Guest guest Posted May 29, 2010 Report Share Posted May 29, 2010 Kate, I totally relate to what you are sharing. I also have a hard time deciding what I really want to eat. I found it helpful to make a list of foods that I *really* liked and to shop for those items so that I would have them on hand. With my schedule, it's not practical for me to stop at the grocery store every day. I also needed to identify things that were quick and easy. This has been helpful, but one thing I am realizing with this practice is to not buy everything on the list, because over-buying leads to over-eating. I'm coming up against what IE refers to as my value systems, because I struggle to throw food out as it feels wasteful. So for me, it will be better to buy less, but definitely have some things on hand that I really enjoy. It's been kind of fun to think about what I really enjoy eating, now that I can legalize everything. It's a little scary, because I'm afraid I'll gain weight if I make too many high-calorie choices, but that's a mind set that I've had for years and it will take some time to change my thoughts about what is okay and what is off limits. Hope this helps. PJ > > I have been trying to get in touch with what I am hungry for (very hard to do sometimes). Rather than going to the store and being pulled in by a variety of enticements I hadn't even thought of, I'm trying to think about the taste I'm looking for (rather than the food), such as salty, crunchy, creamy, protein, etc. > > How do other people decide what they are hungry for without being pulled in by outside influences? > > Do you visualize it ahead of time, and then go to the store to get it? > > Kate > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2010 Report Share Posted May 29, 2010 Kate, I totally relate to what you are sharing. I also have a hard time deciding what I really want to eat. I found it helpful to make a list of foods that I *really* liked and to shop for those items so that I would have them on hand. With my schedule, it's not practical for me to stop at the grocery store every day. I also needed to identify things that were quick and easy. This has been helpful, but one thing I am realizing with this practice is to not buy everything on the list, because over-buying leads to over-eating. I'm coming up against what IE refers to as my value systems, because I struggle to throw food out as it feels wasteful. So for me, it will be better to buy less, but definitely have some things on hand that I really enjoy. It's been kind of fun to think about what I really enjoy eating, now that I can legalize everything. It's a little scary, because I'm afraid I'll gain weight if I make too many high-calorie choices, but that's a mind set that I've had for years and it will take some time to change my thoughts about what is okay and what is off limits. Hope this helps. PJ > > I have been trying to get in touch with what I am hungry for (very hard to do sometimes). Rather than going to the store and being pulled in by a variety of enticements I hadn't even thought of, I'm trying to think about the taste I'm looking for (rather than the food), such as salty, crunchy, creamy, protein, etc. > > How do other people decide what they are hungry for without being pulled in by outside influences? > > Do you visualize it ahead of time, and then go to the store to get it? > > Kate > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2010 Report Share Posted May 29, 2010 Kate, I totally relate to what you are sharing. I also have a hard time deciding what I really want to eat. I found it helpful to make a list of foods that I *really* liked and to shop for those items so that I would have them on hand. With my schedule, it's not practical for me to stop at the grocery store every day. I also needed to identify things that were quick and easy. This has been helpful, but one thing I am realizing with this practice is to not buy everything on the list, because over-buying leads to over-eating. I'm coming up against what IE refers to as my value systems, because I struggle to throw food out as it feels wasteful. So for me, it will be better to buy less, but definitely have some things on hand that I really enjoy. It's been kind of fun to think about what I really enjoy eating, now that I can legalize everything. It's a little scary, because I'm afraid I'll gain weight if I make too many high-calorie choices, but that's a mind set that I've had for years and it will take some time to change my thoughts about what is okay and what is off limits. Hope this helps. PJ > > I have been trying to get in touch with what I am hungry for (very hard to do sometimes). Rather than going to the store and being pulled in by a variety of enticements I hadn't even thought of, I'm trying to think about the taste I'm looking for (rather than the food), such as salty, crunchy, creamy, protein, etc. > > How do other people decide what they are hungry for without being pulled in by outside influences? > > Do you visualize it ahead of time, and then go to the store to get it? > > Kate > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2010 Report Share Posted May 30, 2010 Hi, Trying to decide what you're really hungry for, I admit, can be challenging and difficult sometimes. Like PJ, I keep food on hand that I really like and enjoy eating, so we don't have to go to the grocery every day. Many times I just end up asking myself when hungry what sounds really good and appetizing. In the IE book, Resch and Tribole suggest that to discover what foods you really like and increase eating satisfaction, it might be helpful to "explore the sensual qualities of food" by doing some conscious experimentation with tastes, textures, aromas, appearances, temperature, etc. Then after doing some experimentation, they then suggest you take a few seconds when you feel like eating to decide what you *really* want or feel like eating. It sounds like you are already doing the experimenting, so hang in there!! You'll soon discover what foods are most satisfying for you! Jeanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2010 Report Share Posted May 30, 2010 Hi, Trying to decide what you're really hungry for, I admit, can be challenging and difficult sometimes. Like PJ, I keep food on hand that I really like and enjoy eating, so we don't have to go to the grocery every day. Many times I just end up asking myself when hungry what sounds really good and appetizing. In the IE book, Resch and Tribole suggest that to discover what foods you really like and increase eating satisfaction, it might be helpful to "explore the sensual qualities of food" by doing some conscious experimentation with tastes, textures, aromas, appearances, temperature, etc. Then after doing some experimentation, they then suggest you take a few seconds when you feel like eating to decide what you *really* want or feel like eating. It sounds like you are already doing the experimenting, so hang in there!! You'll soon discover what foods are most satisfying for you! Jeanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2010 Report Share Posted May 30, 2010 Hi, Trying to decide what you're really hungry for, I admit, can be challenging and difficult sometimes. Like PJ, I keep food on hand that I really like and enjoy eating, so we don't have to go to the grocery every day. Many times I just end up asking myself when hungry what sounds really good and appetizing. In the IE book, Resch and Tribole suggest that to discover what foods you really like and increase eating satisfaction, it might be helpful to "explore the sensual qualities of food" by doing some conscious experimentation with tastes, textures, aromas, appearances, temperature, etc. Then after doing some experimentation, they then suggest you take a few seconds when you feel like eating to decide what you *really* want or feel like eating. It sounds like you are already doing the experimenting, so hang in there!! You'll soon discover what foods are most satisfying for you! Jeanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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