Guest guest Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 How true, Joe! > another one: > " You are what and who I say you are. Any and all traits and characteristics you may have are determinable only by me and subject to revision at my whim. When I contradict myself it is not because I am lying but because you are crazy and are making things up that never happened 5 minutes ago. Audio is faked, photos are 'shopped, and video is doctored. There you go again with your stories. " > > >> >> Hello, >> >> I could use some help. Growing up the rules of living with nada were not >> stated verbally but understood. I am having a hard time putting them into >> words. Can you think of any rules that a BPD person would create if they >> spoke them out loud? The most I can come up with is " mother always comes >> first " . Thanks. >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 right on the head, ! In fact, Fada almost said something *very* close to that in his whole hateful disowning emails, lol Holly On Sat, Sep 11, 2010 at 12:15 AM, christine.depizan < christine.depizan@...> wrote: > > > (humbly submitting another one): " Your mission in life,which you chose to > accept simply by being my child,is to make *me* feel good or better about > *me*--even when or especially when that involves making *you* feel bad or > worse about *you*. " > > > > > > > > Hello, > > > > I could use some help. Growing up the rules of living with nada were not > > stated verbally but understood. I am having a hard time putting them into > > words. Can you think of any rules that a BPD person would create if they > > spoke them out loud? The most I can come up with is " mother always comes > > first " . Thanks. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 10, 2010 Report Share Posted September 10, 2010 right on the head, ! In fact, Fada almost said something *very* close to that in his whole hateful disowning emails, lol Holly On Sat, Sep 11, 2010 at 12:15 AM, christine.depizan < christine.depizan@...> wrote: > > > (humbly submitting another one): " Your mission in life,which you chose to > accept simply by being my child,is to make *me* feel good or better about > *me*--even when or especially when that involves making *you* feel bad or > worse about *you*. " > > > > > > > > Hello, > > > > I could use some help. Growing up the rules of living with nada were not > > stated verbally but understood. I am having a hard time putting them into > > words. Can you think of any rules that a BPD person would create if they > > spoke them out loud? The most I can come up with is " mother always comes > > first " . Thanks. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 11, 2010 Report Share Posted September 11, 2010 Great post and replies! To: WTOAdultChildren1 From: kyjohnson40days@... Date: Sat, 11 Sep 2010 07:05:35 +0000 Subject: Re: BPD rules? Follow my rules. I did NOT say XYZ was a rule! I said XYZ was a rule. You're a horrible kid because you don't follow the rules. That's not a rule. No, I didn't tell you that rule 5 minutes ago, you're insane as well as disobedient. All you have to do is follow the rules. What are the rules? Well, if you don't know, you're stupid as well as insane. I said follow my rules. That's not a rule, you made that up. No, I didn't tell you that was a rule--you're mistaken. The rule is obviously do XYZ, not ABC. Who told you that was a rule? You're trying to con me!! You know very well the rule is ABC and NOT XYZ. How dare you try to fool me--you sure think you're smart, don't you? I can't believe how sneaky you are at your age. You clearly have no conscience. It must be your worthless father's genes. I think he's showing signs of psychosis. Okay, I think I've made my point. Great question, though. > > Hello, > > I could use some help. Growing up the rules of living with nada were not > stated verbally but understood. I am having a hard time putting them into > words. Can you think of any rules that a BPD person would create if they > spoke them out loud? The most I can come up with is " mother always comes > first " . Thanks. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 11, 2010 Report Share Posted September 11, 2010 Great post and replies! To: WTOAdultChildren1 From: kyjohnson40days@... Date: Sat, 11 Sep 2010 07:05:35 +0000 Subject: Re: BPD rules? Follow my rules. I did NOT say XYZ was a rule! I said XYZ was a rule. You're a horrible kid because you don't follow the rules. That's not a rule. No, I didn't tell you that rule 5 minutes ago, you're insane as well as disobedient. All you have to do is follow the rules. What are the rules? Well, if you don't know, you're stupid as well as insane. I said follow my rules. That's not a rule, you made that up. No, I didn't tell you that was a rule--you're mistaken. The rule is obviously do XYZ, not ABC. Who told you that was a rule? You're trying to con me!! You know very well the rule is ABC and NOT XYZ. How dare you try to fool me--you sure think you're smart, don't you? I can't believe how sneaky you are at your age. You clearly have no conscience. It must be your worthless father's genes. I think he's showing signs of psychosis. Okay, I think I've made my point. Great question, though. > > Hello, > > I could use some help. Growing up the rules of living with nada were not > stated verbally but understood. I am having a hard time putting them into > words. Can you think of any rules that a BPD person would create if they > spoke them out loud? The most I can come up with is " mother always comes > first " . Thanks. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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