Guest guest Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Hang in there . I know I continue to have moments like you describe, where there is a huge void where the nada/fada drama used to be. I sometimes still wish they would pursue me just so I knew they gave a da*n, but the few times my nada does send notes or emails, I quickly see how void she is of love for me. She only wants to fulfill her own needs. I suggest taking baby steps to fill that void as you feel you are able. Its like relearning something we all should have started learning at birth. We have to teach ourselves how to take care of our own needs and often even figuring out what those needs are can be difficult. I received lots of wise advice from this board to fill that void with lots of selfcare things. Listening to music, books, walks, massages...whatever you like to do for you and is in your budget. patinage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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