Re: Update:Talked to sis about being MOH

[Guest guest]

Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

cheeky questions!

Good job! Proud!!!!

On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96 wrote:

>

>

> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

> being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

> just wacked out.

>

> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

> stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

> nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>

> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

> like a robot.

>

> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

> own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

> giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

> mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

> my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

> family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

> yippy.

>

> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

> typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

> (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

> business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

> nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

> highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

> dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

> is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

> perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

> making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

> sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>

> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

> slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

> happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

> the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

> mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

> such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

> funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

> the crap anymore.

>

> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

> nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

> she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

> Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>

> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

> to you soon. LB

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

cheeky questions!

Good job! Proud!!!!

On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96 wrote:

>

>

> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

> being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

> just wacked out.

>

> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

> stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

> nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>

> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

> like a robot.

>

> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

> own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

> giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

> mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

> my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

> family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

> yippy.

>

> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

> typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

> (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

> business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

> nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

> highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

> dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

> is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

> perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

> making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

> sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>

> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

> slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

> happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

> the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

> mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

> such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

> funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

> the crap anymore.

>

> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

> nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

> she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

> Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>

> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

> to you soon. LB

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

cheeky questions!

Good job! Proud!!!!

On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96 wrote:

>

>

> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

> being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

> just wacked out.

>

> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

> stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

> nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>

> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

> like a robot.

>

> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

> own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

> giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

> mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

> my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

> family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

> yippy.

>

> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

> typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

> (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

> business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

> nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

> highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

> dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

> is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

> perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

> making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

> sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>

> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

> slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

> happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

> the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

> mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

> such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

> funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

> the crap anymore.

>

> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

> nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

> she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

> Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>

> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

> to you soon. LB

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

PS and I love how she puts conditions on you, like you HAVE to make up with

psycho mom and dishrag dad. Yeah, she calls the shots for your life. . . She

is just trying to drag you back in to assume your old role so that the

family disfunctional unit isn't stressed.

And like you really want to do all that just to spend a whole day

uncomfortable, wearing an ugly dress, and surrounded by your crazy FOO.

No thanks!!!!

On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 7:06 AM, Girlscout Cowboy <

girlscout.cowboy@...> wrote:

> Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

> January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

> simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

> cheeky questions!

>

> Good job! Proud!!!!

>

> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96 wrote:

>

>>

>>

>> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

>> being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

>> just wacked out.

>>

>> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

>> stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

>> nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>>

>> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

>> like a robot.

>>

>> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

>> own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

>> giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

>> mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

>> my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

>> family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

>> yippy.

>>

>> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

>> typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

>> (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

>> business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

>> nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

>> highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

>> dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

>> is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

>> perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

>> making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

>> sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>>

>> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

>> slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

>> happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

>> the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

>> mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

>> such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

>> funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

>> the crap anymore.

>>

>> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to

>> do nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my

>> grandma she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing

>> her. Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>>

>> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

>> to you soon. LB

>>

>>

>>

>

>

[Guest guest]

PS and I love how she puts conditions on you, like you HAVE to make up with

psycho mom and dishrag dad. Yeah, she calls the shots for your life. . . She

is just trying to drag you back in to assume your old role so that the

family disfunctional unit isn't stressed.

And like you really want to do all that just to spend a whole day

uncomfortable, wearing an ugly dress, and surrounded by your crazy FOO.

No thanks!!!!

On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 7:06 AM, Girlscout Cowboy <

girlscout.cowboy@...> wrote:

> Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

> January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

> simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

> cheeky questions!

>

> Good job! Proud!!!!

>

> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96 wrote:

>

>>

>>

>> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

>> being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

>> just wacked out.

>>

>> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

>> stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

>> nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>>

>> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

>> like a robot.

>>

>> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

>> own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

>> giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

>> mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

>> my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

>> family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

>> yippy.

>>

>> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

>> typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

>> (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

>> business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

>> nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

>> highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

>> dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

>> is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

>> perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

>> making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

>> sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>>

>> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

>> slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

>> happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

>> the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

>> mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

>> such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

>> funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

>> the crap anymore.

>>

>> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to

>> do nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my

>> grandma she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing

>> her. Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>>

>> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

>> to you soon. LB

>>

>>

>>

>

>

[Guest guest]

PS and I love how she puts conditions on you, like you HAVE to make up with

psycho mom and dishrag dad. Yeah, she calls the shots for your life. . . She

is just trying to drag you back in to assume your old role so that the

family disfunctional unit isn't stressed.

And like you really want to do all that just to spend a whole day

uncomfortable, wearing an ugly dress, and surrounded by your crazy FOO.

No thanks!!!!

On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 7:06 AM, Girlscout Cowboy <

girlscout.cowboy@...> wrote:

> Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

> January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

> simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

> cheeky questions!

>

> Good job! Proud!!!!

>

> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96 wrote:

>

>>

>>

>> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

>> being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

>> just wacked out.

>>

>> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

>> stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

>> nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>>

>> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

>> like a robot.

>>

>> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

>> own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

>> giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

>> mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

>> my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

>> family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

>> yippy.

>>

>> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

>> typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

>> (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

>> business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

>> nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

>> highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

>> dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

>> is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

>> perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

>> making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

>> sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>>

>> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

>> slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

>> happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

>> the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

>> mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

>> such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

>> funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

>> the crap anymore.

>>

>> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to

>> do nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my

>> grandma she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing

>> her. Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>>

>> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

>> to you soon. LB

>>

>>

>>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Bride to be says, " Your sis is being an unreasonable 'zilla " .

Honestly, that's not a wedding party you want to be in/at. I'm not sure what's

up with your granny stuff, but it sounds to me like she needs you more than your

sister does.

>

> >

> >

> > Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

> > being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

> > just wacked out.

> >

> > I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

> > stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

> > nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

> >

> > She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

> > like a robot.

> >

> > I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

> > own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

> > giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

> > mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

> > my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

> > family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

> > yippy.

> >

> > I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

> > typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

> > (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

> > business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

> > nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

> > highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

> > dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

> > is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

> > perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

> > making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

> > sister is calculated or boneheaded.

> >

> > Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

> > slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

> > happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

> > the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

> > mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

> > such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

> > funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

> > the crap anymore.

> >

> > You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

> > nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

> > she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

> > Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

> >

> > I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

> > to you soon. LB

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Bride to be says, " Your sis is being an unreasonable 'zilla " .

Honestly, that's not a wedding party you want to be in/at. I'm not sure what's

up with your granny stuff, but it sounds to me like she needs you more than your

sister does.

>

> >

> >

> > Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

> > being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

> > just wacked out.

> >

> > I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

> > stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

> > nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

> >

> > She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

> > like a robot.

> >

> > I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

> > own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

> > giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

> > mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

> > my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

> > family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

> > yippy.

> >

> > I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

> > typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

> > (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

> > business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

> > nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

> > highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

> > dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

> > is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

> > perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

> > making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

> > sister is calculated or boneheaded.

> >

> > Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

> > slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

> > happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

> > the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

> > mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

> > such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

> > funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

> > the crap anymore.

> >

> > You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

> > nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

> > she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

> > Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

> >

> > I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

> > to you soon. LB

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Bride to be says, " Your sis is being an unreasonable 'zilla " .

Honestly, that's not a wedding party you want to be in/at. I'm not sure what's

up with your granny stuff, but it sounds to me like she needs you more than your

sister does.

>

> >

> >

> > Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

> > being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was

> > just wacked out.

> >

> > I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

> > stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to

> > nada or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

> >

> > She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

> > like a robot.

> >

> > I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

> > own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am

> > giving you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with

> > mom and dad and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January;

> > my answer will be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what

> > family does " So basically now I get to have this conversation a third time,

> > yippy.

> >

> > I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

> > typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers

> > (who just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family

> > business deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is

> > nada throwing salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the

> > highest level. I told my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not

> > dishrags foo? " and she said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it

> > is. " I said well even if that's not how it is, that's how it will be

> > perceived, but it's your wedding so do what you need to. " As always Nada is

> > making the guest list, Dishrag has no spine to stand up not sure is my

> > sister is calculated or boneheaded.

> >

> > Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

> > slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER

> > happened, because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there

> > the whole time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is

> > mentally ill " and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in

> > such a short time. I can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The

> > funny thing is supposedly I am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with

> > the crap anymore.

> >

> > You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

> > nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

> > she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

> > Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

> >

> > I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

> > to you soon. LB

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I agree, congratulations LB on being firm and letting your sister know that you

wouldn't be her Maid Of Honor, and why.

How ballsy of your sister to ignore your decision and basically demand, no

*order* you to be her MOH *and* order you to make up with your parents,

anyway!! Holy Cow!! Good for you for clearly stating that your answer will

still be " No, thank you " in January; you are for sure a match for her toughness.

I'm very impressed.

Again, congrats. You get a big thumb's up of approval from me!

-Annie

>

> Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

> January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

> simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

> cheeky questions!

>

> Good job! Proud!!!!

>

> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96

[Guest guest]

I agree, congratulations LB on being firm and letting your sister know that you

wouldn't be her Maid Of Honor, and why.

How ballsy of your sister to ignore your decision and basically demand, no

*order* you to be her MOH *and* order you to make up with your parents,

anyway!! Holy Cow!! Good for you for clearly stating that your answer will

still be " No, thank you " in January; you are for sure a match for her toughness.

I'm very impressed.

Again, congrats. You get a big thumb's up of approval from me!

-Annie

>

> Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

> January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

> simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

> cheeky questions!

>

> Good job! Proud!!!!

>

> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96

[Guest guest]

I agree, congratulations LB on being firm and letting your sister know that you

wouldn't be her Maid Of Honor, and why.

How ballsy of your sister to ignore your decision and basically demand, no

*order* you to be her MOH *and* order you to make up with your parents,

anyway!! Holy Cow!! Good for you for clearly stating that your answer will

still be " No, thank you " in January; you are for sure a match for her toughness.

I'm very impressed.

Again, congrats. You get a big thumb's up of approval from me!

-Annie

>

> Oh good for you! I don't think you need to have the conversation again in

> January. She is just pulling a power trip. If she asked me again, I would

> simply not respond to her. . There is amazing power in not responding to

> cheeky questions!

>

> Good job! Proud!!!!

>

> On Thu, Aug 19, 2010 at 6:46 AM, faerydancing96

[Guest guest]

Good for you! Stick to it and keep saying no. Let us know what continues

to happen. I'm placing bets that she will continue to assume you will be

MOH and then freak when she has not asked someone else and you're still

saying no.

[Guest guest]

Good for you! Stick to it and keep saying no. Let us know what continues

to happen. I'm placing bets that she will continue to assume you will be

MOH and then freak when she has not asked someone else and you're still

saying no.

[Guest guest]

Good for you! Stick to it and keep saying no. Let us know what continues

to happen. I'm placing bets that she will continue to assume you will be

MOH and then freak when she has not asked someone else and you're still

saying no.

[Guest guest]

Yep, I was thinking the same thing. You can almost see it playing out this way

- she won't believe you when you say no, she'll " give you another chance " while

insisting on impossible conditions (make nice with a toxic FOO), then she'll

feel betrayed because you stand your ground come January.

She is carrying around a huge sense of entitlement - to your life, finances,

time, and emotional well-being. It may be that she's just being a bridezilla,

but it looks like she's copying Nada behavior in the process.

>

> Good for you! Stick to it and keep saying no. Let us know what continues

> to happen. I'm placing bets that she will continue to assume you will be

> MOH and then freak when she has not asked someone else and you're still

> saying no.

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Yep, I was thinking the same thing. You can almost see it playing out this way

- she won't believe you when you say no, she'll " give you another chance " while

insisting on impossible conditions (make nice with a toxic FOO), then she'll

feel betrayed because you stand your ground come January.

She is carrying around a huge sense of entitlement - to your life, finances,

time, and emotional well-being. It may be that she's just being a bridezilla,

but it looks like she's copying Nada behavior in the process.

>

> Good for you! Stick to it and keep saying no. Let us know what continues

> to happen. I'm placing bets that she will continue to assume you will be

> MOH and then freak when she has not asked someone else and you're still

> saying no.

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

That was going to be my guess also. Maybe it would be good to cover your

backside by writing her an e-mail in which you express your well wishes, you're

sure she'll have a lovely wedding, and thanking her for the honor of asking you

to be MOH but declining. Copy someone, some third party, so that you have a

witness to the e-mail. Take her weapon away, in other words.

-Annie

>

> Good for you! Stick to it and keep saying no. Let us know what continues

> to happen. I'm placing bets that she will continue to assume you will be

> MOH and then freak when she has not asked someone else and you're still

> saying no.

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

It sounds like she has decided that this wedding is her opportunity to *force*

you to do what she wants you to do. It's manipulative, and it's also foolish.

Her wedding is supposed to be about getting married, not about stirring up a lot

of family drama.

Deanna

>

> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just

wacked out.

>

> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel stronger,

or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada or a

combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>

> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

like a robot.

>

> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my own. I

gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving you

till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad and

the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will be

the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So basically

now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

>

> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>

> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little slut

just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

>

> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma she

is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her. Dishrag is

such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>

> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk to

you soon. LB

>

[Guest guest]

It sounds like she has decided that this wedding is her opportunity to *force*

you to do what she wants you to do. It's manipulative, and it's also foolish.

Her wedding is supposed to be about getting married, not about stirring up a lot

of family drama.

Deanna

>

> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just

wacked out.

>

> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel stronger,

or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada or a

combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>

> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

like a robot.

>

> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my own. I

gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving you

till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad and

the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will be

the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So basically

now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

>

> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>

> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little slut

just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

>

> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma she

is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her. Dishrag is

such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>

> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk to

you soon. LB

>

[Guest guest]

It sounds like she has decided that this wedding is her opportunity to *force*

you to do what she wants you to do. It's manipulative, and it's also foolish.

Her wedding is supposed to be about getting married, not about stirring up a lot

of family drama.

Deanna

>

> Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just

wacked out.

>

> I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel stronger,

or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada or a

combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

>

> She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

like a robot.

>

> I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my own. I

gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving you

till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad and

the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will be

the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So basically

now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

>

> I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

>

> Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little slut

just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

>

> You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma she

is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her. Dishrag is

such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

>

> I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk to

you soon. LB

>