too bad we cannot divorce them

[Guest guest]

Sometimes I think with a little envy about my father who divorced my nada 30

years ago and moved to another city. Yes, they had a stormy and long divorce,

but nobody expects him to keep in contact with her. He is free.

We, children, of BPD, cannot 'divorce' our nadas, though. Somehow, we are stuck

with them for life. Yes, we can go no-contact, but especially with aging nadas,

even legally, we have some kind of obligation with them. If something happens to

nada, doctors, friends, neighbors call ... her children, of course. Ex spouses,

on the other hand, are off the hook.

Not fair.