Guest guest Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Nada always blame me for let her live alone and she repeats it every chance she has. I'm sooooo fed up with her talks that I can't stand her anymore. Just to think about she's coming to visit me makes ke nervous about. My husband either. She loves to says to everybody how she suffered to raise me struggling to save money cause my father was a bastard. She is a single mother but my father visited us every night and when I was sleeping, he went back to his wife and kids home. My mother was his lover for18y. I was born in their 5th love affair year. She always says that she didn't love him and just wanted to have a kid. She was 31yo when I came to this world to be the only daughter of her.Now I'm 43, never got pregnant and it's be my last year to get pregnant according to my FENGSHUI and one doctor said it's already too late. Since I married last year my scary Nada says that I should not get pregnant because I'd have a kid with problem. This year she got very paranoid about this and begged me to promise her that I wouldn't get pregnant. I told her that I would promise anything and that she should not to worry because I wasn't thing about to get pregnant. In fact, sometimes I want to have a baby, most of the time I'm scared about. Thanks God my husband is not crazy to have one and he knew that it would be difficult for me as I'm much older than him. The worst thing my Nada said about it was: " you should never get pregnant othewise your kid will born deffected and give you trouble the rest of your life because God will give you a lesson for not taking care of your mother who devoted all life to raise you and worked day and night to give you a better education! " I told this episode to her neighbour ( my hotline. Salvation) who is very religious and she said to my mom to stop to say those things to me because it hurts me. After this she never said again until she breaks up in tears when I said she could stay for 3 weeks in my place. Is this all because she lives alone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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