Jackie Guys, Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas more later Marie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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