Does your fada's mood parallel nada's?

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(yes), but I can't believe how much! I have been setting strong boundaries so

nada's hoovering like crazy. After six months of saying the worst things

possible to me, she is now acting like I am an angel. She is " pretending " to be

ok with my change in career and all of a sudden fada is on board too.

The thing that really struck me this Sunday was- fada gaslighted too...I don't

know exactly what's going on. I have been fighting nada and fada since Jan to go

to business school and today fada asked me what kind of school I was going to,

what kind of degree I was getting, and what kind of job I'd have after. We have

belabored these details for 8 months now! When I went through all the details

(again), he said it all sounded like a really solid plan- the complete opposite

of " you're ruining our life and shaming the family. "

WTF???