Re: 99% sure I won't get implants, but still tempted...

[Guest guest]

Oh, by the way, here is a website that shows small breasted actresses.

You'll be surprised at what you see here!

http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/small_busts.htm

Patty

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> Hello, I have done tons of research which has led me to realize that

> implants aren't safe, but sometimes I'm still tempted. If I did it I

> would get the gummy bears..anotomically shaped, textured, still not

FDA

> approved, but used in Europe for 10 years. Any ideas or feedback? I

> wish I would just forget about it, but the obsession to have big boobs

> keeps coming back. Thanks for everything!

> -Alyssa

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Alyssa,

Hey, I know the feeling you have...it's a very hard desire to overcome

with the way things are in our society.

Can I just ask you, why do you want big boobs? Is it for attention?

Is it for wearing clothing? Is it to feel better about yourself? I'm

not saying there's anything right or wrong about your desire...just

wondering. You know I've been there because I got them, but then

everything went to hell and I had to get them out again.

If I could give you any feedback that may help you, I would encourage

you to really find joy in your natural healthy body because your

health is so precious. Basically if you want to get over the

temptation to have big boobs, you will have to replace the lies you

are believing about what implants will do for you with truth about

what implants have done to other women and realize when you see big

boobs that there is nothing actually very special about them at all!

I see women who are small breasted, glamourous and sexy and am so

appreciative of their self confidence as they are. The really sexy

ladies are those who KNOW they are sexy with their natural

bodies...it's all about self confidence and knowing that you have

worth JUST AS YOU ARE CREATED. Some of my favorite actresses have

small breasts...like Kate Hudson, Pfeiffer, Kiera Knightly,

and Gwynith Paltrow.

Actually now when I see women with huge fake breasts, I feel sorry for

them, and realize that the breasts just make them look fatter.

You see, it's all in the mind. It's what you are letting yourself be

led to believe. If you want implants, you can get them and possibly

pay a price. But you can also love your cute body the way it is,

learn to appreciate a natural and healthy body, and realize that a

sexy lady is not about breasts...it's about confidence in who you are.

And YOU are a beautiful woman RIGHT NOW with value in the eyes of God.

I hope that helps! I had to learn these things the hard way.

Patty

>

> Hello, I have done tons of research which has led me to realize that

> implants aren't safe, but sometimes I'm still tempted. If I did it I

> would get the gummy bears..anotomically shaped, textured, still not FDA

> approved, but used in Europe for 10 years. Any ideas or feedback? I

> wish I would just forget about it, but the obsession to have big boobs

> keeps coming back. Thanks for everything!

> -Alyssa

>

[Guest guest]

Alyssa,

I'd do anything to go back in time and be where you are now. I chose

to go through with implant surgery and it was the biggest nightmare of

my life. I felt that same obsession, like once the idea was in my

head, I didn't want to let go of it. I even heard a voice a few

nights before I had the surgery, saying " don't do it, you'll get

sick " . The day before the surgery I was very upset and wanted to

cancel, but I was thinking of what the doctor would think, and of what

my husband would think, instead of listening to my gut. I looked at

's Secret catalogs and said soon that would be me. Well, the

perception of having a bigger chest was nothing like actually having

one, and I hated them. Suddenly all the women with big breasts looked

dumpy to me, and the women with small breasts looked fantastic, and I

really missed having what God gave me.

I became very ill from the implants, but no one was listening -

including my husband - and it nearly broke up my marriage. One thing

that made me angry was that I allowed someone to mess with my health,

and I realized that nothing was more important than my health and I

had trusted it to someone who was just trying to make money off of

me. Once I got sick, my buddy the plastic surgeon wasn't there to

help me, he just said " it's not the implants " . I'm sure he's said

this to hundreds of women before - in fact there was someone else in

his office that same day with the same symptoms, who was begging the

doctor to remove them, just like I was.

One thing you have to consider when you get implants is that they will

continue to cost you money - even if you don't get sick, you'll need

more surgeries, and it's not cheap. If you do get sick, you could

lose your job because you're too sick to work. I had my implants

removed six months after having them put in, and all together it cost

me about $14,000 (having them removed cost more than having them put

in). My health has improved since I had them removed, but I can't say

that I'm exactly like I was before I got implants.

Love yourself as you are - that's where the road to happiness lies.

Sis

>

> Hello, I have done tons of research which has led me to realize that

> implants aren't safe, but sometimes I'm still tempted. If I did it I

> would get the gummy bears..anotomically shaped, textured, still not

FDA

> approved, but used in Europe for 10 years. Any ideas or feedback? I

> wish I would just forget about it, but the obsession to have big

boobs

> keeps coming back. Thanks for everything!

> -Alyssa

>