Re: Re: Nada's creepy friends

[Guest guest]

I'm must going to mention to her that it's the banks problem not mine and

similar to what you said, you wouldn't have a clue on the real situation.

Thanks helps a lot

proflaf

Subject: Re: Nada's creepy friends

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010, 10:26 PM

 

I know how frustrating and aggravating that must feel, to have a nosy,

intrusive, misinformed and judgmental co-worker trying to insert herself into

your business. Ugh. If that were happening to me, the next time this

individual mentions my nada to me I'd say calmly and politely, " Thank you for

your concern, but that topic is not up for discussion " and then change the

subject.

It feels crappy to be judged unfairly by those who don't know the whole story,

but sometimes we just have to live with that aggravating reality. That really

sucks, I agree.

The only time I'd take action is if an individual began spreading lies about me

publicly, with intent to hurt my business or personal reputation. Written

defamation of character is called " libel " and spoken defamation of character is

called " slander " and those are legally actionable. Otherwise, I'd just ignore

the crazy people.

What the crazy people think isn't important.

I read somewhere that two of the top reasons people move is to (a) better their

chances of financial success (people relocate to get a better job, or

better-paying job) or ( they move to get away from insane, toxic, hostile,

destructive foo members / community members / neighbors. Makes sense to me.

-Annie

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> Hello all, got a question for you.  Have any of you who had nada die and were

nc how did you guys deal with the quesitons of peole thinking you are the one

responsible for her estate ect.  I'm not.  In fact there ain't gonna be any

money left cause if I'm right she went bankrupt a few weeks before she died, as

that there is a house on her street that went bankrupt after she went into the

nursing home but before her death.  ONe of my well meaning coworkers who sticks

her nose where it don't beling really pissed me off today, she commented to me

that I should mow her lawn before the city comes after me for it.  Nope it's

the bank's problem to deal with.  Even better, might have accidentily gotten

her little monkey in trouble.  To make my life even more interesting, she

thought that my tabby t eats with attention because my mother petted her, no she

always needed attention to eat, my mother neglected them.  Someohow one of her

'caregivers' weird

> churcy people also had her convicned this coworker that my mother had a lot

of health problems in the end, no she didn't she was in the rehab of a nursing

home for a broken hip and died unexpectedly, she didn't really need a

'caregiver' she just used people for all she could get them to do for her and

that with her the line of really needing help verses poor baby me I'm

manipulating people to do my will.  NOt to mention this Coursen woman is

absolutely a nut job, who goes to their deceased friend's house to pull weeds

when there is a company to do it though the bank.  One of those mgiht ahve

gotten her into trouble, but I did neeed to make srue I wasn't responsible for

nada's crap when I dealt with her then or now.  This coworker thinks how sad

metnally ill, sorry but not my problem, her problem make her deal with it

instead of making the rest of the family pay the price for her problems.

> GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR  How do you respond to these people who don't get the

manipulation and lies these people tell.

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[Guest guest]

Ha ha ha, I've done that before, pretended I was too upset to discuss

something when really someone was just being nosey. I know, its a lie, but

hell, do they deserve better? Nope!

>

>

> I'm confused, if she's defaulted on the loan via death it goes back to the

> bank, they own it, and you showing up there is trespassing. Hell no, I

> wouldn't go anywhere near anything she owes money on, they might come after

> you for it. Heck just tell her you are still grieving and can't discuss it,

> lol, she doesn't deserve any more explanation than

>

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> > Hello all, got a question for you. Have any of you who had nada die and

> were nc how did you guys deal with the quesitons of peole thinking you are

> the one responsible for her estate ect. I'm not. In fact there ain't gonna

> be any money left cause if I'm right she went bankrupt a few weeks before

> she died, as that there is a house on her street that went bankrupt after

> she went into the nursing home but before her death. ONe of my well meaning

> coworkers who sticks her nose where it don't beling really pissed me off

> today, she commented to me that I should mow her lawn before the city comes

> after me for it. Nope it's the bank's problem to deal with. Even better,

> might have accidentily gotten her little monkey in trouble. To make my life

> even more interesting, she thought that my tabby t eats with attention

> because my mother petted her, no she always needed attention to eat, my

> mother neglected them. Someohow one of her 'caregivers' weird

> > churcy people also had her convicned this coworker that my mother had a

> lot of health problems in the end, no she didn't she was in the rehab of a

> nursing home for a broken hip and died unexpectedly, she didn't really need

> a 'caregiver' she just used people for all she could get them to do for her

> and that with her the line of really needing help verses poor baby me I'm

> manipulating people to do my will. NOt to mention this Coursen woman is

> absolutely a nut job, who goes to their deceased friend's house to pull

> weeds when there is a company to do it though the bank. One of those mgiht

> ahve gotten her into trouble, but I did neeed to make srue I wasn't

> responsible for nada's crap when I dealt with her then or now. This

> coworker thinks how sad metnally ill, sorry but not my problem, her problem

> make her deal with it instead of making the rest of the family pay the price

> for her problems.

> > GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR How do you respond to these people who don't get the

> manipulation and lies these people tell.

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[Guest guest]

Ha ha ha, I've done that before, pretended I was too upset to discuss

something when really someone was just being nosey. I know, its a lie, but

hell, do they deserve better? Nope!

>

>

> I'm confused, if she's defaulted on the loan via death it goes back to the

> bank, they own it, and you showing up there is trespassing. Hell no, I

> wouldn't go anywhere near anything she owes money on, they might come after

> you for it. Heck just tell her you are still grieving and can't discuss it,

> lol, she doesn't deserve any more explanation than

>

>

>

> >

> > Hello all, got a question for you. Have any of you who had nada die and

> were nc how did you guys deal with the quesitons of peole thinking you are

> the one responsible for her estate ect. I'm not. In fact there ain't gonna

> be any money left cause if I'm right she went bankrupt a few weeks before

> she died, as that there is a house on her street that went bankrupt after

> she went into the nursing home but before her death. ONe of my well meaning

> coworkers who sticks her nose where it don't beling really pissed me off

> today, she commented to me that I should mow her lawn before the city comes

> after me for it. Nope it's the bank's problem to deal with. Even better,

> might have accidentily gotten her little monkey in trouble. To make my life

> even more interesting, she thought that my tabby t eats with attention

> because my mother petted her, no she always needed attention to eat, my

> mother neglected them. Someohow one of her 'caregivers' weird

> > churcy people also had her convicned this coworker that my mother had a

> lot of health problems in the end, no she didn't she was in the rehab of a

> nursing home for a broken hip and died unexpectedly, she didn't really need

> a 'caregiver' she just used people for all she could get them to do for her

> and that with her the line of really needing help verses poor baby me I'm

> manipulating people to do my will. NOt to mention this Coursen woman is

> absolutely a nut job, who goes to their deceased friend's house to pull

> weeds when there is a company to do it though the bank. One of those mgiht

> ahve gotten her into trouble, but I did neeed to make srue I wasn't

> responsible for nada's crap when I dealt with her then or now. This

> coworker thinks how sad metnally ill, sorry but not my problem, her problem

> make her deal with it instead of making the rest of the family pay the price

> for her problems.

> > GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR How do you respond to these people who don't get the

> manipulation and lies these people tell.

> >

> >

> >

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