Re: FW: My story and some questions

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Hi Vero and thanks for the welcome

Isn't it sad we had to wait till they were 70 to know what nut cases they

are...I've off and on for years cut my ties with her when she got to be too

much...I'm once again at that point...She pulled another stunt where she

involved other people and I just told her, I was done..Then my sister started

seeing a Psycho Dr. and we found out about BPD...I always hated the outbursts

when we had Christmas, Easter, and so on..Then when you have kids that's when

things have to change...My oldest child, a daughter always knew her Gran was

nuts, but my son is a boy with Autism...He hasn't ever really been affected by

her because he can't really understand it all...But I still remember all the

times she's tryed so hard to get me to put him away somewhere...I finally told

her one day, " If that day should ever come along and that should happen, I won't

be taking care of another human being. " I will be taking care of me and only

me. " Further more he is my child and the only one I owe a damn thing too. " I'm

the oldest and of course I was made the adult so I'm the one that's always done

things for her, and my son has interfered with that as far as she's

concerned...She's hurt me numerous times over my son, but it really makes you

realize how evil and selfish they can be...I do know what you mean about

protecting your husband and children from their wrath....My kids always came

first, especially when it comes to her....Evil witch! Have a great day!

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> > So I found my first listing...Thanks Randi for posting this for me, I didn't

exactly know where to begin...I've been reading some of the other posts, being

new to all this, it's becoming more obvious that our Mother is a BPD...Too bad

it took so long for any one to even mention this to one of us...I'm guessing she

is what is called a HF borderline...She is one that does very often seem normal

and rational and then she can go wacko at any point...Which means out of the

blue insult you for no reason or be critical about something that doesn't even

have anything do with the subject your talking about...Last night my sister went

to pick some things up at her house and she immediately insulted her

hair...Said, " Do you like your hair? " It looks awful. " She'd just gone and had

it cut and highlighted, I told my baby sis it looked pretty, ignore Mother...

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