Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 The Holographic World, Part Five Inner Unity and the Soulmate Connection Many people on Earth search for their soulmate, but few understand the inner requirements that must be met to bring about the state of inner wholeness and unity necessary to unite with another in a true soulmate relationship. The first prerequisite is that both people in the relationship are whole and unified within themselves. If inner fragmenting exists within either, the relationship will suffer and ultimately fall apart. The rate of decline is related to the degree or fragmenting within each person. Inner Fragmenting and Relationships It is only the person who is whole and unified within themselves who attracts another who is whole and unified. This is the essence of a soulmate relationship. When you are fragmented, dissenting voices within your self draw to you another who is fragmented. The further you go into this relationship, the more you will discover your own fragmenting. The other person will reflect to you your fragmented nature. This "mirroring" can be a helpful tool in creating growth, but the fragmented person often chooses to see the other person rather than themselves in the mirror before them. Constantly confronted with the truth of their being, they begin to resent the other person. Soon hostilities develop. As they see this person before them, they see that within themselves which is broken and fragmented. They respond by rejecting this fragmenting and dissenting or "shadow" part of themselves. A person's feelings about themselves determine their feelings about others. In the beginning they may be able to project a positive attitude towards the other person, but as they go further into the relationship, more and more notes of disharmony will erupt as shadow selves play a greater role. Healing an Existing Relationship If you are currently in a relationship where this is the case, understand you must first heal yourself before you can heal the relationship. When couples seek to mainly heal the relationship, they are only addressing part of the equation. Each person must first begin a journey of self-examination to understand how their inner fragmenting has affected relationships throughout their life. They must become aware of the dissension that exists within themselves and take steps to bring about healing and inner unification. (See the Holographic World, Parts 1-4 for in-depth information about inner fragmenting and unification.) Creating Inner Unity Helps Draw your Soulmate If you are presently alone and seeking to draw a soulmate connection into your life, take time to examine your "fragmenting quotient (FQ)." Most people incarnated on Earth today still have some degree of fragmenting. Some have a large amount. Many lightworkers still have some areas of fragmenting. This is one of the greatest efforts underway right now, assisting each person who desires to do so to come into a place of wholeness. Many souls have chosen to unite Heaven and Earth at this point in Earth's history. In order to assist in this effort, a being does not have to be 100% completely harmonized and unified, but the greater the inner unification, the greater the result. That is why all lightworkers are being asked at this time to examine their FQ and bring awareness to any areas that still need healing. As you unite with aspects of your self you may have denied or pushed away, you begin truly loving them for the depth of understanding they have helped you attain. It is important to spend "quality time" each day alone with your self. Make a space in your life to satisfy your inner being's need to be loved and nurtured by you. When you learn to love and spend quality time with your self, you will know how to spend loving, quality time with another. When your own inner needs are not being met, you will feel distracted, your attention divided between whatever is before you and the call of your inner self. You can ignore this call and choose to exist in a purely physical way. This way will always feel hollow at its core. Sensing a "need" you will try to fill the hollow place within you with material things and even connections with others, though without the wellspring of inner connection, these connections will be superficial at best, and joy from material possessions will be fleeting. When you have inner unity, when you love and accept every aspect of your self, you will be drawn to others who love and accept themselves. As long as you are divided within your self, you will seek out others who are divided within themselves. This is the old way in which human consciousness has sought to heal itself for a very long time. People seek out others through the Law of Attraction in an attempt to learn about themselves, to experience themselves and bring their own divisiveness into physical reality so they can experience and work with it in a more direct way. You do not have to choose this way any longer. You can choose to create oneness and healing within your self and bring a relationship into your life that teaches you about your wholeness, rather than your brokenness. This is not to say there will not be challenges in a soulmate connection, but when you begin from the premise of wholeness and unification, you are better able to heal and transform any scenarios you encounter. The time is past for taking the long road of struggle and hardship in bringing about healing and renewal. Energies on the Earth plane are rapidly accelerating, allowing each person to choose wholeness in their present moment. Energizing the Timeline of Wholeness and Soulmate Reunion To speed up the process of inner unification, you can choose to connect with the energy of your self that is already experiencing this reality. By choosing to energize and access the timeline where you are experiencing inner unification and united with your soulmate, you can bring this reality into your present moment more quickly. Connect with the feeling, the vision, with every aspect of the reality your "self" who already exists there is experiencing. Every reality you are able to perceive through the doorway of your imagination is real and true for you. It exists in a parallel reality, meaning it is not currently being experienced by your present focus self, but that does not make it any less real. When your feelings expand to embrace this idea, many things will flow into your life easily and effortlessly. Include in your vision the understanding that as you reunite with your soulmate in physical reality, you join your lives together in one radiant beacon that shines a great light on the path of many. It is in this way that you join together for the higher good of all, uniting Heaven and Earth in the joyful dance of two unified souls. For more information, visit http://www.celestialvision.org Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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