Guest guest Posted August 12, 2010 Report Share Posted August 12, 2010 I believe BPD is a physical malfunction of the brain...my nada was not abused as a child, she was the youngest of 9 and raised almost as an only child because she was a " menopause " baby and the next youngest was 14 years older than she. She was spoiled rotten and allowed to get away with a lot...my aunt ( her sister) always told me nada was a spoiled brat as a kid...so for my nadas case, it wasn't environmental, it must be something not working right within her. I agree with you. It really doesnt matter if she could " help herself " or not, we were wronged by our BPD parents ( and the non BPD parent who allowed this to go on) Jackie > Huh, I am very very interested in the cause. I don't know much about my > nada's childhood. It is hard to get reliable info from her, as you can > imagine. Her mother did have " depression " and was treated with shock > therapy. But other than that I don't know anything. > > But, despite how interested I am in the origins and reasons why, I still > think society did us a wrong. Whether a mother is unfit because of her > choices or her genetics, It doesn't matter. She is still unfit. And it is > up > to friends, neighbors, grandparents, and even those bitchy ladies at > church > who nada turned against me to notice a problem and help out a helpless > child. > > That said, I'm going to read all those articles. Thanks for the > references. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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