BPD Sister goes crazy in Public Restaurant

[Guest guest]

My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then dinner

at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when my

brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his girlfriend

in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell phone. They did

want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy place and they were in

their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the phone, my BPD sister grabs the

key out of her hand...(it is an open air restaurant) goes down to the car and

start SCREAMING at the top of her lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face

up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am

gonna kick you out on the street. " " I can hear you having sex in mom's house

through the walls. "

" You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about mortifying

drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some people may

remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my sister had crazy

scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this situation by her attack

another family member actually affirms me ... is that not crazy?

[Guest guest]

Good thing you're out of there. You starting to realize how messed up it

was?

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> My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then

> dinner at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

> inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when

> my brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his

> girlfriend in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell

> phone. They did want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy

> place and they were in their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the

> phone, my BPD sister grabs the key out of her hand...(it is an open air

> restaurant) goes down to the car and start SCREAMING at the top of her

> lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs

> to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am gonna kick you out on the street. "

> " I can hear you having sex in mom's house through the walls. "

> " You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about

> mortifying drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some

> people may remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my

> sister had crazy scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this

> situation by her attack another family member actually affirms me ... is

> that not crazy?

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Good thing you're out of there. You starting to realize how messed up it

was?

>

>

> My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then

> dinner at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

> inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when

> my brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his

> girlfriend in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell

> phone. They did want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy

> place and they were in their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the

> phone, my BPD sister grabs the key out of her hand...(it is an open air

> restaurant) goes down to the car and start SCREAMING at the top of her

> lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs

> to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am gonna kick you out on the street. "

> " I can hear you having sex in mom's house through the walls. "

> " You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about

> mortifying drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some

> people may remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my

> sister had crazy scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this

> situation by her attack another family member actually affirms me ... is

> that not crazy?

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Good thing you're out of there. You starting to realize how messed up it

was?

>

>

> My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then

> dinner at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

> inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when

> my brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his

> girlfriend in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell

> phone. They did want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy

> place and they were in their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the

> phone, my BPD sister grabs the key out of her hand...(it is an open air

> restaurant) goes down to the car and start SCREAMING at the top of her

> lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs

> to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am gonna kick you out on the street. "

> " I can hear you having sex in mom's house through the walls. "

> " You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about

> mortifying drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some

> people may remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my

> sister had crazy scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this

> situation by her attack another family member actually affirms me ... is

> that not crazy?

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

" I hate to say but this situation by her attack another family member actually

affirms me ... is that not crazy? "

Why, yes, I'd say it - and she - are crazy.

>

[Guest guest]

this is one of those cases where the part about bpd meaning being on the

borderline between neurotic and psychotic seems to me to be giving women a pass

by labeling them bpd. this to me sounds like psychotic behavior. 'scratch up

your pretty face' is communicating a threat and could be considered assault in

some states, like the one I live in, where a perceived threat of physical harm

qualifies.

your sis needs to watch herself before she ends up in jail.

>

> My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then dinner

at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when my

brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his girlfriend

in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell phone. They did

want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy place and they were in

their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the phone, my BPD sister grabs the

key out of her hand...(it is an open air restaurant) goes down to the car and

start SCREAMING at the top of her lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face

up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am

gonna kick you out on the street. " " I can hear you having sex in mom's house

through the walls. "

> " You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about

mortifying drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some

people may remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my

sister had crazy scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this situation

by her attack another family member actually affirms me ... is that not crazy?

>

[Guest guest]

this is one of those cases where the part about bpd meaning being on the

borderline between neurotic and psychotic seems to me to be giving women a pass

by labeling them bpd. this to me sounds like psychotic behavior. 'scratch up

your pretty face' is communicating a threat and could be considered assault in

some states, like the one I live in, where a perceived threat of physical harm

qualifies.

your sis needs to watch herself before she ends up in jail.

>

> My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then dinner

at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when my

brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his girlfriend

in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell phone. They did

want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy place and they were in

their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the phone, my BPD sister grabs the

key out of her hand...(it is an open air restaurant) goes down to the car and

start SCREAMING at the top of her lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face

up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am

gonna kick you out on the street. " " I can hear you having sex in mom's house

through the walls. "

> " You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about

mortifying drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some

people may remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my

sister had crazy scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this situation

by her attack another family member actually affirms me ... is that not crazy?

>

[Guest guest]

It's amazing what a little distance does, huh? I find that incredibly

validating! Turns out they really ARE crazy!!

I like what Annie said as well. When the rage is coming straight at us, we just

survive any way we can and not think about how messed up they really are. But,

when we see the same abuse from an " outsider's " perspective, it's an entirely

different thing.

Has anyone ever had the experience of reading/hearing a story about child abuse

and then being shocked: " Those poor children! I can't imagine how awful that

would be! " Two beats later, I then realize: " Oh, wait. I went through much

worse than that. "

It is an entirely different thing when we see what we went though while watching

another person endure the same.

For this KO, who's parents were so stealth, it's wonderful when they show

themselves for who they really are. It makes everything so much less confusing.

Blessings,

Karla

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> My mother (BPD) and my sister (BPD) went out to a theater show and then dinner

at a local public restaurant. My brother and his girlfriend were out

inner-tubing on the lake all day. They came home in wet bathing suits when my

brother realized he didn't have his key to the house. So, he and his girlfriend

in bathsuits went down to restaurant and called mom on the cell phone. They did

want to come into the restaurant because it was a fancy place and they were in

their swimsuits. So, while mom is talking on the phone, my BPD sister grabs the

key out of her hand...(it is an open air restaurant) goes down to the car and

start SCREAMING at the top of her lungs... " I gonna scratch your pretty face

up! " " Your whore girlfriend needs to quit having sex in mom's house. " " I am

gonna kick you out on the street. " " I can hear you having sex in mom's house

through the walls. "

> " You are nothing but lazy...and need to get a job. " Let's talk about

mortifying drama situation. I am just glad that I don't live at home. Some

people may remember months ago I wrote about my father who died ... And my

sister had crazy scene where she attacked me. I hate to say but this situation

by her attack another family member actually affirms me ... is that not crazy?

>