wicked witch possibly dead

[Guest guest]

Guys,

Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or

it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for

what funeral home to send my nada too.  Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't

spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't

going to any funeral of hers anyhow.  It's one of those situations wher I

explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because

she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my

little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt

me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop

bothering me and  I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she

did me.  Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad.  HOw have

the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas

more later

Marie

[Guest guest]

well, for your sake, I hope its not some cruel manipulative nada thing. Let me

just share that my mother let a 'friend' think she had committed suicide for

MONTHS. It's a long story, but she was mad because the woman had cut off

contact with her and through her manipulation, convinced some high school

classmates that she had died of suicide and it got back to the woman. Months

later, I ran into the woman and she said something. I was in shock that she

would do something like that, but now understand it can be a real trick with

borderlines.

To answer your question about reacting to nada's death -- I was shocked, but not

surprised. I was also a little relieved and really never cried because she died

but cried because my chances of ever having a real mother were gone. Not that

she would have changed, but I still had hope alive.

Sorry for what you've been through. Keep us posted.

wicked witch possibly dead

Guys,

Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or

it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for

what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't

spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't

going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I

explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because

she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my

little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt

me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop

bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she

did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have

the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas

more later

Marie

[Guest guest]

well, for your sake, I hope its not some cruel manipulative nada thing. Let me

just share that my mother let a 'friend' think she had committed suicide for

MONTHS. It's a long story, but she was mad because the woman had cut off

contact with her and through her manipulation, convinced some high school

classmates that she had died of suicide and it got back to the woman. Months

later, I ran into the woman and she said something. I was in shock that she

would do something like that, but now understand it can be a real trick with

borderlines.

To answer your question about reacting to nada's death -- I was shocked, but not

surprised. I was also a little relieved and really never cried because she died

but cried because my chances of ever having a real mother were gone. Not that

she would have changed, but I still had hope alive.

Sorry for what you've been through. Keep us posted.

wicked witch possibly dead

Guys,

Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or

it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for

what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't

spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't

going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I

explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because

she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my

little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt

me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop

bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she

did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have

the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas

more later

Marie

[Guest guest]

well, for your sake, I hope its not some cruel manipulative nada thing. Let me

just share that my mother let a 'friend' think she had committed suicide for

MONTHS. It's a long story, but she was mad because the woman had cut off

contact with her and through her manipulation, convinced some high school

classmates that she had died of suicide and it got back to the woman. Months

later, I ran into the woman and she said something. I was in shock that she

would do something like that, but now understand it can be a real trick with

borderlines.

To answer your question about reacting to nada's death -- I was shocked, but not

surprised. I was also a little relieved and really never cried because she died

but cried because my chances of ever having a real mother were gone. Not that

she would have changed, but I still had hope alive.

Sorry for what you've been through. Keep us posted.

wicked witch possibly dead

Guys,

Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die or

it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital asking for

what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an idea, but haven't

spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to mention I ain't

going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those situations wher I

explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know anything either because

she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I cried for awhile, but I tookl my

little man and dog out for a walk and realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt

me anymore for sure, not probably not, but she can't, her friends should stop

bothering me and I never have to worry about her hurting my small boy like she

did me. Pretty horrible to feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have

the rest of you reeacted to loosing your nadas

more later

Marie