Re: How do I explain bp to my kid?

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I don't know, it seems like she might get freaked out you are going LC/NC and

say derisive things about you to the child. I would be afraid she would act out

in one way or another.

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> My 4 year old likes it when my nada visits him. They only spend a couple of

hours together at a time because she's local so my kid doesn't experience the

volatility/rage that my nada is capable of. I want to end my relationship with

her while letting them have their relationship (so long as it's not abusive).

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> I'm sure my kid will pick up on the fact that nada and I aren't friendly. I

don't want to tell my kid the truth (that nada is crazy) b/c i don't want to

interfere in their relationship which might cause my kid to resent me down the

road. How do I handle this? Your advice/thoughts welcome.

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