Re: overdeveloped sense of responsibility for others?

[Guest guest]

It is a hard situation, and I speak as one who wishes anyone would have

rescued me. But unless our bruises are on the outside, the department

is so overloaded with kids taken from a crack house, or meth lab, where

2 year olds play on the floor while mom and BF cook meth, or kids burned

with an iron to teach them not to leave their clothes on the floor, and

has so few foster homes to go around, that sadly, KO s are left to fend

for themselves.

Not that no one cares, but limited resources and a lot of craziness.

And yea, I m 54, and all the BP conditioning is still lots of therapy

from leaving us.

Just keep loving her Letty, and telling her over and over, I don t just

love you when you do something for me. I don t just love you when you

are perfect. I CHOOSE, to love, YOU. Just because of who you are. That

will never change, dirty undies on the floor, bad grade on a paper, mom

having a bad day, I STILL will LOVE YOU.

That s what she needs to hear, over and over. How do I know? Cause it s

what all of us needed to hear.

Blessings

Doug

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